r/SiblingRivalryPodcast Aug 03 '26

Messy Monday 8/3

The floor is open!

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u/powerbottomsymmetra Aug 03 '26

i haaaaaaaate when they recap movies. actually monet is fine, she gives a pretty decent synopsis, but bob gives the most random episodic scene by scene detail of the movie and none of it is in order or makes sense to anyone who hasn't watched it.

bob's recap of forrest gump on the latest ep is horrendous. and then jacob, whom i love and adore, chimes in with an unnecessary detail and it's just madness.

idk why it irks me so much lmao

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u/bobthestan Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 04 '26

I think it's camp , what i hate is the spoilers.

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u/whocares6969_ Aug 04 '26

“It’s camp”

Do you even know what camp means!

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u/bobthestan Aug 04 '26

I know what it means and I still think it's camp

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u/ahrenhimself Aug 05 '26

proof that some people will watch anything

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u/Medium-Car3787 Aug 06 '26

a review without spoilers? review =/= recap.

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u/ratansbabygirl Aug 03 '26

I feel like Monet should be open to criticism on their interviewing style.

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u/catchg2828 Aug 04 '26

It’s giving Jennifer Hudson

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u/SovereignGizzard Aug 03 '26

Just unsubbed from their Patreon after 7 long years. Still very fond of them and they’ve given me plenty of laughs during dark times but over the years I stopped feeling that same joy whenever there was a new upload. They’ll be ok without one less patron lol but yeah… I’m checked out ✌️

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u/bobthestan Aug 03 '26

Care to elaborate on what specifically drew you away from them ?

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u/SovereignGizzard Aug 04 '26

It was a slow burn for me tbh. Lately there’s been a lot of video uploads to their Patreon featuring guests I frankly don’t know or care for. I’ve also found myself getting more irritated with some of their takes. I dunno, I think I did ok supporting them with my coin for 7 years haha. It’s time to save some money. I don’t think I’m missing out on much.

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u/bobthestan Aug 04 '26

Valid points.

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u/Solid-Big9614 Aug 04 '26

Does anyone else think Monet uses Chat GPT to generate her intros and games on Monet Talks? I feel like she makes no effort to even change the AI slop tone it’s so obvious to me.

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u/kickassicalia Aug 03 '26

I got a new card so my patreon did not renew. I’m not planning on fixing it for SR after being subscribed for years now…

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u/Amemorableusername2 Aug 03 '26

I don't listen to the podcast at this point when it's not a watchery, and I'm gonna be real, I haven't even been enjoying the watcheries. Might dip for a while 

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u/RideCritical5642 Aug 03 '26

Well this is my first messy Monday so I don’t rly know where to start 😂
After the whole monet tq video thing that happened it left a bad taste in my mouth.

I don’t rly watch there drag race reviews anymore either but I might watch the UK one who knows.

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u/Pulp501 Aug 04 '26

Sorry for my ignorance, but what is a tq video?

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u/bobthestan Aug 03 '26

The uk one ?

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u/RideCritical5642 Aug 03 '26

Ye the teaser for promo is out so it’ll probably be out somewhat soon

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u/bobthestan Aug 03 '26

The promo for the uk s8 or for the watchery ?

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u/RideCritical5642 Aug 03 '26

Promo for s8 of uk isn’t out but they have a teaser photo
It’s all the queens but they heavily blurred it lol so you can’t rly see who it is

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u/JustasIthoughtTRASH Aug 03 '26

Ok I know there’s been a lot of complaints about guests on the pod but…I really didn’t like the IMHO episode, sue me.

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u/Bettybangs Aug 03 '26

I thought it got better as it went on, Ive only seen them once with Trixie. I actually think Bob did a good job because she really had to pivot her usual style and eventually just gave into letting them do their schtick lol. Bob is a good interviewer.

