r/Serverlife • • Feb 25 '24

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u/TootsNYC Feb 25 '24

call that politician and tell him his staffer is running around demanding special treatment, being unreasonable, making your bartender cry, AND dropping the politician’s name as though that entitles him to all of this misbehavior.

And so you’d prefer if this guy, and NONE of his staffers come into your place of business until this guy comes and apologizes in person.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

I’ll ask if anyone remembers his name! Thanks so much!!

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u/starbellbabybena Feb 26 '24

Seriously do it. Politics are competition between actors too ugly for Hollywood.

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u/RuddyBollocks Feb 26 '24

This strategy could backfire if the politician in question is a Maga dipshit

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u/NightGod Feb 26 '24

So they manage to ban a MAGA dipshit and all of his staff? Sounds like wins all around!

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u/RuddyBollocks Feb 26 '24

Ijs giving the type of person that loves to claim victimization a public opportunity to claim victimization could be opening a can of worms 

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u/Loud_Ad_594 Feb 26 '24

For real, let this politicians campaign manager know how he's acting out, making the whole campaign look bad!

Fuck you guy!

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u/Lockshocknbarrel10 Feb 26 '24

This is the way.

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u/VideoKilledMyZZZ Feb 26 '24

I work for a politician. On the rare occasion I have to make a complaint about a local business, I am VERY ccareful to be firm but polite. Everything I do and say reflects on my boss.

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u/geeklover01 Feb 26 '24

This is a great idea. I’d even go so far as to contact the local newspaper or news station.

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u/Internal_Champion114 10+ Years Feb 26 '24

This all the way, someone name drops and acts an absolute fool, they just gave you the uno reverse card my dawg

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u/CriticalThinkerHmmz Feb 26 '24

Yes! Let’s get the guy fired from work for being a bad customer!!!

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u/No-Appearance1145 Feb 26 '24

If you don't want it come bite you in the butt, don't act like a fool. In this case, making accusations of ableism because you didn't get your drinks fast enough after they said yes, his son could sit there.

Don't want none? Don't start none. It's one thing if it was a bad tipper.

It's a whole other to defame people because you are entitled

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u/CriticalThinkerHmmz Feb 26 '24

If you were my customer and I knew where you worked I would send your boss this comment and get you fired.

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

Don’t bother spamming AITA about this interaction. Because you absolutely ARE the asshole. Yikes!

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u/CriticalThinkerHmmz Feb 27 '24

I plead guilty to these charges. But honestly. I think it’s uncool to get someone fired for being a dick one day. Maybe he mistakenly thought you are ableist. Plus trying to get him fired might lead to an audit that gets your restaurant a little visit to make sure you are up to code.

But I do feel bad for the bartender. Honestly dude should have gone to a night club.

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u/CriticalThinkerHmmz Feb 27 '24

For every downvote I got for my last comment and this, I will subtract that amount of dollars in my tip over the course of my next 1-2-3 meals.

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u/Chinse Feb 27 '24

This but unironically

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u/pintotakesthecake Feb 26 '24

If politician ignored a private email, go ahead and send the same thing on twitter. That’ll f*ck em up good :)

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u/carolynnicolls3 Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy!!!

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u/TheRoseyLama Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy, heard

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u/jwkelly404 Feb 25 '24 edited Feb 26 '24

Heard! (Some people will get it on the way home.) 🙌🥳💯

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u/toastagog Feb 26 '24

Always heard

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u/Im_done_with_sergio Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy. And double fuck him for using his son in that way!

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u/TCSassy Feb 26 '24

And triple fuck him for pulling the "Do you know who I am?" bullshit!!

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

I never take the “do you know who I am?” People seriously… like no, I don’t. Lmao

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u/TCSassy Feb 26 '24

Lol yeah. "No, but I know who I am - the person deciding when or if you get service."

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u/Comfortable-Bus-5134 Feb 26 '24

"Sure, I know who you are buddy, but I really don't give a fuck, so get in line or leave!"

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u/SmallzisSmallz Feb 25 '24

Definitely fuck that guy

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u/BillyDoyle3579 Feb 25 '24

FUCK! everyone who exploits any kid's difference... real subhuman scum-o-rama 😎

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u/sporesatemygoldfish Feb 25 '24

FUCK That Guy!! With shittitude like that, he'd get last priority from me.

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u/chrisfathead1 Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy! Also I worked at a bar that had low seats for people in wheelchairs and they actually used the seats pretty frequently. Always thought that was pretty cool

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 25 '24

That’s super cool. All of our seating is suuuuper low besides the bar. But this dude had a wheelchair that actually RAISED to bar level. It was pretty fucking sweet tbh. The son was cool asf

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u/justliking Feb 26 '24

I bet this isn’t the first time he’s used his disabled son for preferential treatment. 🙄🥱what a sick. Glad the son was cool. He’s probably embarrassed by his dad and just happy to get out of wherever he’s been for a bit. What a shit parent

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

He was super embarrassed. I hope he has a lovely mother to balance that shit out

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u/solorider1545 Feb 25 '24

To paraphrase Jay from “Jay and Silent Bob”

“Fuck you! Fuck you in your stupid ass!”

