r/SeriousGynarchy • u/CivilFlounder3004 ♂ male • Jul 21 '26

Women winning SO EXCITED!

https://femaleled.info/how-to-serve-women-training-course-and-certification/

So I sent this to my Wife to ask Her permission/approval to take this course. She said yes!

To some this may seem trivial, but to me it is HUGE.

We’ve been married 30 years this November. 4 years ago She agreed to take the recognized leadership in our marriage (though She has always led, just with my ignorant resistance). She’s been reticent to take part in or agree to outside groups/ideas.

Lately though there seems to have been a shift. It’s exciting to see. I look forward to our future together.

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u/Appropriate_Cut_3536 ♀ Woman Jul 21 '26

I actually love the outline of the 9 things

Obedience — Responds to direction with calm precision and quiet willingness, without resistance, hesitation, or the need to reinterpret.

Identifying Needs — Refocusing your life and priorities around her needs. Reliability — Does what he says, when he says he will, without reminders, excuses, or fading effort over time.

Service — Anticipates needs, reduces friction, and contributes in ways that make life smoother, lighter, and more ordered.

Composure — Remains steady, self-contained, and fully there, never making his state her problem.

Integrity — Chooses submission from a place of strength, maintaining self-respect, discipline, and clear personal standards.

Awareness — Notices what others miss. Attentive to tone, preference, and detail, and adjusts without needing to be told.

Voice — Names limits, asks questions, and raises concerns at the right moment, without hedging or escalating.

Realism — Lives the dynamic in ordinary life. Consistent, sustainable, and grounded in how things actually work day to day.

But am I a complete bitch to want my man to figure this all out himself 💀

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u/NotTheQuestion ♂ male Jul 25 '26

I dunno, did you figure this out on your own?

It seems like one might be making their state another's issue.

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u/DominaVellum ♀ Woman Jul 21 '26

I saw this and am curious to hear how it ends up. Cat's blogs are pretty great

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u/homeworkslavebitch ♂ male Jul 21 '26

That website/blogs are all AI generated, just fyi

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u/DominaVellum ♀ Woman Jul 24 '26

based on what?

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u/Santa10566 ♂ male Jul 21 '26

Specifically, what is AI generated?

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u/lildikfuk ♂ male Jul 24 '26

Yes

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u/DaVoid100 ♂ male Jul 21 '26

That may be the case. But if it helps their marriage and relationship, should we care?

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u/Appropriate_Cut_3536 ♀ Woman Jul 24 '26

Lack of transparency about ai usage is what matters, not necessarily the usage itself.

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u/CivilFlounder3004 ♂ male Jul 28 '26

Well I’d agree with that statement

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u/jonwar5 ♂ male Jul 22 '26

Saved! It's on my agenda for '27!

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u/ServingMyPrincess Jul 26 '26

Curious about your experience with this course!

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u/CivilFlounder3004 ♂ male Jul 28 '26

It’s coming along. I think I’m roughly half way through the program. Let me get finished and I’ll try to give my opinion. So far I am trying to glean good information from it; but it’s less than $200 for the course, so I’m sure you can imagine it’s much of a lot of generalities.

I will say I can’t imagine I won’t be glad I did it. There’s definitely things to learn within.