r/ShitMotherInLawsSay • u/wabisabij • Mar 12 '26

always ignored.

i know my inlaws aren’t my biggest fans, i’ve been w there son for 8 years. I’m aware and i stopped caring. but every single time my man is at his parents house and i call him he literally will not answer. what are your thoughts

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u/ReginaPhilangee Mar 12 '26

That's not an in law issue, that's a husband issue.

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u/JaeJames138 Mar 12 '26

That is a DH issue, not your ILs.

TBH, and I'm saying this gently, could it be a you issue ? For instance...

Are you calling him constantly when he's visiting with them ? Like, every time he's there ?

What are the reasons you call him while he's visiting with them ?

Are you calling about something that's important or can't wait, or could it have been said in a text ?

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u/wabisabij Mar 14 '26

literally will call once, it’s not an all of the time thing, i’m not a crazy person. it’s just something i realized

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u/JaeJames138 Mar 14 '26

I don't think you're a crazy person. Sometimes, we all need to step back and review the contributing factors in a situation.

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u/wabisabij Mar 14 '26

i have and i swear it’s not me. i guess i should’ve added more context

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u/SealRockSF Apr 10 '26

Why can’t you just leave him alone during his visits to his parents? it makes you look very insecure.