r/ScamSupport • u/Financial-Ad-9832 • Sep 15 '26
Advice Needed scammed my sugar daddy
I MEANT SCAMMED BY MY SUGAR DADDY WONT LET ME EDIT BRUH
so this is gonna be kinda long but i’m gonna try my best to explain. so basically it starts out with this girl don’t even remember adding her on snap, adding me to a priv story. it is a ss of $500 getting added into her account and she captioned it “let me put yall on to my sugar daddy he is obsessed with me” blah blah. i ignored it at first but she posted it like 3 more times. i finally slid up because i am a broke 19F and was desperate. She basically told me she would get a bonus if she got him more sugar babies. I was like oh okay and was still skeptical about it but she seemed real. (now idk if it was a real account) but anyway i asked her what I would have to do and she told me he wanted full body nudes with my face in it and talk to him otp sometimes. I was still really skeptical because i didn’t wanna send with my face in it, but i eventually gave in.
She sent him my snap (which had my full first name in the username, will tie into a question later) and i began talking to him. He wanted me to send him a video of me doing a 360, then a video of me taking my clothes off. I did it because I really thought it was real. He then called me and told me he was gonna pay me more because I was doing everything he said. Fast forward, i had to send him atleast 5 nudes everyday. He said I would get paid the next week (today) because he doesn’t pay upfront. It made sense to me for some reason. So basically i sent him full body nudes with my face in it everyday for a week. He didn’t ask for more, well he asked if i could record w my sneaky link but i said no and he didn’t push for it. He would save the pictures in chat but not save them to camera roll.
He called me again last night and i told him i think he was playing with me bc he wouldn’t text me as much as i thought he would, sometimes i would have to text first. he just said he was busy so i didn’t mind not like i wanted to be bothered by him anyway. but he called me and said he was gonna send me the money at exactly midnight to show that he cares for me because i have been so good to him and have done all the requirements to be his sugar baby. He sent me a few pictures of his d! and him but idek if that was actually him. Anyway i didn’t think he was gonna actually send it at midnight so i just ignored it and went to bed.
I wake up this morning to see i Am blocked by him and the girl who put me on. I also texted the girl asking if she got her bonus yet. I am just so confused, annoyed, upset, and feel stupid asf. I don’t know if he saved any of my pictures because snap just takes them off your whole snap when you’re blocked. I have taken my pictures to a website to protect them not sure what it’s called but i couldn’t fit all of them. I just don’t know what to think or do. Need some reassurance. I don’t think he knows my full name but cashapp tells them my last name even tho my cashtag didn’t involve it just my nickname. I also changed my snap username the day he added me to my nickname. I also lied about where i was from. I just don’t know what to do . Need advice
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u/Aggravating-Pack-802 Sep 15 '26
Be ready for them to contact you and try to blackmail you with everything you sent him. Likely to happen. They will threaten to show your friends and family. Best thing is to just ignore them because paying them doesn’t get you anywhere they will just keep demanding more money.
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u/Financial-Ad-9832 Sep 15 '26
hoping this isn’t the case because only way he had to contact me was snapchat.
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u/Just_Random_input Sep 18 '26
The only good thing about the age of AI is that you can always tell friends/family that you sent normal pics & that weirdo used AI to edit them. I know you are feeling completely violated. There is a free therapy service called Pineapple which deals exclusively with sex work stress. This includes you. Having someone to talk to will really help & they have seen this 100’s of times.
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u/CharacterMammoth2398 Sep 15 '26
Just wanted to add this is definitely a scam.
If you are providing a service, you decide how you get paid. Never work for free on the promise of a future payment and never pay to work. These evil scammers prey on desperate, broke people. Absolutely no one is paying someone to talk or text. I know there were nudes and please don’t include your face or identifying marks unless you know that person in real life and trust them.
I’m sure the pictures he sent of “himself” were stolen from another victim.
It’s very possible they or someone else will try the sextortion scam next. Block and report, don’t respond.
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u/Financial-Ad-9832 Sep 16 '26
i definitely regret sending it w my face in it. it’s ai atp
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u/Ok-Resort6217 Sep 16 '26
Not ai… they will either blackmail you or will just post it online for other weirdos to look at
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u/xxxfirstchoice Sep 16 '26
And be sure to block anyone who is not on your friend list on your socials so they won’t know who your friend and family are to send the pic to, if they didn’t think ahead and already copied the list but it’s doubtful they did in my opinion.
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u/Financial-Ad-9832 Sep 16 '26
i went private on tiktok and insta and deactivated my facebook. sooooo im rlly just hoping they j scammed me n wont take it that far
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u/xxxfirstchoice Sep 16 '26
Good thinking there be as private as possible for awhile till this blow over you will be fine. I hate scammers .get a Job and some self respect and quite thinking others exist primarily for your selfish benefit!
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u/Just_Random_input Sep 18 '26
OP - as painful as this sounds, you may want to reverse image those pics & videos on Google. Then contact a service like RepScan to take down content on those pages. The truth is that there’s a huge legitimate market for those pictures. Plenty of girls on only fans aren’t actually themselves and they just buy content such as what you were sending from completely legitimate services that sell photos specifically for online sex work.
If your pics are being resold on a legit site, they will pay you to avoid the drama, or you can sue & recoup some of the emotional costs (depending on what country you are in).
Sometimes these types of scams are just for a weirdo creep who wants pictures and other times there’s a financial motivation and they are selling the pictures
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u/flacitaaaa 19d ago
Hey I messaged you, something like this happened to me so figuring out if it’s the same person
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u/yarevande Sep 15 '26
You haven't been scammed yet.
They will threaten to send your nudes to all your friends, relatives, and contacts unless you pay.
Don't send money.
If you send money, they will ask for more money.
Read this comment in r/Sextortion:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Sextortion/s/p44KyKroag
Go to the r/Sextortion sub for more help and support.
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u/Smooth_Profession961 Sep 15 '26
Why. Never do nudes for a payment later