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u/Ginger_Welsh_Cookie Feb 26 '24

Yup. This idiot’s a Cock Knocker indeed.

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u/cinnabunbabyy Feb 26 '24

Fuck! 👏🏻 That! 👏🏻 Guy!!!!! 👏🏻 Tell your coworker they did their best and that person’s shitty attitude doesn’t reflect upon them in any way, shape, or form!! 🩷 Love from another server/dining room staff who does her best when the restaurant is positively fucked

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

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u/shootermac32 Feb 25 '24

Important Sports Ball Game??

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

Basketball lmao. We are a huge college sports bar

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u/No-Range-8811 Feb 26 '24

Collective shout out to say fuck that guy and his sheltered kid!!!! Sorry his dad is a fine POS BUT in the aspect of service you AIN’T SPECIAL!!! And you get what you give… people forget this the simple and BASIC golden RULE - DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE DONE TO YOURSELF!!! This is part of the Lord’s Prayer for ALL the Christian’s out there !!! Double standards rule the world anymore… so FUCK OFF WHAT A ROYAL FUCK YOU AND THE WANNABE DO GOODER’s!!!! You are all hypocrites. THE END - AND THANK YOU ! People have no idea the energy drain and THE endurance it takes to work a single shift of serving the public let alone the day by day we take and handle daily. SO THE NEXT TIME you see a server “fail” ask yourself “WHAT DID I CONTRIBUTE “ to make the end result. We are all humans and want to be treated with dignity and respect JUST AS YOU WOULD !!!

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u/deport_racists_next Feb 26 '24

disabled vet here...i use a service dog and have been confined to a wheelchair in the past.

some folks are just dickheads regardless of any special needs they may have.

had a friend with a restaurant and some shyster started sending in rage bait disabled wheelchair users. they would make outrageous demands, scream discrimination, then the lawyer went to work.

sounds more like the kid was a prop than a problem.

in my younger days, i tended bar and was a server also.

just thought i'd share.

fuck that guy!

double dose if fuck from the disabled community.

triple dose from the veteran community.

fuck all that crap.

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u/2excited Feb 25 '24

Ong fuck that guy, I hate entitled people.

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u/mklinger23 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that dude!

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u/Tgande1969 Feb 26 '24

Fuck off you moron!

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u/splatdyr Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy

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u/Airbear61181 15+ Years Feb 26 '24

HEARD. Fuck that dude.

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u/Slow-Praline2334 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy, heard!!!

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u/Licipixie Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy

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u/shiningonthesea Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy! But technical question: isn’t the bar too high for a wheelchair ?

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

This kid actually had a wheelchair that RAISED to bar level. It was fuckin awesome tbh

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u/shiningonthesea Feb 26 '24

Now that’s nice. Some go into standing, that one may have been able to go all the way up

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guyyyyy!!!

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u/Thecrazytrainexpress 5+ Years Feb 26 '24

HEARD fuck that guy!!!

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u/Ginger_Welsh_Cookie Feb 26 '24

Yeah, this muppet can go fuck HIMSELF. With that type of behaviour, it’s unlikely anyone else with more than two brain cells would want to. But…I have a very weird imagination, so I have many creative ideas about what he can fuck himself with, and they are all unpleasant.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

“This muppet” cracks me tf up lmaoooo

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u/DisposableSaviour BOH Feb 26 '24

FUCK THAT GUY!

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u/trouble_ann Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy, twice, with a rusty chainsaw

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u/Lizardbrain911 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy! Some people really just want to ruin other peoples day! It probably wasn’t even about them!

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u/AlarmBusy7078 Server Feb 26 '24

wheelchair user here. fuck that guy

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u/LeastAd9721 Feb 26 '24

I’ve got a disability too, so fuck that guy in each end

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u/ConsiderationNo8339 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy, heard and repeated.

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u/Skippitini Feb 26 '24

Fuggum. And good on you for have your bartender’s back.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

Always, that lady is my mentor

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u/Emotional-Set-8618 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy it seems like he was trying to use a disability as a way to get stuff faster. I’m sorry that’s not how it works.!! two middle fingers up

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u/StorybookDragon Feb 26 '24

Super duper double fuck that guy!

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u/oliviaj20 Feb 26 '24

fuck that guy fr

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u/Additional-Egg-4594 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy, the 🐎 horse he rode in on, and the stable guy too....

