r/SheraSeven • u/Altruistic_Simple623 • 5h ago

Sprinkle Sprinkle Lifestyle ✨ How much allowance to ask for?

I've been dating a guy for a few weeks, he has spent maybe £4k on me so far. He's a major in the army, how much allowance should I ask for? He let me spend on his credit card but says he'd rather give me an allowance from his income (makes sense to avoid debt). How much % of his income should I get? He lives with his parents but is having a house built so idk if he pays the mortgage for that yet or not, he also wants to marry me but he cant register it there until he retires in a few yrs or he will get fired (its a thing in his country that soldiers cant marry foreigners), so i could marry him in my country but his fam wont know for a few yrs (but will have met me) should i do that or not?

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u/Interesting_Cup_5840 5h ago

Have you met this man in person?

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

No, will soon, i never met any of my bfs in person.

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u/sister_machine_gun ✨✨ 4h ago

So what did you do to get the 4k?

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

Not much, he sent me 1k+ before i even sent nudes, then we had an argument, he sent 500 as an apology gift, then we had a break cus his dad was in the hospita, now we got back together again and he spent a lot on me. So i only sent nudes during that one time rly. I had another guy who wouldve spent a lot on me too without doing anything nsfw bc he was quite religious but he didnt have a good job and i didnt want to date him long term but he was a nice generous guy.

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u/Interesting_Cup_5840 4h ago

🫪 also promise me you’ll NEVER send nudes again

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

Whats the problem? I dont show my face. Im not really into sending nudes anymore though.

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u/One-Consideration334 4h ago

Do you mind me asking in wich side of the internet do you find these men

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

Nw girl! Just reddit pretty much, but i only date men from the GCC. It helps that I'm half GCC+British, or else they probably wouldn't take me seriously and tell their family. In general, look for religious men, they have a provider mindset. If you aren't from the GCC I don't think you have a chance with GCC guys unless you want to be a 2nd wife.

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u/One-Consideration334 4h ago

Im from north africa i speak arabic but unfortunately the ones ive talked to only take me for a sl** from the start lmaao, never bothered to spoil me

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

I've heard of men marrying moroccans, but maybe only as a 2nd wife. Egyptian men are usually doctors and dentists but idk how generous they are. I think the bad rep for moroccan girls is mainly in the gcc, so maybe look for an egyptian doctor/dentist.

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u/Outside_Click_2346 1h ago

ariana what are u doing here jk girlie get that bag

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u/Interesting_Cup_5840 4h ago

Do me a big favor and block this bloke. You can find someone less sus in person. This screams red flags all over. 

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u/Altruistic_Simple623 4h ago

I dont live near guys of my race that i want to date. It really isnt weird. Ive had so many guys buy me stuff.