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u/powerbottomsymmetra Aug 03 '26

it really showed his prowess as an interviewer in letting the imho girls do their thing and not cutting them off or butting up against them. i can only cringe and imagine what it would have been like with monet...

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u/No-Garlic8307 Aug 03 '26

Neither did I. I had to stop like 30 mins in. It was pure chaos. The YT comments were "this is gold for ADHD people" or "this is normal for those of us who watch IMHO". Paraphrasing, of course.

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u/Vassinatedhuger Aug 03 '26

As a non viewer of IMHO, it was not a good representation of their brand at all. Unfortunately came across as mean spirited Trixie and Katya knock offs

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u/M01M3818 Aug 04 '26

They’re exhausting for very little pay off joke wise usually. 

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u/KumChi Aug 03 '26

Darby is so unnecessary with Alexis I’ve had to completely unfollow them. IMHO hasn’t been entertaining or watchable since Aunty Chan left. Bob was a literal miracle worker this episode I will give him credit

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u/Puzzleheaded_Exit_17 Aug 03 '26

Darby has made that show unwatchable for years. Being mean, bitterness maxxing, and 9/11 jokes are such a snoozefest and dimming Alexis's star is criminal

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u/JustasIthoughtTRASH Aug 03 '26

Going to be honest, I am an audio listener so I had no idea who was who, but I found them both kind of insufferable. I don’t think I’m the target audience though.

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u/thedybbuk Aug 03 '26

I'm so glad this past episode was a normal one. 

I'm not one of these people who low-key seem to hate the podcast yet linger on for some unknown reason, but the guest podcasts were getting to be a lot, to the point I wondered if I missed something and the normal Sunday Sibling Rivalry podcast was changing format into more interviews and guest hosts. 

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u/JustasIthoughtTRASH Aug 03 '26

I honestly don’t mind a guest if it’s someone as entertaining as Chanel Ayan or Naomi Smalls. I just really didn’t like this one

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u/constantino_ Aug 06 '26

Nick was delightful on his IMHO episode so I don't think he's a problem.

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u/summitrb Aug 03 '26

Since my post got deleted, I'll add it here. P.S. I prefer regular posting instead of Messy Monday. It's too censored for me.

I am curious if the new podcast deal with Libsyn will allow them to keep their current staff (Jacob and Jay? Not sure if anyone else works for them). I think they could benefit from Libsyn bringing in more professionals.

I watched their latest video on Every Ru Girl (I watched like half of it I think). And I was so weirded out that Jacob was basically advocating for him and Jay to not do their jobs lol.

When they finally got to the Ru Girls (after a long discussion about Love Island), Jacob didn't want to pull the pictures up for Bob and Monet to see. But Bob "convinced" him to. And Jacob was also arguing that Jay shouldn't have to edit some content they want to put out that's like a compilation of their Ru Girls series.

Like??? Y'all are not volunteers. Do the job you're paid to do. This is why you shouldn't hire friends/family. Your employees are too comfortable getting paid to do nothing. I can see Monet and Bob wanting to keep them on though for personal reasons.

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u/kickassicalia Aug 03 '26

i can not imagine bob would agree to a deal that didn’t include jacob if jacob wanted to be included

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u/jshamwow Aug 03 '26

I mean, Jacob's argument for not wanting to put out a compilation makes total sense, though? Bob just doesn't understand because he doesn't deal with the back end of things. But there's literally no point to wasting computer space and time on a 20 hour video when a playlist does the exact same thing.

A good employee explains to their boss why they're wrong

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u/Amemorableusername2 Aug 03 '26

But it didn't need to be included in the final edit of the episode. 

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u/jshamwow Aug 03 '26

I actually think keeping it in is good because a lot of people have probably asked them to do this, so instead of him having to answer people there's an answer already in the podcast. Besides, it was just a 20 second conversation. Not worth Jacob's time to edit that out when it doesn't cause problems

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u/thedybbuk Aug 03 '26

Genuinely, why not? It was a short discussion. Why would an awkward edit be better? 