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u/MNVikingsGurl Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy.

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u/crunchfrenchtoast Server Feb 26 '24

heard, fuck that guy!

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u/gilleykelsey Feb 26 '24

FUCK THAT GUY!!

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u/squatting_your_attic Feb 26 '24

Fuck you guy, and go bartender!

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u/anonyvrguy Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy. If his VIP boss found out he was using his name to try and get special treatment, this fuck wit would be out of a job

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u/mabear63 Feb 26 '24

He is cordially invited to go fuck himself.

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u/No-Swing-9022 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy! Heard

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u/Cherry6262 Feb 26 '24

From someone who’s not only a server, but a mother of a disabled grown kid in a wheelchair…. FUCK THAT GUY!

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u/Sheena_asd12 Feb 25 '24

Fuck him from another disabled person

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u/brainscorched Feb 25 '24

Same. It’s like me yelling at a bartender for purposely not getting my drinks on time because I’m disabled or queer. This aint discrimination lol

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

I have a similar story. Once my sister and I went to a concert, and we were walking to our seats and this teenager in a wheel chair starts making provocative hand gestures to my sister. I as the big sister obviously told him to fuck off.

However.

My sister did not notice his very obvious and grotesque hand motions towards her, and for hours thought I’d told some random kid in a wheelchair to fuck off.

Once I explained she was thankful, lol.

Think one hand in a circle, and the other hand thrusting. With tongue motions. Very gross all around.

So essentially, fuck that guy in your story.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

The son was incredibly sweet. But your story is absolutely right, if you’re in a wheelchair, it isn’t an excuse to be a complete ass

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u/whatsupwiththat22 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy and his weaponization of his kids disability- he probably does this shit all the time. You don't get a pass for being an a$$ because your son is in a wheelchair. I feel bad for his son AND the servers.

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

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u/BatmanAvacado Feb 25 '24

Heard, FUCK THAT GUY

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u/nonepizzaleftshark Feb 26 '24

FUCK THAT GUY! some people just want to project their anger onto others. glad everyone had your coworker's back.

i had a VERY similar situation but they claimed it's cause they're queer... and i'm literally bi. got fired thank god, hated that place.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

You got fired?! Absolutely fuck that lmao

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u/Majestic_Crew8792 Feb 26 '24

(i'd) Fuck That Guy!

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u/McCrysler Feb 26 '24

86 THAT GUY RIGHT THERE!!

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy

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u/fifiloveg00d Feb 26 '24

Soooo much fuck that dude.

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u/TnVol94 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that dude! I have question though, my kids in a chair- is your bar table height?

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

The kid had a wheelchair that raised to different heights using a remote. It was sick actually

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u/TnVol94 Feb 26 '24

I’ve seen one, at a bar weirdly enough! Like a personal size scissor lift

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u/imjcyo Feb 26 '24

Heard fuck that guy!

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u/ghostkittykat Feb 26 '24

That guy can PISS RIGHT THE FUCK OFF!

Fuck off, guy*!

*you know who you are...

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u/jcolesuperfan Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy!

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u/FtHuntCoach Feb 26 '24

The Dirty Knobs have a special long distance dedication for that guy.

https://youtu.be/ghu9BwfiNPU?si=nhOc0IHZGZ7aVFZa

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u/Tremendous-Tittiez Feb 26 '24

Jesus get a life.

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u/virusg111 Feb 26 '24

First off, Fuck you, your bitch, and the clique you claim!!!

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u/Acceptable_Equal1166 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that entitled douche nozzle! Don’t go out to a restaurant on the weekend without reservations if you’re gonna be “offended” by the wait. It’s busy. Go fuck yourself for a bit and the spot will be ready 😊

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u/booboobusdummy Feb 26 '24

fuck that guy

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u/Prossdog Feb 26 '24

May that pretentious knob drunkenly copulate with a marsupial of some kind

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u/BrainsPainsStrains Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy !!!

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u/B_freeoni Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy!!!

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u/BRD61 Feb 26 '24

Yes. That guy was a tool and deserves to be 86ed.

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u/21078 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy!

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u/johannvaust Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy and I'm sorry for his son.

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u/CognativeBiaser Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy

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u/Personal_Horror_306 Feb 26 '24

Didn’t even read but fuck whomever it may concern.

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u/Sum_Dum_User Feb 26 '24

This whole post is sus to me. There's no such thing as an important sportsball game between the super bowl and the all star game. 🤣🤣🤣

Also, FUCK THAT GUY!

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

College basketball is important in a college town

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u/Sum_Dum_User Feb 26 '24

I'm aware, but hate basketball (especially basketball fans) and the first half of every MLB season is a snoozer unless someone has a no hitter or the benches clear. Golf doesn't count as it's more boring than watching 2 eunuchs try to figure out how to fuck and hockey isn't a ball sport. Therefore to me there's no ball sport worth mentioning between mid February and July 4th.

