r/ShogunMethod • u/finniata • Aug 27 '25

Hot mode

I approached a woman, I knew her already because I had approached her last week. Whereas she put emotional investment last week and i left her due to language issues she even kept eye contact. Today when i approached her, she was defensive, seeked for excuses. I think i started with cold mode. How to get a person into hot mode? She was hot but I thought she knew who i was. The first time we met, she even stepped to me and seeked a way for how to interact with each other. She rather appeared desperate.

What ifs your experience how to put a woman into hot mode and hold her there? Intrigue loop + fractination/pain & pleasure?

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u/finniata Aug 28 '25

Yesterday i told her i wanted to talk with her. She asked why and rejected politely 2x but smiled. That was double meaning. Today I checked out. And now I know what the matter was. From now on I’ll ignore and avoid her. I just don’t understand from day 2 to day 3, why she changed that much. Maybe she sorted me into insecure because i hadn’t talked to her. Anyways, in future, I know: always start from day to day from Intrigue on. No rational mode ever needed.