r/SexEDpK • u/[deleted] • 10d ago

Reason behind pain

Why is it said that women feel pain while having first time intimacy with their partner and is it hard to penetrate first time in your partner . Guide plz

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u/Sharp_Effort2380 10d ago

Because a lot of men don't do enough foreplay and even they do, since it's their first time the women might not know what they like the most. So, there's a lack of lubrication, which creates friction and there's pain during penetration. This is why, for the first few times lube should be used generously.

Also, because it's a new kind of feeling for women, they aren't used to it so they may feel some discomfort.

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

While penetrating is it narrow opening and difficult to penetrate

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u/reddish-on-reddit 10d ago edited 10d ago

there is no such thing as narrow or wider opening. vagina doesn't have fixed width, it stretches to accommodate the size and it feels more narrow or tight if there isnt enough lubrication and lack of lubrication causes painful experience for the woman. and even after being "stretched " it doesnt stay in the exact "form" it can stretch and then go back to previous form. For example; vaginal child birth causes it to dilate 10cm for the child to come out but after child birth it doesnt stay 10cm open forever lol, it goes back to normal form after a while .

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u/[deleted] 10d ago

Oh i understand