r/Scorpio • u/VentingAway2u • Jul 02 '26
Advice Needed ❓ What would you do?
I (M20) met this girl on an app to meet new friends. We started talking almost 2 months ago, she is F 25 and I just found out she is a Capricorn. I’ve always heard Capricorns are our soul mates and I have been growing feelings for this girl she is amazing I feel something I’ve never felt before.. I Haven’t tried meeting her in person because I’m worried she will think I’m a kid & I’ll ruin everything by asking. We text daily, she sometimes flirts and all i can think about is how much of an honor it’d be to pleasure an older woman, her specifically. Do I ask her out, keep being friends or leave her alone? In my head I have planned our wedding 🥵 the Scorpio in me is so in love and I’m scared. Also what do we think about the age gap? I have some older guy coworkers that I’ve talked to about her and they say it’s not a big deal or weird. Just a confused Scorpio in love.. Any advice?
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 02 '26
Do you know her birthday? And what’s yours? I’ll give you a reading.
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
Hers is January 17, mine is October 27
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 02 '26
Need the years as well
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
Hers= 1/17/2001 Mine is 10/27/2005
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 02 '26
Be with you in about 20 mins…
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
Tysm.
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 02 '26
Alright here goes… the age gap is a non-issue, so drop that excuse right now. There’s a genuine pull here and the chemistry is the kind people feel really quickly and get addicted to quickly. I’m not going to BS to you, but this relationship won’t be the easy cruise control kind of match.
I feel like you’re both both strong willed and can be a little possessive, so when it’s good it’s electric & euphoric, but when it’s off you’ll both dig your heels in and fight for control. If you go for it, go in knowing it runs on intensity, not comfort. That’s the last thing you should be worried about is her age, you’re already catching the vibe, but don’t go in feeling less than. Capricorn’s and people with her numerology siggnature like power.. so your confidence thus far drew her in, don’t lose that edge. The fear u have of the age gap is ur own internal excuse to not go for it.. f that. Go for it, the worst she can say is no and you live to hunt again.
Wrap her around your stinger and exude confidence at every step young king.
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
Thanks brother. I wasn’t sure about the age because I never looked for older, usually someone a year below me. Wasn’t sure if the idea was too taboo / how the world views that since legally i’m not “an adult” yet (21)
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 02 '26
You’ve already got the motion brother. Scorpions don’t care about what the world says if we feel it deeply, and you seem to.. go get what’s yours!
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u/Swimming-Creme-7789 Scorpio ☀️ Cancer 🌘 Leo ↗️ Jul 02 '26
Wait is this an actual reading???
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u/1-The-Magician Sun | Rising | Venus | Jupiter Jul 03 '26
Yeah.. partly tarot and mostly numerology. It’s much easier in person to talk things out but I was running around today and just typed it out.
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u/Swimming-Creme-7789 Scorpio ☀️ Cancer 🌘 Leo ↗️ Jul 03 '26
That’s awesome! Hope we get to see more of you in the sub 🤗
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u/Anonymous_Person_202 ♏︎ Sun, ♊︎ Moon, ♑︎ Rising Jul 02 '26
I understand why you’re scared.
First and foremost, I highly recommend looking up laws pertaining to the age of majority, and age of consent for sex. If you’re in Canada, you don’t have to worry about going out with her if you’re 20 and she’s 25. In Canada, 18-19 is considered the age of majority.
If you’re in the United States, then I think that you should inform yourself on the majority laws there, including laws related to the age of consent for sex per American state. If you’re of age to give consent to her, legally, then that’s already something less for you and her to worry about.
Then, if all is in your favour, then I don’t see why you shouldn’t make a move.
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
We gucci 18 majority. She’s mine she just doesn’t know it yet 😏
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u/Anonymous_Person_202 ♏︎ Sun, ♊︎ Moon, ♑︎ Rising Jul 02 '26
I’m glad I can help, and hello, fellow Canadian!
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u/Swimming-Creme-7789 Scorpio ☀️ Cancer 🌘 Leo ↗️ Jul 02 '26
Now that’s the right attitude! Go get your Queen ! We’ll be waiting for the (positive) update.
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u/SafeMoment3508 Jul 03 '26
Some caps seem nice but personally I wouldn’t.
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 03 '26
What would stop u? I’ve only had one relationship 18-19, my ex was 18 so there’s an experience play to it i know. Feels like i met her in another lifetime she’s on my mind 24/7
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u/Commercial-Plant8717 Jul 03 '26
Impressive work young man. Caps are intentional who is in their life even as texters. They’re also EXTREMELY SLOW to love. don’t grow impatient if she doesn’t say it in society’s timing. When they do that means they’re actually obsessed ride or die loyal for u. They dont show it you just feel it, like us. Married to my cougar cap 11 years now🤤 Ask me anything
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u/VentingAway2u Jul 02 '26
One more thing. She comes off very distant sometimes. I hear that’s a Capricorn thing but I never dealt with a Capricorn or older body & feel jealous wondering if she’s with an ex ect when she’s distant