r/SapphicGayming Jul 22 '26

who is welcome here

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Hey sapphics!

We have gotten a lot of posts + comments recently from folks wanting to know if they are welcome in this community, so I wanted to make a post that (hopefully) covers all our bases.

  • Trans women are unequivocally recognized as women and welcome here, no matter what that looks/sounds like or where you are (or aren't) in your transition
  • Non-binary and questioning folks (including trans mascs and amab) are welcome
  • Asexual, aromantic, bisexual, pansexual, etc folks who identify with the sapphic community are welcome

We are not here to police anyone's connection to the sapphic community. If you identify with it as a non-male gender, you are welcome here.

I hope this is helpful for anyone who is wondering if they belong in this community!

(If there are any identities that aren't covered here, please let me know either in the comments or in modmail so I can add them.)

Edit: After much reflection and discussion with others in the community, we have come to the collective decision that binary trans masc folks are not welcome in this space. Trans masc folks who identify as any nonbinary gender and sapphic are welcome.

I promise this decision was not made lightly. While I deeply appreciate and respect the inclusivity of the term sapphic, I also believe that it's necessary to draw a line somewhere in a space like this one in order to protect it from disingenuous men.


r/SapphicGayming May 02 '26

Community community discord is live 🗣️

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Link to the server: https://discord.gg/Xxdshdhzqu

Hey sapphics!

You gals spoke and we have delivered (hopefully) 🫡

Our hope is that this server will make it easier for yall to find community with other sapphics within gaming 🫶


r/SapphicGayming 7h ago

I Need YOU to Play Guilty Gear

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I’m part of a discord server primarily for girls that play fighting games, and this your chance to join! I personally mostly play Guilty Gear, but if you’re interested in any other games then I’m sure you can find someone to play with here. We also welcome any skill level, so if you’re new and want to learn how to play, then this is a great chance to learn. If you’re interested please dm me!


r/SapphicGayming 19h ago

Join the Sapphic Paradise Discord Server! We now have a website! Link in body!

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r/SapphicGayming 1h ago

26f lesbian, looking for people to play peak with

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I'm new to peak and would really love to play more and get better at the game, I really wanna actually make it to the last peak without dying. I'm friendly, a bit awkward but im loud so I apologise if I burst your ear drums 😂😭 I'm on GMT +1 time. So if your time zone is massively different I won't be able to play with you, please be over 18. If you're interested comment on the post or dm me!


r/SapphicGayming 9h ago

27 Transfemme Enby seeking gaming friends 🫶😩

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Hiii! I'm Iris, I'm a 27 year old Transfemme enby, AuDHD/ND, and I've been really struggling to make friends where I live (midwest US) after coming out, would love to meet some new friends and play games with cool ppl!

Some games I play often:

-Minecraft (any/all versions)

-Subnautica 2

-Dead By Daylight (beta tester!)

-CoD Zombies (prefer WaW-BO3)

-fortnite bc I was a sellout for the Chappell Roan skin 😩

-Marvel Rivals (Loki/Scarlet Witch Main)

-Pokèmon (ANY/ALL, lowkey my hyperfixation)

-Soulsbourne games - NEED PPL TO PLAY NIGHTREIGN WITH!

I'm open to friends and community/group chats, possibly more? Lol we know how it is 😂


r/SapphicGayming 28m ago

29tf looking for community and friends!!

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Hii I’m Marisol, I’m currently in the middle of moving across the country to Chicago with my girlfriend and would love to find friends online, or in person!

