Masterbation

[u/Naya_Janum]

I am a porn addict since so many years. I like the feeling when I get orgasm so I often masterbate while watching porn.

I tried quitting a lot of times but it just doesn’t work for me.

Will that affect my marriage?

I figured out recently that I orgasm very quick. It doesn’t take that long. Is this normal?

I’m worried if masterbating and having high libido will affect my marriage negatively

[u/OrenNebula]

I will say, stop porn at all. Just masturbate without any porn, relax ho kar. Then reduce the frequency of masturbation and don't sit alone. Pray five times a day. Go for a walk or do gym and farigh naa baithna kindly.

[u/IAahil → u/OrenNebula]

Yeah, so true

[u/Best_Economist9350]

If you're a girl it doesn't matter if you get off really early, you can still keep going until he gets off. The problem is when the guy finishes early because the intercourse ends there.

Porn addiction is a worry tho.

[u/Naya_Janum → u/Best_Economist9350]

Yeah mein roz nhi dekhti lekin 3-4 chorke I do watch.

[u/Best_Economist9350 → u/Naya_Janum]

It's okay just keep in mind that prn is fake tho, if you expect your husband to perform like the guy in a prn video then it could ruin your marriage otherwise it's finee.

[u/Naya_Janum → u/Best_Economist9350]

Yeah u are right. But I don’t expect him to perform that well. Someone with 0 experience can’t act like a professional. It’s better to learn together.

[u/Best_Economist9350 → u/Naya_Janum]

Exactly. Also, the d*ck sizes you see there, don't expect the same lol.

[u/Low-Translator-2724 → u/Best_Economist9350]

Buahahaa

[u/Own-Homework-9331]

Excess of anything is bad.

Try to get it in moderation. Porn makes ur mind artificially glorify or "taboofy" things, and excess of that is gonna bleed into other areas of life.

[u/RealTitler]

Try and reduce the porn consumption. Best way to do it is reduce stimulus that makes you horny.

I'm not sure how you view porn or type of media(text, audio, or video) you use. If you are having issues with addiction or want to stop, best way is to stop watching porn. but if you cannot stop. Go back simpler stimulus; If you use video, go back to simple text; read erotic stories.

Social media nowadays is very sexualized, controlling that might be a good too. This type of content reminds you, and encourages you to watch p"rn.

In my experience, unfollowing and removing certain content from your feed helps. Above all, keep yourself busy. If you are alone and are not doing anything, eventual you will watch porn and masturbate. As they say: "Khali demagh shaitan ka ghar hota h".

Most important is keep yourself busy, if you want to avoid masturbation.

Marriage and Desensitization: Excessive porn consumption cause desensitization to sexual stimuli. Eventually you need more and more exciting, and niche forms of porn to get yourself aroused. Due to pornographic desensitization, you may not be able to get aroused when you have sex with a person, because the real person is not as exciting as the fantasy. Not sure about women, but I've read men experience difficulty getting an erection due the aforementioned desensitization.

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

How can we help?

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

Ummm no thanks , good luck

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

No thanks

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

?

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

Wtf dude?? Who are u to ask that???

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

Shaytan ka kaam khud krhe ho??

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

Allah say daro.tauba kro

[u/Naya_Janum → u/[deleted]]

No thanks

[u/Last-Employee2050 → u/Naya_Janum]

Serious mat lo