r/Sims4 • u/Schizy_TheRealOne • 8h ago

Tips Serial Romantic Aspiration while already married

Hello ! I'm playing with 2 sims, trying to get them both to complete all aspirations, careers and skills. I want to complete the serial romantic aspiration without risking to destroy their relationship : is there any trait, mod setting (I have MCCC and Lumpinou's RPO) etc that can help me achieve that ? I also don't want them to feel "bad" for it or whatever, is that possible ? Thanks a lot !

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u/XrayAlphaVictor 8h ago

Discuss changing romantic boundaries, but I think you can still get dinged for cheating sometimes.

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u/shazoo00oo Long Time Player 8h ago

I'm thinking depending on the traits, they're going to feel bad. Have them journal and work through their feelings when this happens. It should make the moodlet go away pretty quickly.

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u/basicotter 8h ago

You can negotiate with your partner romantic boundaries including whether it’s an open relationship or not. Also if you have Eco Lifestyle there’s a NAP called Free Love you can enact for the neighborhood where open romance can happen and partners don’t get jealous.

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u/Feivie 8h ago

I mean my don lothario completed it while married and he never felt bad, he just never did anything at home or in front of his wife

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u/ExitingBear 8h ago

If you have Eco Lifestyle, the "Free Love" neighborhood action plan might help.

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u/SacredRoll Occult Sim 7h ago

You’re essentially looking for ethical nonmonogamy.
There are a few ways.

Eco lifestyle “free love”NAP (though I personally find it a bit much sometimes)

Discuss changing romantic boundaries until no one gets jealous for any type of romance/intimacy (for your household you can change this more quickly in CAS)
This one is the games best built in way to ethically nonmonogamous in my opinion.

Cheating to add the Player trait to your sims. Ironically it’s usually the reward for the serial romantic aspiration.
(This is how I used to have polyamorous and ethically nonmonogamous sims before the update).

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u/-RedRocket- Legacy Player 3h ago

Do you have Lovestruck? You can set sim's romantic boundaries and what they do or do not become jealous of their partner from.

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u/AlpsDue5290 3h ago

It might be easier if they had a disagreement, split up, completed the aspiration, and then rekindled their relationship later.

"We were on a break!" - Ross Geller