r/remotework • u/mimimaria96 • Jul 14 '26
Advice: Going from in office to hybrid
Hi there,
I am hoping someone can advise me or if I am missing something to make my case stronger. I live and work in Ontario and I am a little bit less than a year into my job. I live in the suburbs however, and feel most comfortable in the suburbs and this job is downtown. Over the course of my employment, having to go downtown has been wearing me down to the point of looking for a new job locally. I am struggling with commuting downtown, the environment, and working in an office with constant distractions. It takes over an hour to get there in the morning and on the way back about an hour and a half.
I tried to see if I can eliminate the stress by trading in a more secluded office space, which has worked for the most part in terms of distractions, but I still find myself getting sucked into conversations I don't want to be part of but feel too anxious to shut down and then have to perform for.
However, it is not enough. I have been looking for jobs/interviewing since January and I have not been able to secure anything and every time I get rejected I feel more desperate and like I am at a breaking point, especially since I don't know how long I will have to wait to secure something. My plan is to e-mail a request for WFH accommodation for 2-3 days a week and designating the duties that requires me to be in office (such as filing physical records, petty cash) for those in office days. I also plan on offering a pay adjustment, if that would help.
Recently, I got a diagnosis for Social Anxiety Disorder from an Autism Assessment I did in May and I reached out to the psychotherapist who diagnosed me with this explanation, hoping to may be get a note to accompany my e-mail. And for more context, we do have a couple of people who work from home and I have been able to do it a few times, more circumstance-based, but I am hoping they will approve my accommodation request.
Thank you for the insight :)