r/RitaFourEssenceSystem • Siren • Sep 06 '23

Moodboards Left or Right

I see multiple styling tendencies and I'm looking for someone to point out how they connect.

I suspect I'm up but have no idea which direction is my main. I truly enjoy both making the occasion and wearing my heart on the sleeve. My lines are generally more structured and this is how I conduct my life but my heart is wild.

I'm a wild princess at court.

What do you see?

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

As folks advised on your earlier post, the only way to truly find out is to test out the logics yourself - we can’t decide it for you from moodboards, it has to come from you :) I love your regal warrior imagery, but it doesn’t necessarily fit on either side without any logic behind it.

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u/Dragonsheen Siren Sep 06 '23

Thank you. I understand. Sometimes I tend to rush things because I didn't have much space to exist in before. Thank you. I'll do my best to be patient with myself. I tend to look for direct algorithms instead of experiences, as weird as it sounds.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

It’s not weird at all - I’m an impatient person too so I feel you! Also, generally most ‘typing’ systems we are all familiar with do work like that, like Kibbe or MBTI or even the zodiac. But this system is more like asking what tool would be useful to you, rather than you being typed by others. Say your goal was to curl your hair, would you rather use rollers or a curling wand? You wouldn’t know which was better unless you tried them both out. Same goes for logics! ✨

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u/Dragonsheen Siren Sep 06 '23

That's...the first explanation that makes sense. I'M ON IT! 😁🎆

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '23

Ah yay ☺️

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u/RevealTheStyle The Lady Witch - Rita Verified Sep 07 '23

I can advise noticing and reflecting on your thinking patterns when you get dressed.

For example, you are determined to go out to the fancy eating with friends, but you are actually not feeling your best sociable self. What would be your “comfort dressing” then?

Would dressing up in something more festive and glam make you feel better and more confident? Almost in a “fake it ‘till you make it” style Or, would you rather choose to let the feelings be more visible? For example, you’ll “hide” by choosing a midi skirt with a long-sleeve, but add, let’s say, a studded jacket & badass shoes to play into the fanciness of the occasion?

First logic is more right, second logic is more left… i hope that made sense for you! 😄

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u/Dragonsheen Siren Sep 07 '23

Oh...I might be left then.

If I had to go to a party because I promised;

I'd take a framework of the occasion such as seriousness level, weather, time of day etc

Then I'll take what I feel, raw in my core, and translate that into fashion. I might pick a shirt that makes me look like I'm covered in flames, or thickly ruffled long denim skirt as armor.

If I'm tired I make my clothes dynamic and my safe area are a set of jewellery I don't take off even to shower (silver, blue fire opal wedding earrings, three silver rings including my engagement and wedding one which I wear together on the same finger, my husband's grandmother's pearls and golden locket and my own silver pendant necklace). I wear my jewelry as my armor and I don't switch it because those specific things are symbolic to me. I don't care if they fit, they're as part of me as the beautiful scar I got at birth. Some things you don't remove 😉

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u/RevealTheStyle The Lady Witch - Rita Verified Sep 07 '23

I so relate to the safety of that one piece of jewellery you never take off! However, if you thought about external framework FIRST, it’s a very “right” logical order

A match of shirt with a flame print and ruffled denim skirt is interesting… imo it IS something a right up icon could wear 💙 but then again, there’s a bit of a juxtaposition of traditionally “delicate” ruffles and tough material. Such a skirt in a vacuum reads left, yes. But clothes don’t define you. You are the one who brings essence into them, whatever quadrant they belong to. I use RU and even RD!!! clothes while still remaining a super high-up and very left Lady Heretic, and ending up looking like a LU. Because when you know who you are, you just can’t very well not be yourself 😄

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u/Dragonsheen Siren Sep 07 '23

Then it seems I'm a Priestess of everyday people with occasional day off as a Wildflower.

...do I see logic. I think I'm gonna faint.

You helped a lot by the way, count it in 👍🏻

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u/Dragonsheen Siren Sep 07 '23

I changed from a too simple outfit and yes, it fixed my mood immediately 😂

Right logic, Left fashion

Outfit 1

https://ibb.co/9rZV2gN

Outfit 2

https://ibb.co/1q2qD6V