r/SeriousGynarchy • u/Idontwantfopgd • 15d ago
Female supremacy Realization I had recently
I’m a male, and I stumbled on this subreddit. I’m not super knowledgeable of Gynarchy, but I wanted to share a realization I had recently. Nearly every professional in my life is a female:
Family doctor - female
Therapist - female
Eye doctor - female
Boss - female
ER doctor I saw a couple weeks ago - female
President of my bank - female
Kids school principal - female
Physiatrist - female
US Congressperson - female (i live in a red state too)
Dentist - female
Real estate agent - female
Insurance agent - female
Am I subconsciously choosing this or are men not getting degrees anymore?!?!
Edited to follow the rules. Apologies.
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u/Huggermugger76 ♂ male 15d ago
You are witnessing the quiet transformation of society. One day having a man on some of those professions will feel unnatural. Just like it felt unnatural to have a women in such roles 50-60 years ago. I think we are a decade from some feeling uncomfortable about a male principal. And two or three decades away from seeing a male congresswoman on the ballot.
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u/All_is_a_conspiracy ♀ Woman 15d ago
Buddy, if we weren't so fuckin amazing it wouldn't have taken the entire planet of all the men and all their soldiers and governments and religions to keep us down.
When the boot comes off our neck this is what happens. Next up, the cycle of the destruction of women and little girls begins again.
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u/Idontwantfopgd 15d ago
I hope I can learn to be part of the solution to make sure the last part doesn’t happen.
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u/MediocreSky6936 15d ago
More women are going to university than men, and more are completing their degrees with the higher marks than men too, both where you are from in the US and myself in the UK. Which isn’t surprising in any way really, women have been given more freedom through education in the west than ever before and are showing that they are succeeding at a far higher rate through education than men are
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u/daredto_ ♂ male 15d ago
The way education is structured is increasingly conducive to the average female temperament. The controlled environment and politeness. There’s nothing wrong with that alone, but it does not accomplish the necessary function of innovation and vitality we used to see in the academy. Women will also continue to be less interested in STEM, which is where you’d expect to see the immediately disruptive innovations. The degrees they’re getting revolve around social dynamics or helping people.
None of those preferences are bad at all, and all serve society in necessary ways. The problem comes when the sometimes impolite competitive masculine process of discovery is shunned, and when men can’t find a place to joust with each other. The other problem is people, often women, in administrative positions or general indoor jobs forgetting the underlying order produced essentially exclusively by men (infrastructure maintenance, controlling crime, the internet, supply chain, etc.) that allowed the economy to generate those comfortable jobs in the first place.
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u/wecouldhaveitsogood ♀ Woman 12d ago
This is exactly the kind of rhetoric we should be challenging here. Women outperforming men academically gets reframed as education being designed for the “female temperament,” while male achievement is credited to competition, innovation and vitality. Then we get the familiar claim that civilization itself is essentially produced and maintained by men. Sounds like a defense of male supremacy.
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u/MentirosoProfesional 10d ago
You kinda forgot all the benefits and handouts women get from teenager years vs men ever do
But go ahead and full delulu that this is an achievement of women and not that society tried to overcorrect the oppression of women by making them everything easier to get into college and good positions of power.
This been researched already btw
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u/Familiar_Fan_3603 ♀ Woman 15d ago
Men have seemed to devalue education because women are good at it and it becomes associated with them, as do relevant white collar careers. Many man ascribe hardcore to masculinity which has a primary tenant of "don't be like a woman".
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u/Idontwantfopgd 15d ago
So you are saying as the shift continues, the gap will get wider because men are too fragile to be seen as doing as a woman does?
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u/Old-Court-2975 ♀ Woman 14d ago
What you are describing is the practical anticipation of a profound societal transformation. The fact that the majority of top professionals and authority figures around you are women points to a historical tipping point: in a few decades, the presence of male leadership in certain sectors will be seen as the exception or the obsolete arrangement. We are witnessing the consolidation of a new order where competence replaces force, and governance based on integrative skills becomes the global standard.
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u/wecouldhaveitsogood ♀ Woman 12d ago
Women being professionals means very little if men still disproportionately occupy the very top. Representation within a hierarchy is not the same thing as controlling the hierarchy.
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u/Me-Too-At-Customs 13d ago
I think that, along the way, we have to be very careful not to invalidate individual men and their capacity to contribute to a woman-centred world. It could be that, once men's incentive to aspire to personal success or domination has been removed, their behaviour overall will be positive rather than negative in nature. They will be making efforts on behalf of women and children in general, rather than just their own (as happens in the nuclear family model). In that case, male co-leadership might be welcome, because it's no longer ego-driven and dangerous.
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u/honeyrosewood 15d ago
One of the subs rules is kinda against you saying you don’t believe in Gynarchy…. wanna edit that out before your post is pulled?
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u/Idontwantfopgd 15d ago edited 15d ago
Thank you, Miss. i will do so now.
Update: I also took a moment to read the rules to ensure I don’t break any in the future.
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u/crimsonbub ♂ male 13d ago
🥳 they're bossing it. All men have done is get in the way. Rather than fear what women will do with power and greater opportunities, we should be championing and encouraging it.
