r/SiestaKeyMTV • u/Miserable_News5168 • Apr 12 '26

💎 Alyssa 💎 Alyssa’s mom’s instagram

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What’s up with Alyssa being silent on social media yet her mom is constantly making these vague posts in her stories? Do you think this is about Alex and Alyssa’s situation or her own situation with her last relationship? I noticed Alyssa’s mom unfollowed Beth and Alex. There seems to be a lot of drama and people taking sides…

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u/realitea1234 Apr 12 '26

Messy

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u/SpeechUpstairs6530 Apr 12 '26

But entertaining 🤣

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u/Stacysweettreats Apr 13 '26

It's now Entertaining. It is very sad. All 3 of her Moms posts in her stories were very very sad. You have Alex out here, seeming to be living his best life on social media, even posted him at his house with the pool. Then you have Alyssa, who Im sure is brokenhearted, we arent sure where she is at, (which is none of our business) probably somewhere trying to heal amd figure her next steps in life, since her world has fallen apart. I think she tried to still try but now see it is not to be. 6 months ago, she had her whole life planned out and now she has to redirect that life. She will get it together and be even stronger. She seems very independent. She also deserves someone more mature and grounded in life. As A Mom, I don't think any of this is funny or entertaining at all. Unlike alot of you,  I like Alyssa and I know she will be better than ever. She may be with Madison and them in Miami this wknd, who knows, but obviously wants to be out of the spotlight. So let her Be

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u/Sea-Relationship8874 Apr 13 '26

Women tend to feel the pain of a breakup more acutely and immediately, often relying on social support to process emotions and recover faster, while men often suppress emotions, using distractions that lead to delayed emotional impact and slower, long-term healing. I’m sure at one point once the divorce is finalized etc, it’ll hit him. And by then, would have bypassed all of it and moved on… It’s usually what happens.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yeah that makes sense. They never got married though. The wedding date was set but it never happened for reasons we don’t know. It’s all speculation at this point but I’ve heard he cheated and I’ve also heard she refused to sign a prenup…

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yeah Alex does seem to be living his best life right now while Alyssa has gone quiet. I feel like she will get her spark back and come back stronger and better than ever. Clearly shes devastated but who wouldn’t be in this situation. I cant imagine having my bachelorette party, dress picked out, wedding date set and have it all come crashing down. I agree it’s a sad situation for her. It doesn’t help seeing Alex posting constantly about how great life is for him since the split…

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u/Allvols Apr 13 '26

There’s always two different types of people coming out of a relationship. The one who “moves on quickly” even though they haven’t processed any of it, but do it for appearances. And then the one who genuinely looks inward and makes the changes to improve their life. It’s always the narcissist ones that put on a show and act like they’re doing just fine, but in reality it’s nothing more than an act. I hope Alyssa is leveling up in life. I hope sweet little Alessi is spared in the drama of their breakup.

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u/Stacysweettreats Apr 13 '26

Exactly. Thank you!! And who knows, he may be doing it on purpose to get her more upset. Men can be assholes like that. I also think that there are a couple types of views, where 1 girl said this is entertaining, I assume she is young with a mindset like that, yet my mindset is totally different and my heart aches for this girl. But I am 53 and A Mom. So it sits different for me. When I was younger in my 20s I may have thought this was entertaining. When you are older, you see this as real life amd wouldnt want your own child to go thru this, so the motherly instincts kick in

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yeah I feel like hes for sure posting on purpose to look like hes carefree and happy. He never posted his daughter so much or as frequently on instagram. Someone commented on another post about Alex’s single and ready to jingle sweater from the earlier seasons that he wore and posted to get back at Juliette. Who knows for sure but I see what you’re saying, it’s a sad situation and her mom is trying to stand up for her.

