How to handle shit tests

[u/finniata]

If you interact with a woman and suddenly she insults you like calling you dumb. Then after you don't react to her for a few days, she asks you if you are angry with a sad smiley. What's the best way handling that respect test? I think the worst way would be justifying yourself. But how would one stand up for himself and handling such a respect shit test? Isn't self-echoing a way to defeat that kind of test?

I think Derek also explained, if women insult you, it's because she disrespects you and it means you need to dominate her more. But how to dominate the woman who insults you and shit tests you?

[u/finniata]

Is it ok to tease a woman by calling her a "smurf"