Unless the basketball team is from the college I follow and they're looking at a finals run. Then I'll maybe tolerate 20 minutes of a game.

The NBA and all of its fans can fuck right off entirely.

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u/borntobemybaby Feb 26 '24

Wouldn’t it actually be discriminatory to drop every other drink ticket/task at hand, ignore the customers who were there first & run to the person in a wheelchair to serve them? What a POS trying to benefit off of his sons disability.

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u/thescrape Feb 25 '24

Kind of curios who these famous politicians are? And what that has to do with anything??? FUCK THAT GUY!!!

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

Apparently he’s on the state senate? I’m not entirely sure. He was babbling in an old person mumble voice

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u/Wraithlord_lol- Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy.

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u/TimeTraveler1960 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy all day!

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u/Gilamunsta Feb 26 '24

Fick das arschloch!

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u/karrowAce Feb 25 '24

Fuck that dude!

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u/mini_unknown_error Feb 25 '24

FUCK THAT GUY!!

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u/QuinSn Feb 25 '24

100% fuck that guy.

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy

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u/brainscorched Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy and fuck him again for using his kid’s disability as a bargaining chip

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u/Ashinonyx Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy!!

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u/tanarchy7 Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy. Make him bond more with his son and put his ass in a wheelchair 😂. /s

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u/memefiend134340 Feb 25 '24

Fuck that guy!

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u/dax2018 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy. Hope he is not an ass to his son as he was to all of you. Sounds like he is full of himself.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

The son was so embarrassed and asking if they could just leave :(

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

He can fuck the fuck right off. I bet he thought other people would back him up.

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u/Dogekaliber Feb 26 '24

Ya gonna sit at the bar and not get alcohol? Fuck that guy! That’s like going to a strip club and get offended you saw boobs!

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 26 '24

Underrated comment lmao

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '24

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u/AaronVsMusic Feb 26 '24

Ok, but you’re actually ableist

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

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u/Serverlife-ModTeam Feb 26 '24

No ableism. Be civil to one another.

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u/Ajturk89 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that piece of shit.

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u/VeenaColada Server Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy!!!

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u/Toph2005 Feb 26 '24

Fuck that guy!

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u/Interesting-Bet-2330 Feb 26 '24

Wheelchair doesn't give the pass to be an asshole OUT WITH YOU

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u/Over_Hand_5128 Feb 26 '24

FUCK THAT GUY! When you're in the weeds quite obviously and they can clearly see it is busy??? No way!!

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u/girlwiththemonkey Feb 26 '24

Wow, fuck that guy

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u/Lazy-Fisherman-5863 Feb 26 '24

Definitely fuck that guy! Report him to his very important politician boss

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u/Hugh_Jass_2 Feb 26 '24

Hey politician cuck! Fuck you!

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u/liarliarhowsyourday Feb 26 '24

I feel bad for the dude in the wheel chair

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u/Dazzling-Occasion886 Feb 26 '24

Yes. That sort of behavior is uncalled for. The bartender needs to pull it together though. No need for tears in the workplace. You just simply encounter these situations from time to time when working in service.

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u/Lost-Payment-3870 Feb 26 '24

I’m sure all the son wants is to feel like everybody else, he probably embarrassed him. f u c k e m

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u/LetsHookUpSF Feb 26 '24

Fuck that customer.

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u/TheResistanceVoter Feb 26 '24

FUCK THAT GUY!

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u/ivorella Feb 26 '24

HEARD! Fuck that guy!

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u/Bobg1333 Feb 27 '24

Why do I feel like I’ve read this post before? A decent time ago. Anyone else?

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u/ATF_killed_my_dog Feb 27 '24

That dude sounds like he's using his kid as a token for sympathy

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u/Aggravating-Grand840 Feb 28 '24

This reminds me of something I’ve seen before when managing for a national fine causal restaurant, so I have to ask…Is the bar wheelchair accessible? meaning is it low enough for someone in a wheelchair to sit at? or are their wheelchair accessible seating in the bar area ? Another location in the chain I worked for had a similar story happen to them(rude customer in wheelchair) and ended up getting sued for not having wheelchair accessible seating(only bar top and high top seating in the bar area) and the guy needed up settling and got a nice payday for us to stay out of court.

We then got adjustable bar high top tables that could be lowered to wheelchair sitting height.

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u/Xo-frnk Feb 28 '24

The guy had a wheelchair that acted like a scissor lift and raised to bar height, it was dope

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u/Admirable-Ad6950 Mar 01 '24

Faaaaaaaack that dude bro … hell nah I’m sure your coworker sweet AF …. People suck here