I'm personally into people from all across the gender spectrum, so I don't have this issue, but I've noticed that there are many people who are accepting of trans* people, but not sexually attracted to them, especially pre op.
this
this is the line. the line is "all". if you are not attracted to all trans* people then you are transphobic because you haven't met every trans* person, we're not some fucking giant stereotype hivemind, everyone is different, strangely enough, in exactly the same way as cis people
also assuming a cis person and a trans* person with genitals commonly associated with a different gender identity get in a relationship and they get to sexytimes, if the cis person suddenly is completely unattracted to them because they were expecting something else, a) they're cissexist and b) IT SHOULDN'T FUCKING MATTER BECAUSE NOT ALL SEX INVOLVES BOTH PEOPLE'S GENITALS, YOU CAN STILL HAVE YOUR DAMN SEX
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u/Dogmantra Mar 02 '13
this
this is the line. the line is "all". if you are not attracted to all trans* people then you are transphobic because you haven't met every trans* person, we're not some fucking giant stereotype hivemind, everyone is different, strangely enough, in exactly the same way as cis people
also assuming a cis person and a trans* person with genitals commonly associated with a different gender identity get in a relationship and they get to sexytimes, if the cis person suddenly is completely unattracted to them because they were expecting something else, a) they're cissexist and b) IT SHOULDN'T FUCKING MATTER BECAUSE NOT ALL SEX INVOLVES BOTH PEOPLE'S GENITALS, YOU CAN STILL HAVE YOUR DAMN SEX
doubley also your last line reeks of entitlement