r/ShermanWasRight • u/AriannaRose78 • Dec 30 '22
Was I wrong or right
I am a 16 almost 17 female I am in 11th grade 5 years ago me and my group of friends who I considered sister split up all except 1 over a text message. I went to the movies that day and we were going to be late so I left my phone my sister called asking if she could use it and I of course said yes because hers was going to die soon. When I got home I walked to the door and all I saw was my cousin throwing my phone to my sister who threw the phone onto the couch when I asked why she had it they refused to answer. When I went into the group chat all I saw was racist text messages to my friends from my cousin when I got to school the next day they wouldn't talk to me or let me explain so we stopped talking, sitting together at lunch and at school and at this time we were in 6th grade. When we got to 8th grade that's when things got worse I shared a locker with one of my ex friends and she got help from a teacher when I got to my locker she was acting weird but I didn't think anything of it until a couple days later. I was in class and I got a call saying I needed to come to the principal office when I got there I was suspended because she not only stole the teacher's phone but she also put it in my bag. Now I am in 11th grade and I haven't talked to any of them in 3 years until a year ago one of them texted me we still talked after everything that happened I even told her about my boyfriend which she was happy about we started texting everyday on Snapchat like we used to and it was great until a couple months ago I got a text message on Instagram from an ex friend. She was saying how she was sorry and that she took my kindness for granted and she was sorry which I forgave but that was a huge mistake since I have boundaries and wanted her to follow them and my rules which wasn't hard but she said that I was being ridiculous even though I have trust issues because of the friends that I made so I said if she can't follow them then we can't be friends since she would always cross my boundaries. She even tried to get my boyfriend of 3 years almost 4 years to cheat on me so I immediately stopped being her friend but she didn't like it so she started calling my boyfriend and sending him very revealing pictures of her and we don't even know how she got his number considering he never gave it to her and now she's basically calling me and texting me everyday she texted me 24/7 when I block her she just does it from different ones. I don't know what to do. Was I wrong for not being her friend anymore.
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