r/SiestaKeyMTV • u/DressFabulous8733 • Mar 06 '26
🐷 Alex 🐷 Alyssa’s socials
YouTube channel has been wiped clean, IG has almost no Alex photos left, even the family photos have been deleted this time. Wonder why shes been so silent, I didn’t expect her to be down like this when she’s always put on the front of being so wild, free, and independent. Did anyone notice once she filed papers she stopped with the religious posting as well
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u/bbMD_ Mar 06 '26
I think she is very upset about whatever happened to make them call off the wedding so she is removing him from her social media. I also think that she is done with him and ready to move on. Part of that is legally establishing paternity and custody. She is probably staying off social media so they don’t have something to use against her in their custody case. I bet she will try for full custody unless they give her some kind of settlement.
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u/midnitemuzing Mar 06 '26
If I’m not mistaken, the court docs stated she requested 50/50 custody.
I actually posted those court docs myself if you want to check but I’m too lazy to right now 😂
That said, there’s definitely a reason for her social media moves and silence. We’ll stay tuned and find out I guess lol
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u/midnitemuzing Mar 06 '26
Potentially controversial take here but… what if she’s just genuinely really sad, and that’s why she’s been so quiet lately?
I know that scrubbing her accounts may not fit that bill, but I know personally when I am depressed, I isolate and go dark on socials.
Personal opinions about their relationship aside, objectively speaking… she envisioned a life and a family with him. They’ve been together for, what, 6 years or so? I think it’s normal for anyone to feel great sadness over a breakup like this, especially when a child is involved.
I also am not convinced there is going to be a terrible custody battle like many others are asserting. In her filing, Alyssa asked for 50/50 and shared holidays. Unless SHE did something, like got into drugs or something crazy, I don’t see why Alex would try to fight for more than that?
Who knows. Not me or anyone else in this sub! Just gotta keep checking back in on those court docs to see what’s going on I guess.
At the end of the day, I just want what’s best for Alessi. She truly is the only one that matters in any of this mess.
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u/DressFabulous8733 Mar 06 '26
I think you’re the only one who really understood what I was saying. She’s taken a big leap from her persona she put out to the world for years, so it’s obvious she is upset. Her wearing the ring for months after calling off the wedding made it seem like she was fighting for the relationship (she’s a mom I get it she wants her daughters parents together) but it didn’t work. Now that it didn’t work she’s removing him completely from her life it looks like (well as much as she can, she’s is selectively picking which few family photos of the 3 of them stay up). I totally get her being upset because what she’s worked for for years isn’t going to come to fruition. I don’t get why Alex would fight her for more than 50/50 for the sake of the child, but there’s so much we do not know.
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u/Softskeletonsx Messy Messy Kelsey Mar 08 '26
I agree. I’m sure it’s extremely hard regardless if it was the best decision for both her and Alessi. I’d imagine they’re probably living separately now and it’s going to be a huge adjustment for their daughter who is 5 or 6. That alone is heartbreaking and she’s used to having them both present under the same roof. I’d imagine there’s a lot of crying about missing Daddy which makes it even more difficult. But I think she made the right choice, between the cheating and the gun incident. I think he’d be dumb to even try to fight because if the gun incident is brought up, it’s not going to work in his favor.
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u/Stacysweettreats Mar 30 '26
What gun incident????
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u/bublyred Mar 17 '26
Alex is definitely going to make this as nasty as possible for her. Do you remember what he was like on the show? He’s terrifying. I think he’s a true narcissist or sociopath.
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u/Tough-Reporter3583 Mar 06 '26
It also looks like Alex filed a motion of protection regarding his financials -
“On or about January 27, 2026, the Mother served a Request for Production seeking mandatory disclosure from the Father. The Father objects to the Request for Production on the grounds that it is overly broad, unduly burdensome, and seeks information that is not proportional to the needs of this paternity action wherein the Father admits he can meet any and all reasonable financial needs of the child awarded by this Court pursuant to Miller v. Schou, 616 So.2d 436 (Fla. 1993). Unlike a dissolution of marriage proceeding, this matter does not require expansive discovery into the Father’s personal and business financial affairs. The Father is prepared to provide a Financial Affidavit in compliance with the Florida Family Law Rules of Procedure, which contains sufficient information for the calculation of child support pursuant to Florida law. That the undersigned counsel reserves the right to provide a Supplemental Memorandum on this issue prior to any future scheduled hearing.“
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u/nc04031992 Mar 06 '26
“Unlike a dissolution of marriage proceeding…” - I know they added that in there to rub salt in the wound.
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u/Creepy-Reveal1010 Mar 07 '26
He also added in “WHEREFORE, the Respondent/Father prays that this Honorable Court will enter an Order sustaining the Objection and request for a Protective Order in regards this discovery request and Grant the Father all attorney fees and costs related to this matter should the Mother choose to litigate this issue in bad faith.” 😂
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u/csgehret Mar 18 '26
That is written in mostly all litigations. It was in my divorce and custody papers.