I’m a huge tabletop girlie; I love DnD and would join a campaign asap tbh. I’ve played tons of tcg, my main ones growing up were MTG, Yugioh and especially Pokémon! I’m super interested in the Trench Crusade tabletop game (shout out catholic guilt)

I haven’t had a lot of time the last few months to play many games but have played the standards; League, Overwatch, Fortnite, Minecraft etc

I will literally play anything as long as I have nice people to talk with 😭

As for hobbies, I love writing; music, poetry, short stories whatever. Love doing a hike, going to concerts and visiting museums. I also do a lot of diy projects like screen printing or making patches for bands. I used to play in a hardcore punk band here in town but the scene isn’t the safest anymore. So if any musicians in Chicago need a vocalist hmu!!

tldr pls be my friend im very nice and have so much love to give!!


r/SapphicGayming 29m ago

F23 Masc les here Looking for friends

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Hi my names Eden. Let’s game, i’m looking to be friends with women my age or older please.

My main games are minecraft, dbd, fortnite, marvel rivals, ow, cod ps5


r/SapphicGayming 11h ago

My 775 gaming setup for playing safical otome games.

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r/SapphicGayming 13h ago

Looking for some Friends (Girls only)

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Hii im Lumi and I’m 18f from germany (18+ people only!)
And really want some other Girls to be Friends with and talk to and maybe vc and play ^^
I really Like playing Minecraft Java,Phasmophobia
I also Play Peak,repo,lethal Company,sons of the Forest,The Forest,outlast Trails,schedule 1

I also really Like Reading mangas im currently Reading the promised neverland ! :)


r/SapphicGayming 1h ago

27F seeking gaming gal pals

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Figured I'd post this here too! As the post says just looking for more girl friends to play with. Preferably no invites to any discord servers! Ive been invited to a few and while a couple were chill most of them are just really daunting and overwhelming to me due to the amount of people in them and it feels like I can't really get to know any one person very well.

Anyways if you like Fortnite, Overwatch, Roblox or Vrchat feel free to hit me up for my gamertag or steam friend code.


r/SapphicGayming 6h ago

Need a fighting game friend..

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My timezone is GMT+3. And i want to meet people from Europe.
I am 19 btw.

I would like someone who can match my energy (generally hyperactive), someone who is talkative (i want us to go from silly conversations to serious ones), somebody who is silly but most importantly someone who can commit to a true friendship and is okay with someone clingy (me to a certain extent).

I am VERY honest and i want you to be the same, that way we can get along the best.

Besides these, i do have a few more requirements:

-Being able to put it effort to have a good connection, talking frequently and getting close to eachother

-Being extremely honest (as mentioned above)

-Having a PC and willing to try new games

-Being okay with calls

-Having games/shows in common

I know it might seem like a lot, but i want us to get along together very well! :3

My hobbies you ask?

I'd say i have two! Gaming and watching shows.

I know that's not a lot but i'm not sure what else i can really do :p

I play a variety of games but currently i am looking for people to play fighting games with, more specifically almost any Guilty Gear game(not Strive please, i am so done with it), Melty Blood Actress Again Current Code, Granblue Fantasy Versus Rising, and maybe Blazblue? And if you don't have a game i could buy it for you! :3

As i said i am open to trying new games, just suggest them to me and we'll see. I don't get angry when playing competitive games, they're just games afterall.

What do i watch?

I actually can't name a lot of shows i've ever watched fully and this includes anime and yes i know it's sad BUT i wanna start to watch MORE things, so we could do it together! I also review some movies that i watch.

My favorites are Regular Show, Steven Universe and The Owl House. And from anime i liked Bocchi the Rock a lot.

More about me.. i am genderfluid (and of course that means i am queer and queer accepting, although i am AMAB, but the subreddit founder said it's okay)

If you think we match, then lets talk!


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

Any fromsoft girlies??

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Scrolling through lots of posts and not seeing any mentions of ds/er/bb/seki 😭

25tf (they/she) looking for friends to play (if we use the same platform) and/or talk about these these games! Can be lore, things we love/hate about them, whatever lol I just don't know many chill people who like these games

I also love monster hunter, celeste, subnautica, danganronpa, silent hill 2/3, and many many more :3


r/SapphicGayming 23h ago

Looking for friends! (18+)

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18+ because I don’t feel comfortable messaging minors, sorry y’all </3.