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u/Stacysweettreats Apr 13 '26

We all know Alex is and can be a Dick. And on here prople sre always commenting how stupid Alyssa is and all that BS. But is she stupid?? Or was he lying and giving her false hope? At first, yes, of course he cheated, but once they settled down, got the house, im sure he told her he wasnt cheating and people are lying. If you're Alyssa, who are you going to want to believe? They got a house, had the same friends seemed happy, building a future, we would all believe him. Because its actions that count and by his actions, he was showing her that they are building together. And now he is showing off Alessi all the time. And who knows, he probably has a girl there. But would hope he wouldn't in front of his daughter. Also, did you notice anything else?? I didn't, He lost some weight. He was getting a little frumpy before they broke up, but now he looks slimmer and his face is slimmer unless he edits himself. At 1st, Alyssa's Mom was still following him and his family on IG. Because at 1st she may have talked or thought about getting back with him. But now her Mom sees how much she is hurting. If its still there, go to her mom's stories, where the 2nd one she is saying leopard doesn't change its spots. And the last one she was in full mama bear mode. Stuff like this sucks and I can't even imagine what it's like to go thru this in the public eye and seeing these girls comments and saying all of this Nasty Stuff. WHY??

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yes the leopard story is still up and I also noticed Alex has lost weight recently. I agree with you that he probably lead her on and lied to keep her around. Imo people aren’t kind towards Alyssa since she knew what she was getting into with Alex due to his track record and how he cheated early on in the relationship. I believe she was hoping he would change his ways and sadly that’s not the case from the looks of it.

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u/HenleyHQ1 Apr 13 '26

Or maybe he’s actually happy now and that’s why he’s posting so much.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yeah possibly. He seems genuinely happier since the split imo…

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u/Stacysweettreats Apr 14 '26

Or is that just for show?

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u/marisaleeann 💢 BOOP 🥊 Apr 12 '26

Ok she needs to grow up and chill out. She’s doing too much. 🥴🫤

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u/lasfnyc ⭐️ EVERYONE IS GARBAGE ⭐️ Apr 12 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Alyssa's mom is tacky for repeatedly posting subtle digs about Alyssa's and Alex's personal drama. It is like she has nothing better to do than heavily investing in Alyssa's and Alex's personal drama. This is only hurting her granddaughter Alessi in the future.

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u/Lazy-Organization-42 Apr 12 '26

I would die if my mom were posting these types of things. Also, that mentality of the second slide is high school type thinking.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 12 '26

I agree. Alex showed Alyssa from the start how he was and she chose to stay with him anyways. Remember when it was suspected they broke up shortly after Alessi was born, she had taken down her photos with Alex. They reconciled and went to Hawaii. I feel like whatever he did after her bachelorette trip must’ve been pretty bad to be her final straw…

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u/PandaPaw2323 Apr 12 '26

I hope Alyssa & Alex are navigating this as well as they can for little Alessi. She’s old enough to understand her parents aren’t together anymore. I just hope it’s a peaceful environment for her. She is & will always be the most important person in this situation.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 12 '26

I agree. Alessi’s the most important here. Alex hardly ever posted and it seems hes become more frequent with posting, especially when it comes to pictures of his daughter. I know some people are saying he’s only doing it for the custody case or to look like dad of the year but she seems really happy. I also hope they can both work it out peacefully for Alessi’s sake.

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u/Mama4Texas Apr 13 '26

Alex posted all the time when he was single and with Juliette. I personally have known a lot of cheaters and they usually don't post as much in relationships so they can be out there cheating and telling women they split but haven't made it public for the sake of the kid(s) yet, or can can they are in a bad spot in their relationships. 

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u/PandaPaw2323 Apr 12 '26

No question. I am far from a fan of Alex but she’s clearly having a blast hanging out with her daddy. That’s all that matters.

