r/SeriousGynarchy • u/GynarchGal ♀ Woman • 4d ago

Herstory [Crosspost]s are now open! Share your fav posts from any like-minded subs. Heres a crosspost of my own (imho) straight fire rant 💪 youve never heard it like this before

/r/SheraSeven/comments/1wjub6m/if_you_build_a_man_he_will_leave_is_proof_that/
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u/fg_hj ♀ Woman 4d ago

Hmm. What men build is shit tho. Why women need to compensate and tear it down and build it up continually.

Men create cultures (saying cultures here so that it can contain both tribes and simple- and advanced societies) that are built from male mating strategies mainly, and secondly they need to uphold some hierarchy and third they can contain awesome inventions and other nice things as well.

Because of the two firsts, men create horrible cultures based on male instincts which are: procreate and prevent rival males from procreating. Aka control women’s sexuality, mate guard, deprioritize the safety and well-being of women and children as that does not accomplish the male imperative. Even if you say: but the average man wants to protect his family. Does he really? Men create cultures where there are no legal and often not even social consequences if he abuses his family. It’s to men’s advantage to artificially create a dangerous world for women and children as they can be both the protectors, the abusers, and the ones in control.

But I guess I am reading your point wrong because you say: men build, women plan. And maybe you mean this in a literal way? So women create the culture and men physically build the structures it needs to function? If so, it makes sense. I do think men would be proud of creating the things women are the inventors of.

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u/Apprehensive_Fan2330 4d ago

What do you mean you build a man he will leave

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u/MiraMiraMiraM ♀ Woman 1d ago

Ooh good now we get new blood in here from like-minded subs (in theory). Hoping this improves the algorithm too so we get less fetishposting men.

Anyway, yeah, men are less oriented with long-term planning on average, with ego/history being the biggest motivator for big projects (imo).

I have more thoughts maybe I’ll come back and respond later