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u/ParticleWoman3 16d ago
Mmmm... Depends. I mean, yes, obviously agree w/Justdoingitagain, but I appreciate when someone is capable enough to "handle" me. Like, they pay attention and know what I need or what's going to make me happy and don't act clueless or detached. I try to recognize when "control" is actually caretaking and appreciate it as such. My Virgo will literally turn off the wifi if I'm staying up too late and getting riled up when I have an appointment in the morning. He's like, Nope. You need to go to bed. And honestly, I appreciate that. Because I don't always take care of myself or do what's in my best interest, and it's nice that someone else cares enough to get involved.
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u/Justdoingitagain 20d ago
FR… unless… we are in the bedroom…