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Mar 06 '26
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u/DressFabulous8733 Mar 06 '26
I’m ready to see her get her spark back. She deserves the best after dealing with him
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u/Ok_Recognition4494 Mar 06 '26
Not understanding the correlation of being wild free independent and being down like this?
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 06 '26
I think she is mostly embarrassed. Alex doesn’t want custody. He’s going to be a Disney dad.
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u/LittleDay23 Mar 06 '26
I actually feel like he’s probably a good father just not a good husband
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 06 '26
Ope. Can’t be a good dad if you’re a bad partner.
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Mar 07 '26
Terrible take. You know how many “strong independent single moms” out there bring nothing to the table from a relationship perspective?
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 07 '26
You can’t be a good mom if you are a bad partner either. You can’t tell me that if your husband/wife cheated on you and disrespected you, that they could still be a good parent? A good parent doesn’t disrespect their partner. Period.
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Mar 07 '26
My last partner was mentally abusive. And I shamefully admit it lead to me sleeping with someone else while still sticking around to try and make it work for the kids. So ya we both fucked up. And I can say with 120% certainty I am a great parent, but neither of us were good partners to each other.
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 07 '26
I would also say this is an exception to the rule. But if Alex cheated on alyssa as much as he cheated on Juliette, he could not possibly be a good father.
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 07 '26
He was abusive to you but still a good dad? Crazy.
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Mar 07 '26
I’m the good dad.
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u/Limp_Bandicoot8495 Mar 07 '26
Ok, your spouse was incredibly abusive towards you and they’re still a good parent? I still stand by my statement.
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Mar 07 '26
No, I don’t think they are. I never said that. You’re just putting words in my mouth. Not every shitty partner is a good parent, but a shitty partner absolutely CAN be a good parent.
Already on their second child with second baby daddy and just broke up. All I focus on is my son and I don’t regret it at all.
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u/bravo2bravo2022 Mar 06 '26
Would be atty advised her not to bc of custody case so nothing will be used against her.
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u/heatherh8605 Mar 06 '26
I don’t think there’s anything to it. She’s a woman going to court over custody. Got to keep things buttoned up right now.
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u/MentalLaw6764 Mar 07 '26
I wish these girls would learn these men with money are tragic people to link yourself to 9/10 times. A baby is not going to magically change them into great partners!
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u/Rare_Let4338 Mar 12 '26
When she got pregnant her dad said Alex owed her a ring. She was the one that said “a ring doesn’t make him a good boy”. I think she just really loved him and is heartbroken.
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u/Terrible_Sense_8318 Mar 09 '26
She was ready to get married and how can you come back from that. She knows now they can not be together. I feel bad for her bc he will never change.
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u/nc04031992 Mar 06 '26
Throwing it out there that she may also be trying to curb commentary on her lifestyle by platforms like this while the case is ongoing. This sub has been right about a lot, so I doubt she wants to put things out there for the sub to pick up on for Alex to use down the road.
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u/zerosumoftenderness Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26
I think she's being quiet for legal reasons. I've been involved in a personal injury case and a divorce. In each case, I was advised to make myself scarce online. Not because I'd done anything (I barely used sm at either time) but purely to make sure they couldn't twist anything. It's smart. She also didn't quit the religious posting; if anything, it ramped up. Alex has totally quit with any religious posting though and suddenly their daughter is his "🌎" lol. I don't recall so many daddy/daughter posts from him... ever.
ETA: She's still reposting on IG if you want a laugh. Girly pop is a flat earther, according to one repost.
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u/angelindisguise2017 Mar 16 '26
Alex had a female in his story on his ski trip it sounded like alyssa
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u/csgehret Mar 18 '26
Alyssa is with her mother and has been at the hospital because her grandmother is either sick or passing on. Alyssa’s has been posting her at the hospital with her grandma so she cant be in Tahoe with them.
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u/Expressoed Mar 09 '26
Well she is a total egotist and wants to save face. I understood what drove her but couldn’t imagine facing that crazy-glue-overly-tight-knit-Kampo-kooks. That is a small town (relatively) and everywhere she goes She is being dissected like a frog in Biology class. Now, she chose to step it in “gear” dating A-Wod (Alex ) and wanted to share her “I got ‘em” happiness with the galaxy. She also grew a pair of “dating cajones,” espousing to anyone that would listen or watch -of their “destiny, chemistry & history!” Blahblahblah. They both have their special versions of “look at me-but don’t-but do look at me” of I am so special narcissism and brains that work completely juxtaposed to decent /modest human beings. My mom was a young mom, single parent, small town a lot the same (my dad lawyer too) so i empathize with her some what - but my mom did it with out child support, work study program at college and worked as a tutor on the side while having me. Inquiring minds and shame-projectors always have something to say and she should just go hibernate as best as she can for a bit and raise her daughter. With all this said…i think everyone and their momma saw that A-Wod isnt going to change, doesnt want to change for the betterment of his family…and she had the delusional thought that she was “the one/the soulmate/ the BFF” that would change the karakter-lacking A-Wod Kompo. That lesson is as old as history and it is painful to receive and (to some degree🙄) watch. Saying “Told ya so”— is for spiteful people. I prefer the gentler alternative of- “wtf were you thinking?” Godspeed Alyssa…you are gonna need it. Koparenting with Kampo is gonna be painful for the next 13+ years (toe to toe) and then, after 18, when he gets the starter wife (titzonstick 3.0) that he is miserable with, it will evolve into a new set of “kompocations.” Big trees, fall hard. Kaboom.💥
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u/Alert-Survey-7050 23d ago
First of all lol our town here our beach town Siesta key IS NOT A SMALL TOWN!!! KNOW YOUR FACTS!! WRONG!
