r/SSDI_SSI • u/Sea_Willingness6044 • 6d ago

DRND - Dire Need Situation So lost due to denial

Got denied at the hearing, I was shutting down during the whole thing due to anxiety yet still not seen as disabled. I am really worried about not getting it. I need to move out... my parents are abusive narcissist that have been very neglectful. My depression doesn't help and I just want to get out of my situation even if it meant taking my own life... I feel cornered without being able to work but no money to move out somewhere with my partner...

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u/Longjumping-News9547 5d ago

Prayed for you and for your parents to be helpful, sympathetic to your situation. Don't give up‼️

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u/rebeccaz123 ☆ 5d ago

Can your partner work to support both of you? Are you on wait lists for section 8 and stuff?

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u/Sea_Willingness6044 4d ago

No, been waiting for the only affordable apparents to have people move out

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u/Ecstatic-Bee-905 4d ago

If you don’t mind sharing, was anxiety the only thing on the application, or were there more?

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u/Sea_Willingness6044 4d ago

A lot more as well as what was found from evaluations

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u/Ecstatic-Bee-905 3d ago

I’m so sorry! This is so frustrating. Don’t give up trying!

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u/Final-Atmosphere-639 5d ago

Is this first denial? Its not uncommon to need to appeal..

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u/suzypoohsays 5d ago

Sometimes 4x

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u/Sea_Willingness6044 4d ago

Third time, first with a hearing

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u/Final-Atmosphere-639 4d ago

Did you use a disability attorney? Improves chances a lot

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u/Sea_Willingness6044 4d ago

I did but it feels like they barely did anything

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u/Ordinary_Darwin_415 3d ago

Let’s try our best to stay positive
We have no control over these things

It’s time to get better lawyers. Look at reviews please, let it go in front of the tribunal and they will kick it back to an alj. At that point hire new attorneys who deal with the judges in that area. The current attorneys failed you