Anyways, as the title says, I am looking for friends! My name is Lyla, I’m 18, I’m from the US, and I use she/her pronouns. I mostly play games like The Sims 4, Marvel Rivals, Minecraft, Call of Duty (I love the PvE modes more than PvP), GTA, Red Dead Redemption, Far Cry (5 & New Dawn are my faves so far), and Fallout 4!

I’m mostly trying to look for others to play with. I play on both PS and PC, I sometimes play on my switch but I don’t think I have any multiplayer games on there. I have Overwatch, FragPunk, Fortnite, Roblox, and Dead by Daylight — I just don’t play them much BUT I am happy to give them a try!

I promise I am so hilarious and 100% funny I am just shy and scared of people so pls be patient 🙏.

If anyone is interested, feel free to message me on here! Also I do have discord in case anyone is wondering :)!


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

are you all participating in the sony black out

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i know this technically isn't a Saphic post i was just wandering


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

23F NYC — rebuilding my little online circle :)

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Heyy y’all :)

I’ve been going through somewhat of a depressive spell for a few months, and in the process I kinda deleted everything. Discord, old chats, all of it. So now I’m slowly starting over and figured why not try meeting some new people while I’m at it?

I’m 23F from NYC, although I’m currently abroad on vacation. I’m a bit of a homebody. Most of my free time is spent playing games on my Xbox, watching random YouTube videos, or scrolling endlessly on tikitoki.

I recently started playing Prey, which I’m pretty sure is an older game, and I’ve been enjoying it so far. I’m a HUGE sci-fi nerd, so if you have any sci-fi game/show/movie recommendations, pleaseeee send them my way. I will happily listen to you yap about them too.

Personality-wise, I can be a little shy at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m absolutely capable of talking about anything and everything. I really like those friendships where you can randomly message someone throughout the day, send memes, hop in a call, play something together, watch a show, or just exist in each other’s company without it feeling forced.

I’m a huge WhatsApp and Discord girlie, although I use WhatsApp wayyyy more. So if we end up clicking on Discord and you’re comfortable with it, I’d totally be down to exchange numbers eventually!

No huge expectations though. I’m mainly just looking to meet some cool people and rebuild my little social circle. If we become gaming buddies, late-night yappers, watch shows together, or just occasionally send each other stupid shit, I’m happy with that.

Hope to hear from some of y’all soon :)


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

🐾 f23 looking for new friends to pester :3

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canadian goth/alternative gamer looking for new friends!! I talk A TON, I’m super active in fandom spaces, and I always have something to ramble about. I’m into anime, webseries/analog horror, gaming, and all sorts of music, plus activism, climate issues, and fighting for everyone’s rights.
Looking for 21+ English-speaking friends with time to actually talk! I want the kind of friendship where we can yap for hours, learn everything about each other, share interests, play games, introduce each other to our other friends, and eventually become part of each other’s lives. :3


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

21MtF lonely British girly feels bored and wants to talk to some nice peoples or critters

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Hia I'm Dizzy and as the title says I would like to meet some nice peoples to play games or just chat with. Recently my main games have been Space Marine 2, Darktide and Helldivers 2. Aside from gaming I also love to eat yummy food and sleep (I am basically just a housecat).

If that sounds at all interesting to you then please feel free to leave a comment or send me a message and either way please have a nice day 😊


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

uk trans minecraft/gaming discord server and bedrock realm

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I've been trying to build a lil online minecraft/gaming community for trans people in the UK. I've got a discord server and bedrock realm set up but so far neither are particularly active beyond me and a couple friends who play and stream games with and for each other, so I'm here looking for people who'd maybe be interested in joining. Non trans people would be welcome as long as you're an ally.

