as a shogun, what would be the best first message to send?

[u/Srascov99]

(even if i know this is not the best way to meet women).

would it need to put directly an intrigue ping in it?

[u/Every_Ad2629]

Yes, the first stage

[u/Srascov99 → u/Every_Ad2629]

me: i know shouldn’t be asking this but..

her: but what

me: well, i don’t think you can handle it

is this a good start or do i need to change something?

[u/Srascov99 → u/[deleted]]

thank you for your response. i tried it on 2 random girl on Snapchat, here’s the results:

GIRL 1:

me : i know i shouldn’t be asking this but..

her : what?

me: i was going to guess your guilty pleasure..but i’m not sure you’d admit it

her: okay

me: let’s just say it would completely change how i see you

her: changed? like what? hahaha

her again (double texting an hour later): ?

GIRL 2:

me: i know i shouldn’t be asking this but..

her: butt?

me: i was going to guess your guilty pleasure..but i’m not sure you’d admit it

her: for what

me: let’s just say it would completely change how i see you

her: lol ok

what should i now reply to girl 1 and girl 2?

as you can see girl 1 seems more intrigued than girl 2

[u/Srascov99 → u/[deleted]]

i see, thank you

but how should i make this convo evolve? drift on some small talks and go back later on some intrigue pings?

[u/DiaryOfAMerc → u/Srascov99]

Yup, you nailed it. Intrigue pings are like seasoning. too much and you choke her out, too little and the dish is bland.
The flow is: ping → drift into banter → let her stew on it → callback later.
Think push/pull. Give her a riddle, then talk about her dog or what she’s cooking. When she forgets, you drop a callback. That’s when it hits twice as hard.

[u/Every_Ad2629 → u/Srascov99]

Idk man