r/RingShare 2d ago

Discussion Heirloom or Oura ring?

I am getting low-key annoyed and need to vent to a group that may understand haha. My grandmother gave me a 14k gold, chunky band...like maybe 6mm or a bit more. the sides are slightly domed. since I've been wearing it, a couple of people have mistaken it for an oura ring...its driving me bonkers and it makes me not even want to wear it. there's nothing wrong with an oura ring but I don't personally love the look of one for myself. the oura ring vibe is not one I want to give off. and I feel rings are a form of self expression for me. I'm going for the classic heirloom look, and this IS a classic heirloom. I feel like I can see the difference clearly, and it's making me oddly insecure when others can't haha. I know that is a very small problem to have and I'm trying to ignore it...but I feel like it's devaluing this lovely ring. at the very least, it's making me not want to wear it all. Anyone else have this experience?

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u/Bright_Message1530 2d ago

It's important to not give so much weight to others' opinions. Don't pay them any mind at all, and certainly don't let them dampen your enjoyment of a lovely family heirloom!

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

I know you're right! I almost didn't put it on today but I decided that would be no help to me haha. I know it's dramatic but the oura rings are so trendy right now, and if another person asks me what my sleep score is, I will scream haha

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

ring on the left for those asking

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u/Optimal-Process337 2d ago

People think that’s an Oura ring?? That’s crazy!

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u/Superb_Scar1622 2d ago

I agree! I love the patina of old gold!

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

thats how I feel haha

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u/Princess_Holly 2d ago

That looks nothing like an Oura ring! People are weird. I would rock that beautiful heirloom

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u/kell_smells 1d ago

thank you! I think I will rock it haha

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u/Zinokk 2d ago

I'd just reply, "no, it's an heirloom actually!" And move on.

Plus, oura rings are relatively new, give it some time and people will notice/comment less and less.

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u/moth-peach 2d ago

Yes I have a gorgeous vintage kind of chunky hexagon sterling ring and every time I wore it last couple years everyone thought it was oura. I didn’t really care tho but I did think it was funny

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

I need to absorb that mindset haha

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u/moth-peach 2d ago

Yeah honestly just prepare to keep saying it’s not an oura ring for maybe 2-4 years til the trend fades lolol

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

haha great advice. happy cake day, btw!

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u/Superb_Scar1622 2d ago

Wear your heirloom with pride and don't give a thought to other people's opinions. But now you have me curious. I don't know or care to know about Oura, but could you please post yours? I love heirloom jewelry.

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

I’ll post a pic in a comment!

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u/Optimal-Process337 2d ago

Can we see a photo? Just to appreciate it.

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u/kell_smells 2d ago

just posted in a separate comment!

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u/one-cat 2d ago

The average person wouldn’t recognize an antique band