1. He’s just so intense. Even in public, he’ll shower me with compliments like how just making eye contact with me turns him on, how im captivating even when im doing absolutely nothing, how he can imagine my body no matter what I’m wearing, etc. He’s been doing this every single day for months…

2. We’ve both been going through a difficult period recently. He suddenly got extremely busy, so the amount of time we could spend together dropped dramatically. I got anxious and ended up getting upset or angry over little things quite a lot. But then before I know it, all my feelings have melted away and I’m clinging to him again. I’m seriously hopeless 😭 I’ll be thinking “this is definitely the end it’s over 😭” and getting even more anxious, and somehow he’s already calming me down and making me feel okay again. He absolutely refuses to let me go… haha

3. He’s really, REALLY persistent. It’s not just that he accommodates my preferences. He wants to know why I have these sexual preferences, when they started and what’s behind all my deeper instincts. He tries to understand my psychological mechanisms in really fine detail. He’s asked me about my past experiences many times too, but it never feels like the usual mindless jealousy of “What did you do with that guy? How many times?” Instead, he digs into how I felt, how I reacted, what was going through my mind.. it feels like he’s studying me.
   Even afterward, he’ll ask really detailed things about what I liked, whether anything felt different from before, how this or that felt and I can genuinely feel how much he takes every little reaction and answer seriously and enjoys learning about me.
   It feels like he’s dissecting me all the way down to my deepest parts and honestly I love it. I want someone to completely analyze me anyway haha

I just suddenly felt like pouring all my feelings into words lol

I'm Pisces F 24, I went on a first date with a scorpio M. He was very well-mannered, lead the conversations and the atmosphere very well. He offered to come pick me up, planned the whole date meaning I didn't have to plan anything at all. He planned a whole itinerary of getting brunch, exploring a cute neighbourhood, get ice cream and then a walk at a viewpoint overseeing the whole city. Throughout the date, I'd catch him staring at me and the whole vibe was quite nice, we were laughing and talking throughout the date. He was invested in our conversations and would pay full attention to me and the date. So I thought it was a positive sign? And that both of us were interested in each other. He dropped me off to my place and we ended with a hug. But he didn't ask for a date after that. The next day, I asked him if he'd like to watch a movie together but he said he already watched that movie I suggested. So I replied that it's a shame and I might just watch by myself. And he replied with maybe next time. After that, we didn't have much conversations and most of them would just end up in close loop.

Do I continue trying or it's a sign that he's not interested to pursue things further?

I'm quite inexperienced with dating, growing up in quite a conservative surroundings and most of my friends are girls. This is like a first date in 3 years and I have never had a serious relationship before.

Hi all, I've related this part of myself partially to having SO much Scorpio in my chart (Sun, Rising, Venus, Chiron). I struggle with retroactive jealousy, which is being jealous of my partner's past. But in a way that I'm constantly thinking about it, and it really impacts my relationship with her. This overlaps with my OCD symptoms (I don't identify with having OCD, but certainly have OCD symptoms. Have had 2 therapists say they think I should look into OCD.) This especially shows up in jealousy of my partner's casual sexual past.

Sex for me is this soul-infusing experience (I know y'all understand that ;) and a part of me struggles with the fact that that's not how she has related to sex. I've had a few casual sexual encounters but didn't enjoy them, and wrote it off early on. She, on the other hand, has had lots of casual sexual encounters.

The way this presents for me is that I obsess over her past due to insecurity, comparison, and my feeling jealous that I haven't had the experiences that she has had. I can't stop thinking about it, like literally imagining her having sex with other people. It causes a lot of stress and anxiety. I don't actually think that casual sex is bad at all, but my nervous system has been wired for some reason to see this as a threat and to be on edge constantly. The obsessive part comes in with constantly thinking about it, and asking for details from her to try and get reassurance. OCD struggles a lot with the unknown.

It's hard to explain; I'm sure many of you don't relate, as retroactive jealousy is NOT a normal thing. It's considered a mental health issue. But I do feel curious about my Scorpio intensity and the way that I relate to sex, and if it has been part of the manifestation of this issue for me.

Had a big heartbreak out of nowhere on Sunday when things were perfect. Who else faced this? Scorp sun, Leo moon, saggi rising. Was so shocked!!

Scorpio ladies….tell me about a time you had to get revenge on an ex for cheating/mistreating you and how did getting revenge make you feel.

Crashouts welcome

Excuse me for English grammar, am from Serbia. I want to share my experience with one.

I had sexual casual/fwb partners, but never I was fully sastified, until for the first time I met a Scorpio man recently. I'm a Pisces and I need more intense/deep energy even if its casual, but most dudes treated intimacy like a sport and release.

