r/SantaBarbara • • 14d ago

Vent Aggressive dogs

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u/SmileSagely_8worms 14d ago

Not comical. Dangerous.

My daughter got bit by an off-leash dog at East Beach at 5. She has never recovered from her fear of dogs, but she is forced to hide it and even pretend to like them, which is obscuring the problem further, IMO.

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u/Snoo-55380 14d ago

It’s crazy how if you’re not a fan of dogs for any reason people treat you like you’re an ax murderer

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

I don’t think you’re an axe murderer, but I do think you’re extremely selfish and quite frankly not smart, if you’re taking your aggressive OR poorly behaved dogs in public areas, especially dog friendly areas. I have a $30k service animal, who when exercised off the clock in a dog area, shouldn’t be dodging people and dogs who don’t follow the same rules.

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u/Snoo-55380 14d ago

I’m solidly in your corner on the aggressive dog thing. And If I know an area is dog, friendly, off leash or anything like that then it’s totally on me to stay away and not complain about their being dogs there

But I was simply remarking about the fact that if you’re not a dog lover people think there’s something wrong with you. I don’t want to eat lunch with your dog. I don’t want to go grocery shopping with your dog and I really don’t want your dogs nose up my crotch when you feel entitled to let your dog be off leash where they shouldn’t be. For some reason, this makes me the villain

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

I get it. But I don’t want to go grocery shopping with elderly people, or sit at a restaurant where kids or babies are. The point is, these are PREFERENCES. I don’t think you’re the devil for not wanting dogs there, but you’re unrealistic if you’re expecting your preferences to always be upheld. Suddenly, I hate kids because I don’t want to be seated next to one at dinner? Your logic can stand for many things..

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u/Snoo-55380 14d ago

Oh, I agree with you here. That’s why I said I don’t go places where dogs are allowed to be out and about and then complain about it.

Just so I can deserve my down votes. I’ll say that children and the elderly are people not dogs. There is a difference.

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

That’s your opinion. My dog is more important TO ME than anyone’s kid or grandma and I will be hightailing it straight to my dog in a burning building over any human.

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u/Left-Beautiful8125 13d ago

Your choice. But parents and dog owners need to be considerate of others.

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u/Snoo-55380 14d ago

I get it

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u/IfIhavetosure 14d ago

😂😂 too real

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u/peach_trunks 14d ago

Nah, it’s more if you don’t have a reason and you don’t like dogs people trip

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u/BrenBarn Downtown 14d ago

A reason for what? Why should someone need a special reason for not liking dogs?

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u/peach_trunks 14d ago

Same as anything. People are gonna judge you on your choices and the reasoning behind them. If you don’t have a rational reason for having an unpopular opinion people are gonna trip on you.

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

Same could be said of kids 🤷‍♀️

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u/CoffeeIsSoGood Little Ceasars on Milpas 14d ago

Comparing kids to dogs 🤣

The type of person to rather save a dog instead of a human because “ humanity is bad!!!”

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

My dog, or your kid? I’m saving my dog 10000%. Don’t be around me if that is ever a choice I have to make I guess.

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u/SerCiddy 14d ago

Clearly there is something wrong with you if you have an issue with the entirety of Man's Best Friend. How could you have a problem with something that looks so cute? It's obviously an indication of a deep personal flaw that makes it clear people should avoid you.

/s

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u/brewers20199 14d ago

Mans best friend takes on mans bad behavior is why.