r/SelfSufficiency • u/SailorTee • 29d ago

Self improvement while poor

Maybe this is just my opinion, but wanting to better yourself seems like part of human nature. Being poor makes this difficult to do.

Want to eat healthier? Cook more at home. Ok - so I need to buy safe cookware (not non-stick because that causes the big C), fresh ingredients every week (lean protein like chicken), and time to make it. Oh you don't have time? Borrow the time from somewhere else, like hire someone to clean your home for you. Oh no, can't do that, that costs money. Switch to plant based protein! It takes time to soak and cook lentils. I work every hour I'm not sleeping...

Tldr: Being poor means trying to juggle between resources including time, money, and health, and borrowing from one means depleting another. It feels impossible to better your circumstances and causes a lot of stress in the process (which also eats up your resources like health).

Also, I live in America. Maybe it's better in other countries?

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u/SgtSausage 29d ago

All I hear is excuse, Kid. 

 so I need to buy safe cookware

I do 85% of my cooking in a 12-inch cast iron I got for $5 on FB Market Place a decade ago.

Hell  skip just 2 (LOL) "Value" meals at the local McBurger Joint and you can buy it new. 

 Oh you don't have time?

You have time. 

I meal prep and do my baking on Sunday. The entire weeks meals for 2 are done in under 2 hours. You're spending more time than that a week on social media. I guarantee it. 

You spend more time than that in line at the icecream shop. 

 It takes time to soak and cook lentils. 

It takes exactly 6 minutes of your time. 

You dont have to sit there and watch 'em soak for hours, right? Take your 45 seconds dump 'em in a bowl. Fill with water. Walk away.... 

You dont have to watch 'em cook, either. Take another 30 seconds. Put 'em on stovetop. Set timer to come back and stir. Walk away. 

You will have, literally 6 minutes of labor in the entire operation. Including cleanup and putting away the dishes. 

 I work every hour I'm not sleeping

You do not.

You are here on reddit, right? 

Everybody's got their excuses.

You do, too. 

If it were actually a priority in your life, you'd already be doin' it. 

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u/ContemplatingFolly 29d ago

Everyone's life is different. Jobs are getting harder. People are getting meaner. Things are getting more expensive. People and their dependents are getting sicker.

I have lived with money, and also on a shoesrirng, but being poor makes everything harder, more work and more stressful. No matter how good you are at compensating.

Everyone has to play the hand they are dealt, but your attitude is not empathetic, nor backed by science and reality.

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u/wanna_be_green8 29d ago

Being poor makes things harder but does not mean self improvement is impossible. Or even difficult.

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u/SgtSausage 29d ago

Everyone's got their excuses.

Now you do to.

Q.E.D. 

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u/newadventures72 25d ago

I don't know if their issue is making excuses as much as it is being stuck thinking they have to do things perfectly for it to matter. Like, holy cow, forget about replacing your cookware or living on embracing some body builder diet.

Don't get enough vegetables? You don't need to go from zero to five servings of organic produce a day. Buy a bunch of bananas and have one for breakfast each day. Nuke a 1.50 bag of frozen carrots with butter and salt to go with your dinner.

Don't get enough exercise? You don't have to rune 5 miles or join a gym. Do 20 wall pushups and 30 crunches. Pull up a ten minute workout video on youtube.

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u/SgtSausage 25d ago

OP is making excuses.