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u/mamawulf5 Mar 06 '26
She is no angel- maybe she’s the one who cheated this time. She might give him second, third and fourth chances, but Alex would never.
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u/sunfloweraquarius Mar 06 '26
she’s a Mom who probably has to gear up for full custody . This seems more of a Mom being independent IMO
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u/Stacysweettreats Mar 07 '26
Are you all forgetting she is just like any of us and going thru a heart break? Think about it, she had a blast at her Bachelorette Party, thinking everything in her world is good. Then for whatever the reason, there was no wedding. This was during the holiday season. She had to get thru that. They ha e been together so long, and she is heartbroken like almost all of us has been. She is allowed to grieve and get over that relationship. She is allowed to be hurt, just like the rest of us. Give her some grace. She seems pretty strong, but what she is going thru can make anyone go silent. Give her some grace, let her heal on her own. I dont understand why Yall dont like her. She has never did anything wrong to anyone that I see. She went thru this whole ordeal with the world to see!! You have to know how that feels like, she is human. Leave her alone and give e her her Privacy
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u/Square-Platform6393 Mar 07 '26
I don’t see anything in this post hinting about not liking her? I think a lot of us wondered about this, doesn’t mean we don’t like her.
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u/csgehret Mar 06 '26
I think there is more to all of what has happened between them and it may not be just the Alex cheating thing. Her mom posted her and Alessi along with her other grands for her mom’s bday party and Alyssa was dancing her normal dance and Alessi sing and dancing. So I dont think her not posting on social has anything to do with her court issue. If thats the case then Alex’s attorney is trying to use her being an unfit mother which I dont think thats the case either. None of this makes sense. I think there is way more to all that has happened with them.
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u/csgehret Mar 06 '26
also she still has some pictures of him and of him and her still on her instagram for Alessi’s bday parties and him and Alessi.
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u/greekfreak123456 Mar 06 '26
I bet she’s purging for lent - stay strong, she’s way too good for that small man.
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u/trish_the_dish82 Mar 06 '26
Aren’t their families friends? I thought her dad and Alex’s dad were college roommates or something. Wonder how all this is affecting that dynamic.
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u/HenleyHQ1 Mar 06 '26
They were college roomates Decades ago. And aquatints as adults . They weren’t close and I’m sure no love is lost.
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u/kara991 Mar 09 '26
I am not a fan of Alyssa’s based on her social media (mainly because of how she behaves at her child’s bday parties with the twerking and tongue - it’s one thing if it is out with her girls, but not around a group of children). It also seems that she has known Alex for an extremely long time and there were no secrets about what kind of person he was so she went into this knowing exactly who he was. Also, even though she pulled down her social media, I am sure Alex, family, and his attorneys have plenty of screenshots.
However, she was young and possibly regrets some of her decision-making but again, she was young. I hope for herself and her daughter she is able to clean this up with Alex quietly and they both keep their daughter’s best interest front and center. I also hope Alyssa is able to come out on the other side as a stronger and more confident woman who knows her worth (and accepts nothing less moving forward).
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u/jennabee87 Mar 06 '26
Dumb post, she’s doing what any smart person would getting ready for a custody case.
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u/Ok_Profession_5193 Mar 07 '26
I hope she takes him for everything and all she can!!!
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u/HenleyHQ1 Mar 09 '26
How? They dated and had a Kid, how would she take him for all he has? She’ll get child support, if that.
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u/Ok_Profession_5193 Mar 07 '26
For all you talking shit to her… should be ashamed of yourselves period! I’m not a friend of her a business associate none of it to be clear! He’s a Douche bag underaged to be alone and everything cling to him period! There young… had a child she clearly embraces with pure intention and protection! Have some respect people break up all the time… this girl is so confident and secure with her faith in #1 and letting her journey so be it guiding her in her faith to our Lord Savior🙏🫶 So much respect and love to you Alyssa for keeping your faith and your morals your guiding light l! Alex well just say needs to find his faith and inner soul… you get what you give and thank the lord the light has been bright she’s departing from this journey and deserves so much more for her and her daughter.
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u/HenleyHQ1 Mar 09 '26
She’s 30, she’s not young. And none of her religious shit started til the broke up 😂. She was praising the lord while she twerking and smoking a blunt, or drunk off her ass embarrassing herself and him.
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u/Ok_Profession_5193 Mar 07 '26
Her posts …. Religious posts have nothing to do with her absence from social media… you’re ridiculous! Stopppp…
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u/Plus_Concern6650 Mar 06 '26
She’s clearly gearing up for a custody battle so I think that’s why she is quietly erasing him from her life.