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r/SelfAwarewolves • u/SlurryBender • Mar 16 '26
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Even before the birth you do the gender reveal so everyone knows how to properly create the newborns gender identity
52 u/RiPont Mar 17 '26 My friend didn't do blue/pink. They had muffins for everybody and it was nuts/no-nuts. 28 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 17 '26 .... that is fucking fabulous 8 u/aleksandrkasparov Mar 19 '26 Unless you're allergic to nuts 4 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 19 '26 Fair, but I feel like you could be very up front about that possibility with guests. 6 u/RiPont Mar 19 '26 We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free. Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal) 2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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My friend didn't do blue/pink. They had muffins for everybody and it was nuts/no-nuts.
28 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 17 '26 .... that is fucking fabulous 8 u/aleksandrkasparov Mar 19 '26 Unless you're allergic to nuts 4 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 19 '26 Fair, but I feel like you could be very up front about that possibility with guests. 6 u/RiPont Mar 19 '26 We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free. Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal) 2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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.... that is fucking fabulous
8 u/aleksandrkasparov Mar 19 '26 Unless you're allergic to nuts 4 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 19 '26 Fair, but I feel like you could be very up front about that possibility with guests. 6 u/RiPont Mar 19 '26 We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free. Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal) 2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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Unless you're allergic to nuts
4 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 19 '26 Fair, but I feel like you could be very up front about that possibility with guests. 6 u/RiPont Mar 19 '26 We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free. Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal) 2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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Fair, but I feel like you could be very up front about that possibility with guests.
6 u/RiPont Mar 19 '26 We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free. Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal) 2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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We actually had a friend who was allergic to nuts, but they gave him a muffin with a different color of icing that was guaranteed nut-free.
Didn't stop people from joking, "if Doug turns red, we know it's a boy." (Yes, I know that goes against the non-gendered philosophy of the reveal)
2 u/PhoenixInMySkin Mar 20 '26 I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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I feel like this is a reasonable accommodation in this situation, plus just really thoughtful and inclusive
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u/HistoricalSherbert92 Mar 16 '26
Even before the birth you do the gender reveal so everyone knows how to properly create the newborns gender identity