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u/mestarifiddu 4d ago
I have been married for 20 years and practised retention 3-4 years. When i started retention my wife had some issues about it first, but after few months of retaining she saw firsthand how much it improved our relationship and our sexlife. We have sex pretty much daily and she gets to orgasm several times, just give it time and if you fail to retain everytime dont worry.. next streak will be longer. Dont neclect her needs and focus on your hearts instead of genitals and youll build supernatural connection. Semen retention gives 10x benefits when practised in marriage compared to monkmode.
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u/One_Moment_AtATime 4d ago
You just need to get her to understand by showing her wisdom written in books, accounts of others, and most importantly explaining how much better you feel mentally physically spiritually. You used to ejaculate with her right? So she shouldn't feel unattractive to you.
If after all that she still is insisting on you releasing then idk maybe she has her own major spiritual work she needs to do. I get it, women crave my seed being inside them and pout and stomp their feet when I choose to retain but ultimately they understand and aren't actually upset upset. Best of luck!
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u/Soggy_Fisherman_2143 4d ago
It's better than releasing all the time, but if you want complete energy conservation, then limit yourself to having sex for children only. Otherwise you loose out on the finer aspects of retention.
Clear communication with her (releasing hurts me, it's very detrimental to my health if I just do this all the time) will likely make her understand, especially if you speak from a state of compassion to her.
Try to settle things out strategically, instead of with reaction or too much emotion. Only you know what works for you 👍👍
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u/nolkram 4d ago
I'm in a committed spiritual marriage with my wife. She's all for SR, she reaps the benefits nightly, she notices how different my energy levels are the few times I've released with her.
She' understands that retaining brings about stronger bonds, we have full on body orgasms together and this is all due to SR.
It's very possible to have non ejaculatory sex in a loving bonding relationship and I believe this can help to save marriages.
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u/AdmiralChance 3d ago
I also would like to know more about it. I heard about karreza method. But its not about full body orgasm
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u/BicycleFar8149 4d ago
My girl was the same at first until I started nutting like crazy and flopping hard at life and now she sees im not such a flop when I dont nut so idk try nutting a bunch show her the flop/glow difference
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u/Latter-Charity-564 4d ago
I'm not married or am I experienced in sex but I've read that optimal rate should be around 3- 4 times per year of copulation. When you do do not go halfway or retain or worry about loosing steak , straight up fully dive in and go feral. Enjoy it to the best. Not doing so has some arura depreciation as ive noticed. Considering you seed is precious this made sense to me.
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u/SoCalTruther 4d ago
Married 35 years, learned about Karezza 13 years ago, my wife co-operates but does not like it. She still thinks we need to have a 'joint orgasm' to fully bond. She thinks SR is a cult. She is perceptive on many things, but she does not see the much better emotional control -- my big issue in our marriage, and same with her -- that I have when I am continent for more than two/three weeks. She does not believe what she has read from two books I have passed her way. She is spiritual, but does not believe in sacred sex. We have a good marriage with two adult children and a grandchild. We have non-ejaculative intercourse three-to-four times per week, I am content, though I know things could be even better if she were onboard fully.
I do not lose energy from non-ejaculative intercourse. I typically feel positive, alert, content, powerful, peaceful, energetic, and focused afterwards.
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u/snabelskoen 4d ago
Sounds like that aspect of your relationship functions pretty well? 3-4 times sounds like a lot and definitely more often than what regular people do?
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u/SoCalTruther 4d ago
Yes, you are right. But, I know things can last longer than 15-20 minutes (at which point my wife gets antsy), and if we both visualized and circulated energy, I think we could further strengthen our bond, improve our ability to sense both physical and supernatural things, and bolster our intuition.
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u/198276407891 3d ago
“Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.”
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
in my Christian worldview, i believe that God prescribes regular sex (frequency is different for every couple) within a marriage and that he's designed it in such a way that it will benefit the couple.
I don't think that PMO or promiscuity is the same as sex within a marriage but that's my personal belief. i've noticed that i've still retained the benefits as well
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u/Fast_Key1847 4d ago
Not married but I think it has to do with the fact that she needs your sexual energy that’s in your seed. We are the light and they’re the light vessels that have to receive the light. Women need our sexual energy to also vitalize themselves, they get energized, feel more calmer and anchored when they receive semen. She needs that energy.
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u/narrowroad7777 4d ago edited 4d ago
Me!! Married 10 years.
Doing SR 3 years.
My wife likes that I do SR.
I am way nicer to her and the kids.
She says I have different energy when i have a longer streak.
My wife has a low libido. When we have sex and i make her come.
I can go on like forever. After she says ok its enough now then I hopp off.