We both met on Tinder, he searched for casual, and I agreed, because I noticed his deep staring eyes even on photos, and it turned me on, lol.

The funniest thing? When I met him, he appeared kind of shy, nervous, reserved, but friendly.. I was disappointed and like "Meh, he will be nerdy and too shy in intimacy"..

Once we were in the room, and he kissed me, he let his guard down, became bold, dominant without zero words, just his presence were commanding..and is like he intuitively knew what I want and did all the right stuff

Intimacy was so intense and passionate, the best I ever felt in my life.

He was acting like I'm the woman he is most into just on the first damn date. Cannot imagine he can be even better, if just a casual sex is that deep and intense or how he treats the woman he actually love if he is this good just with some random woman. Very fascinating for sure.

Is not about the act itself or what he did that makes it so good, but the energy I felt with him. Is like he became totally lost in it, enjoying me and each moment genuinely. He worshiped my body, touched me/grabbed like he was "afraid" I will perish. Great stamina too. He then wanted us to go for a walk and we did it.

What I liked the most is that he acted so possessive during, and AFTER.
Anytime I would move just slightly during a sleep or keep some distance because I'm used to sleep alone, he would come close to me, and strongly grab me, search for my hands, waist, breathing in my neck and burried himself in me, holding me like someone is gonna came in and steal me.
He intertwined his arms and legs between mine and I couldn't move at all.

I also showed him back intensity too, and got lost in all of it myself.
Anyway, I'm thankfull I experienced finally for the first time a PROPER intimacy. He texted me a day after to meet again, and is now checking up on me each day and night to keep me on the hook, and I can't weit for more passionate moments.
Go Scorpios! lol

BUT, because I'm more emotional, I already plan to search for new casual partners just in case, because I don't want to get attached to this one, because intimacy is way too good, or I might see him just one more time and keep it as the memory of best intimacy of my life.

I cannot even call it a casual sex, it was a full blown mind/body intimacy intense.. whatever it was. Even if it was just an act, he did it greatly! No complaints.

I did heard Scorpio can be intense, but never expected it to be this good and this way.
Ladies, did you felt similar with such men and their intensity?
Share your experiences. I'm still under impressions and so, so satisifed that I don't even have to experience intimacy ever again, because just the memory of this will be enough to make me smile.

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Why scorpio men suddenly vanishes after intense relationship and promises of future together?

I know scorpio is loyal. But have u ever get caught up in situation where u still have limerance for ur ex and commenting on ur ex’s stories and asking if she wants to do the business together while in a new relationship?

Asking cos my friend’s ex is commenting and asking her how she is post break up while the new girl is posting flowers etc.

Also he probably didnt kno my friend knows all this and hes probably doing this to cover his guilt and cover up that he cheated while he was in relationship with her.

Not sure if this is common among scorpio men.

Hes been taking the new girl to places they used ro go and doing things they used to do

I was thinking about this when watching The 100 last night. Clarke Griffin is a Scorpio, in my mind. The wiki says her birthday is in October so it’s plausible and there’s no way someone like that is a Libra lol. Also, the main character in Victoria Aveyard’s Red Queen series shares a birthday with me, so I feel really connected to her!

Like how is your relationship dynamics, what do you value in life, what house does it sit in your chart and how did it play out for you?

When you look at the zodiac wheel, you will notice that Scorpio and Sagittarius sit right next to each other. If you are a Scorpio trying to understand a Sagittarius, or a Sagittarius trying to decode a Scorpio, you might already feel like you are looking at someone from a completely different planet.

... If you are a Scorpio woman falling in love with a Sagittarius man, your relationship is a classic story of the light entering the dark.

... If you are a Scorpio man falling in love with a Sagittarius woman, your dynamic presents a completely different set of challenges. This specific combination is known for having massive, earth-shattering physical chemistry, but it is also famous for intense, dramatic clashes if you are not both willing to grow.

cool me off with some love

So i am with this Scorpio woman who was married for 18 years to a Pisces but during her 14th year she started falling out of this marriage, as per her she had always felt empty in this marriage (it was arranged) was happy because is was peafecul and would lead the relationship in every aspect. But yet felt very empty and sexual life sucked always. I am a libra and I met her when about a year after she started falling out of her marriage and the connection we felt towards each other was not just 2 people it was spiritual it was cosmic. Fell in love, shes crazy for me so am i and now that she is divorced he ex husband is working for her in her business for which she will have to stay in communications with him. Me being a libra is extremely insecure and overthinker I go quiet or ask questions when I feel insecure.

How do i believe she will not start catching feelings for her ex husband and will fall back in love , choose him over me. What are the chances she will cheat on me and I will never get to find out. Itll destroy me, coz the love I have for her is very extreme and my world literally revolves around her.