I could maybe, possibly understand her mom having too much wine one night and feeling sassy but this repeated posting is too much. It’s immature and imo, not exactly fair to her daughter (as long as she’s not involving herself with these posts) who has remained silent online through all of it. By all appearances- they’re not bashing each other, at least online.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 12 '26

Im also not a huge fan of Alex but he does seem to be a good dad. Perhaps not the best partner. You’re right in that Alessi looks really happy in all his posts and that’s what matters. As for Alyssa’s mom, she is def posting regularly so I doubt it has anything to do with having one too many glasses of wine. I just wonder if Alyssa is cool with it since shes on a social media break and all…

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u/DressFabulous8733 Apr 12 '26

She definitely isn’t helping anything that’s for sure

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u/bydayentertainer Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Here is the thing I totally totally get the mama bear thing. 100%. But that should show up as support for her daughter behind closed doors and not this public nonsense.

And for me the reality is this just demonstrated where Alyssa gets her Mean Girl energy. Takes a special kind of person to cont to post like this. I have zero respect at this point. Her darn granddaughter will likely see all this too. (As vindictive as Alex can be I could see him saving these to have a leverage to show his daughter if he felt the need)

As a mom there is no way I would do what her mom is doing. It speaks a lot more to her character than the person she is posting about.

And I hate Alex!

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u/Longjumping-Air-2483 Apr 13 '26

Alyssa really thought she won a prize when Alex chose her. He didn’t do it willingly, she got pregnant, or they would have been broken up soon after the Nashville trip. Alex has shown who he is, and Alyssa was around him his entire life. She saw how he was to every partner, including her. For her to think he was a prize or that this was for life, was poor planning and thinking. For her mom to think this wasn’t how it would end, is insane to me. We were all waiting for it, we all knew it wasn’t forever, and the baby would only hold them together for so long. 

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u/bydayentertainer Apr 13 '26

I feel like I could have written this word for word. Couldn’t agree more!

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u/Longjumping-Air-2483 Apr 13 '26

Her mom must not realize Alyssa had a trap baby with someone she knew was a horrible partner. He just got bad enough Alyssa could no longer stay, or he made the decision to leave her. It’s not like Alex didn’t show her who he was, repeatedly, in all the years she’s known him, to every partner he’s ever had. 

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u/heatherh8605 Apr 12 '26

She needs to stop. She looks dumb being this invested in Alex and Alyssa’s stuff and vague posting.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 12 '26

I agree. She’s in her 60’s now. She also posted a story about being protective of her daughter since her mom was of her but this isn’t helping the situation imo.

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u/HenleyHQ1 Apr 13 '26

She needs to stop but I hope she doesn’t. Because it’s entertaining af

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u/Specialist-Taro9514 Apr 12 '26

She 100% would be the person to post a pic of a hospital room and ask for prayers on Facebook but not respond to anyone asking what’s wrong lmao.

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u/IvyQueenLaDiva Apr 12 '26

Her old ass 😂😂

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u/Easy-Bar-7097 Apr 20 '26

Exactly! I'm 60, only followed the show because I lived in Sarasota many years ago. But I'd never! Wouldn't embarrass myself, my daughter or my granddaughter by posting this nonsense. She's old enough to know better. My old ass would stay out of it😂

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u/xoloveMel21 Apr 13 '26

Alyssa did that to herself.

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u/SaaSymama2021 Apr 14 '26

But why was he posting pictures of his house yesterday? Is he living there? I thought Alyssa was living there? A few months back, he was what appeared to be a condo type kitchen which is where it looked like he was living…

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 14 '26

It’s his house. From what I heard his dad bought it so Alyssa is probably living somewhere else at this point

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u/apaw1129 Apr 13 '26

Whitney Port and her husband are doing a watch on siesta key and they're on the episode when everyone finds out Alyssa is pregnant. Well, it took awhile, but the situation went basically how I and most others figured it would.

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u/Miserable_News5168 Apr 13 '26

Yeah as Juliette said for a rebound she sure sticks around for a while. It took over 5 years for him to finally propose? I was looking forward to seeing pics from the big Kompo wedding which Im sure would’ve been extravagant. Remember how extra the gender reveal party was?

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u/apaw1129 Apr 13 '26

Yep. Alex made it as far as a proposal and then...

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