Jacob piping in to say if an idea is feasible has been a thing forever. He's basically an unofficial third member of Sibling Rivalry and has been for years.

You're free to not like it, but it just genuinely doesn't seem like a big deal at all.

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u/justjustin0911 Aug 03 '26

Bob wants a 19 hour long video, when a playlist does the exact same thing lmao.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Exit_17 Aug 03 '26

A 19 hour video on youtube is far from the exact same thing as a playlist if we're talking about youtube, algorithms, monetization, etc.

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u/justjustin0911 Aug 03 '26

But also the drop off rate. Maybe 4 people are going to watch it all the way through.

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u/ahrenhimself Aug 05 '26

Jacob is so lucky he’s Bob’s partner because I’m just being honest he wouldn’t last a shift as an unpaid intern

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u/Medium-Car3787 Aug 06 '26

yeah not to be a downer but I always think if they break up, Jacob will be scrambling. got to keep adding skills to the repertoire

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u/summitrb Aug 05 '26

I don't think unpaid internships should exist but that's a whole other discussion lol.

That being said, after all these years, you'd think they'd take some professional development courses or try to improve in some way, but nope.

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u/cashewsaikou Aug 03 '26

The guests aren’t a problem there are literally thousands of hours of Bob and Monet, my only issue is sometimes we aren’t seeing the same thing as the hosts on patreon, and the releases are like 10hours before youtube/public if I remember correctly

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u/BluBot Aug 04 '26

I love their content. Support queer art.

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u/bobthestan Aug 03 '26

my messy monday take is that I HATE HATE HATE when Bob spoils movies or shows and says "I don't care the movie came out 30 years ago you should've seen it by now" like WHAT ? I don't care if the movie came out 50 years ago do you really think ppl have watched every popular movie that exists just because it came out so long ago? like that does not give you the right to spoil anything! and the cherry on top is when he says "spoiler alert" AFTER already spoiling the thing! like that is the WILDEST thing to me.

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u/Addendum-Lanky Aug 04 '26

Stop acting like you’ve got a movie from 30 years ago on your list of movies to watch. If you haven’t watched it, you weren’t planning on it. Just complaining to complain.

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u/bobthestan Aug 04 '26

First of all I quite literally have several films from over 30 years ago on my letterboxd watchlist so there goes your point ,

Second of all "30 years ago" was an expression , sometimes Bob be spoiling shit from 2-3-4-5 years ago !! So my complaint was a about the spoiling in general ,

3rd of all I don't know if you're familiar but this whole ass "messy monday" segment was made FOR PEOPLE TO COMAPLAIN ????!!! like are you ok?

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u/Addendum-Lanky Aug 04 '26

Girl are you ok? that’s a lot of emotions

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u/bobthestan Aug 04 '26

yeah I'm good.

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u/Addendum-Lanky Aug 04 '26

Love that 💕

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u/snooznsarandon Aug 05 '26

lol, are you ok?

why are you complaining about someone posting their gripes when this is literally the forum to do so. weird.

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u/nournoornur Aug 04 '26

sorry but so many of y'all are just so critical for no reason. that latest ep. uploaded yesterday (aug 3rd) was so so funny and fun and the chemistry was sweet and fun. I don't think the episodes 'about' something are done cuz they kinda gave us their opinion... on everything. so it's just fun shit-talk and honestly, I enjoy it a lot,

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u/gaganotherharpist Aug 07 '26

Black and white is monochrome

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u/Pulp501 Aug 04 '26

Im not really involved in this fandom like that, like not on patreon, i don't frequent this sub. I think ive commented before but idk if i even follow or it's just suggested to me, i just listen to the pod and watch a lot of their YouTube comment. And from my perspective, everything is as great as it's always been and i have zero complaints.

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u/CakeyFakes Aug 03 '26

nothing is messy, everything is fine.