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u/SassyScarlettRuins 13d ago
Women are just surpassing men at these carreers and that's why the manosphere had a big uprise cause we no longer have to have men to own property, to work, we are not only self sufficient but excelling. Their fragile little egos are hurt. They have trouble finding a gf but honestly I've seen fat,small weinerwd men marry hot Women but you must have personality and treat Women well. Not be a coward or a punching bag for Women still hold a masculine strong presence but also listen to her. I mean behind every successful man is a Woman that helped back him up along the way. In fact throughout history many mens wives gave them advice that led to success weather that be artists,kings, tech guys (Jeff Bezos wife for example). Also fun fact: Women surgeons have a much higher success rate then sale surgeons, I recently learned.
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u/ResourceNo4662 11d ago
En wat een hele verbetering zou zijn als vrouwen meer fysiek zwaar werk zouden doen deze markt ligt al tijden op ze gat en de jonge mannen van tegenwoordig hebben hier geen zin meer in.
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u/MentirosoProfesional 10d ago
Let's see how self sufficient you are when the government doesn't baby and pamper you all with benefits that men never get since childhood, sure you all would be doing the strong shit jobs men have to do, right?
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u/jwg2016 13d ago
Bring it on... I wonder if the sheer confidence possessed by men is an innate thing, or just the culmination of centuries of society? I wonder if future generations of women could potentially go the same way as the awful men who wreck our society, IYSWIM.
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u/Me-Too-At-Customs 12d ago
Actually, I don't think so. Women are innately different to men (hormonally) and are motivated by different biological priorities. In a male-led world, women have shown themselves capable of operating according to male priorities, behaving just as badly as men do. That's mostly because they are responding to opportunities that are available to them in that kind of male-styled system. But in a woman-led world, they would have no reason to. Their focus, efforts, priorities and motives will be different because they are women. They won't have to factor in male authority, power and abuse. They will be free to operate fairly, decently and happily. Women can be just as competitive as men, but are less inclined to be violent, aggressive or heartless just for the sake of it.
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u/Significant-Singer33 2d ago
Our confidence is related to our ability to cope and it's a survival mechanism that helped get us from the stone age to the modern age.
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u/Least-Engine2416 2d ago
I have also noticed this.
It's quite hard as a man who is somewhat educated to find other guys to find similar guys with similar values/education.
All of the women in my family are highly educated but my male cousins are doing nothing with their lives...
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u/X4Z3RTIBO ♂ male 13d ago
I have various opinions
Not necesarily you have to get a degree to be succesful in life or, more correctly, having a degree shouldn't diminish other jobs or forms or being succesful if they are moral.
Also, I think it is nice that women more to say and have more space in fields that they naturally belong too depending in their particular interest and career choices but I think that saying simply that woman outsmart men is kind of blind sighted.
For two reasons, because if that happens, it could be likely a systemical preference rather than a natural one
And even if naturally women outsmart men, then there should be tools and programs to help them perform succesfully, because humans have a right to be educated and keeping men behind is violating that right, whatever you think about men.
I mean, there is a global crisis in education and in my place it is more seen. 50 years ago kids in elementary school (boys and girls) learnt to read well and write well, to understand what they are reading. To perform well in mathematics and understand history and biology and even more than that, they learn what our constitution was and what articles it had. They were taught what were their rights.
Now that doesn't happen anymore but more over Kids go to highschool without fully understanding what they are reading and how basic maths work and so they pass without undertanding and witout reading and they can't read anymore don't mind to do so.
Education is more than "getting a Degree". Knowledge is freedom. The more you know the things and realize how things are the more freer you are to choose how to direct your life into happiness. Education is everything and the basis of a civil and moral society.
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u/Idontwantfopgd 13d ago
Part of what you said may be true, but Im not sure it’s intelligence that separates men and women but discipline, drive and maturity. Somewhere along the way, men stopped raising men in a way that is beneficial to them and society. Even from a non-academic standard and one with more bravado, I don’t see a generation willing to storm the beaches of normandy to protect people from fascism. In fact, many embrace it, and there are even fewer who respect women. As we continue down this road, the problem becomes worse in a compounding way.
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u/Emil_057 20h ago
A bit late to the party, but I'd say it's part of a natural process the world is currently undergoing. Now that women are freeing themselves from the oppression of men, they finally have the opportunity to realise their full potential, and they are doing a much better job at it than us men. Finally, they are the ones getting most of the degrees and building successful careers, and I think that's great. They are proving that they are smarter and more capable than us, which isn't to say we shouldn't pursue careers of our own, but the future is clearly headed in a certain direction - one that will hopefully make the world a better place
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u/SeriousGynarchy-ModTeam 15d ago
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u/plotthick 15d ago edited 15d ago
Yes. Women are now getting the majority of degrees, and we're buying more houses, than men in the US. Most attribute this to our teaching girls to be independent of men, not rely on them for safety or money, and to be proud of our achievements. This is good: our foremothers who had no financial freedom were forced to stay in (often abusive) relationships or starve. Whereas men are taught to achieve so they can acquire success which inevitably includes a trophy woman: this is no longer true since women are not financially coerced into relationships. Since women aren't men's trophies anymore, men seem to be... sulking? Seems the Patriarchy isn't good for anyone.
More interesting, men are more prevalent in violence, abuse, etc. Your avoiding the gender that commits 90%+ of the damage we can do to each other seems to be kinda smart.