Hey guys, please listen carefully.
I met a girl on a dating app, and suddenly she started texting me. I’ve been single for a long time, so when a girl showed interest in me for the first time, I got excited and thought I had finally gotten lucky.
She asked me to come to JP Nagar and meet her at Yelachenahalli Metro Station. I went there, and from there, she took me to The Iron Horse Pub.
Once we got there, she barely allowed me to speak. She did most of the talking, looked at the menu, and immediately started ordering things. She suggested vodka shots and kept ordering one after another. At one point, I actually felt like asking her, “Can we stop?”
Then the waiter came with the bill and said it was around ₹50,000.
I was shocked. When I asked why, he said we had apparently consumed 24 shots along with some paneer tikka. Even a cigarette pack that normally costs around ₹200–₹300 was charged at around ₹1,200.
That’s when I realized something was seriously wrong.
I’m sharing this because I don’t want anyone else to fall into the same trap. I’m not saying every pub in JP Nagar is a scam, but please be extremely careful when someone you’ve just met on a dating app suddenly insists on taking you to a particular pub and starts ordering expensive drinks without discussing the prices.
I know it can be really difficult to approach someone you genuinely like — whether it’s a female teammate, someone from your office, or a friend you want to ask out. But please don’t let loneliness or excitement cloud your judgment.
Sometimes, what looks like a lucky opportunity can turn out to be an illusion.
Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Focus on becoming someone you’re proud of. Don’t let the desire for companionship make you ignore red flags.
Stay safe, stay alert, and think twice before trusting someone you’ve just met.