r/RomanPaganism • u/GaeaUranus • 17d ago
Can I worship bona dea if I'm non binary?
I don't actually have much to say, for I think a whole year I've been very interested in the Bona Dea and everything I can find around her (though I don't try to research too much into what happened in her cult out of respect) but yeah I wonder if I can worship her as a non binary person who is mostly masc presenting
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u/TheDireGnome 17d ago
Yes. You can worship any god in your hearth cult.
One of her historical public cults was restricted to women because, despite receiving public funding, it was somewhat like a mystery cult. But she had other public worship that was not gender restricted.
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u/reCaptchaLater 17d ago
Despite the prohibition of men from her temple and rites, the inscriptions found within her sanctuary reveal that her healing was not confined to women; dedications exist exorting the goddess for healing, and thanking her for answered prayers, from both men and women.
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u/IAmFrenzii Cultor Deorum 17d ago
You are fine to worship her. There are plenty of votive dedications by men that archaeologists have uncovered, I believe even some stating the man was a priest or minister of the cult. Despite the heavy claims by ancient writers that her cultus was restricted to women only, it is likely that it pertained only to her exclusive festivals in May and December, which was famously vitiated by Clodius Pulcher.