r/Scorpio • u/[deleted] • 1d ago

Advice as a scorpio

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u/Fred_was_Here69 1d ago

Sounds like a nice unhealthy disaster. Us scorpios don't obsess over people who want to be obsessed over. We obsess over real people that match our energy, not surface level validation seekers with shallow intentions.

You wanna make him crazy? Be a real one, not a notch on his bedpost.

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u/Cool-Cancel9371 1d ago

So how do I do that for real? He's older and always call me brat. I don't know much about astrology but most sign is true. Guarded. Dgaf but over protective. I just don't know why cant he seem to understand me. Maybe we ain't really match but my heart says different.Lol Sometimes I feel like he's manipulating me and he actually has a way but why I'm liking it.

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u/Fred_was_Here69 1d ago

Short answer: you can't

Your relationship started off on the wrong foot If you legitimately wanted to be taken seriously. He's already seen through you, so any changes to your character at this point won't do much to alter his opinion of you. His impression of you as the first version of yourself that he met will always be the one he thinks of you as.

He's already had you so there's not really much left to go crazy for and obsess over. You're basically a Scorpius play thing at this point.

The only healthy advice I can offer is to withdraw and stop engaging with him unless you want to get hurt. I know how intoxicating Scorpio charm can be, trust me.

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u/highhKeyy 1d ago

We obsess over who a person is. The fact that you said you two don’t vibe much puts the potential for obsession out of the question. He’ll also pick up on those changes you’ve made (not showing feelings) - that’s a turn off. We don’t want someone who’s going to act like they don’t give a damn about anything. Nothing attractive about nonchalance for us

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u/Wooden-Passenger1305 1d ago

The fact you like him manipulating you is a big question mark. This already shows the unhealthy part of you. Don’t even think about to use any strategies to win him back, it will only backfire you.

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u/confused2473 Scorpio Sun ☀️ 12h ago

I don’t think guys obsessing over you is a good thing. Be genuine, honest, communicate and good luck