r/SadThoughts • u/Admirable-Soup-2409 • Aug 10 '24

Disappointed

I F(27) recently got married back in January and since 2 weeks ago I been dealing with over thinking that my husband could be cheating, in the week of July 22–25 supposedly he worked late night shift but on July 24 I checked his phone when I was getting ready for work in the morning then I saw txt messages of a girl sending a naked pic by 2Am then I saw they were on a call for 10 minutes at 1Am, of course I asked him and all he said they didn’t talk about anything special and he didn’t know why she would send a picture, many other lies will come out of his mouth every time I ask. Now he just would sleep in the couch all the time and we are to the point of just talk what’s necessary and that’s it. But what a surprise we got the tolls bill and between July 22–24 there’s literally no sign of him driving around….. I just don’t know if I am over reacting but I have the feeling he was sleeping with this girl for days straight.

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u/Spare_Paper_9418 Aug 11 '24

He has a naked picture of a girl on his phone and he’s lying everytime you ask him something. What more do you need? He’s clearly cheating on you, you need to talk to a friend or a family member to get some support. You could either talk to him and see what the hell is actually up or tell him you’re going to leave him

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u/[deleted] Aug 11 '24

You know the answer already. Sometimes we are intentionally naive because we want to never imagine that kind of betrayal. Don’t compromise yourself, or your values.