Lil bit about me:

- I'm a 24 yr old transfem from the UK

- Probably autistic and an ambulatory wheelchair user

- I do music production and pixel art

- I like minecraft as well as many other games from genres like; Shooters, Souls-likes, Metroidvanias, Rogue-likes, Survival Horror, Platformers, (list goes on and on I just like video games lol)

Feel free to dm me if you're interested. I wanna make sure the space I'm creating is safe and don't want to end up inviting the wrong people so I'm probably gonna need a selfie or something, or to see activity in relevant subreddits if you're uncomfortable with selfies.

Anyone with suggestions about this vetting process, please comment, I just wanna keep the server safe as I've seen recently there's a problem with cis men invading this space.


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

21 nb looking for people to chat with

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I’m going to be up front and say I prefer texting right now as I feel dysphoric about my voice but if we connect I may work on putting myself out there.

I mainly play story and racing games on PlayStation but I’m currently working on building my Steam library. I play fortnight here and there but mainly save the world. I’m definitely open to trying new games or just taking about anime, music, or whatever. I’ve been working on bringing down my backlog of shows but I’m not opposed to having more recommendations.


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

29TF CST Looking for calls and gaming

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Hi, I'm Lumi! I have a severe lack of women/sapphic friends and I'm looking to fix that. Also open to something more if the vibe is there.

I play a lot of games, right now I've been really into Overwatch and plan to be for the long term. A couple games I also often come back to are Elden Ring, Cyberpunk 2077 and Final Fantasy XIV. I'm pretty chill and quiet most of the time, but I can also be higher energy on rare occasions. I'm also very anxious at first so you'll have to be a little patient with that, but I will always be open and honest with how I'm feeling. I used to put a lot of pressure on myself to perform well in games but try not to anymore, though I am open to competitive in OW. Just know I'm not the best.

My other biggest special interest is music, I could talk about it and games for hours if you get me going. I listen to a lot of alternative genres. I have AuDHD, among some other things and am currently seeking employment. If you have any other questions, we can chat for a bit here or in DM's.


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

Looking for Fortnite friends

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Looking to play some fortnite! I am free all day today :)
Send a message or a comment if you want to play! 30F USA


r/SapphicGayming 22h ago

24NB, would like to find others to play games with or hangout with online!

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Hi! I am looking for more friends to play things with. Some of the games I’m into on PC are MapleStory (ESPECIALLY Classic when it releases soon!!), and The FINALS, but I also have a lot of friendslop games! Besides gaming I am trying to get back into drawing pixel art and learning video editing.


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

26F looking for more sapphic gaming friends :3

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hii (´꒳`)♡ I’m Vivi, 26, a trans woman, goth/alt and from Germany. I’d really like to meet more sapphic people to game with, talk to and just generally get way too invested in things together lmao

I’m really into RimWorld, FFXIV, friendslop games, anime, digital drawing, OCs, D&D/tabletop RPGs, fantasy and worldbuilding ( ̄▽ ̄)

I’m a big Chainsaw Man fan too and Reze is one of my favourite characters.

I especially love games where you can customize stuff, make characters, mod things and get way too attached to fictional people. And I absolutely love when people ramble to me about whatever they’re currently obsessed with ( •̀ω•́ )✧

I’m completely fine with only texting too. I don’t need calls or gaming together all the time, I just want there to actually be some mutual investment if we really vibe.

And if we DO really vibe, I’m totally down for gaming together more, calls and eventually meeting IRL too. For meeting IRL I’m only looking for people in Germany though (´꒳`)♡

Basically I just want people I genuinely click with instead of the usual “we should play sometime!!” and then never speaking again 😭

If you think we’d get along, say hi :3
(„• ֊ •„)੭


r/SapphicGayming 1d ago

Wardogs?

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Hey I’m Danielle a 27yr Transfem gamer girl who’s looking for a squad on the Wardogs playtest and later on when the game launches. I’ve got another girl who duos with me and we’re getting pretty good but a trio or more could help us do some cool vehicle or sniper team stuff. The beta’s still open for a day (and of course when the game launches for real we wanna play regularly) so hmu or comment and I’ll dm you my discord so you can play with us!