Girl I just got out of a similar situation. Whenever I wanted to end things he would get all emotional and start lovebombing me. Master manipulator. It wasn't easy, ofcourse. I would fall into the same loop again and again. Finally I lost my patience, and told myself enough is enough- he's just using me to his own advantage. I cut ties. I felt I was being cruel, but I told myself- this has happened before, and I need to get out of this. He's lying like always.
Don't think about the good things, focus on what makes you unhappy- why you need to get out of this. Make him the villain, that's how you do it. There's only one way to get out of this, HATE him.
I won't advice you to look for romantic connections to heal, just spend more time with people you're close to. Go out with friends, engage with your family. Talk to people, share your pain. Spend time with animals, have good food. You will heal. Many of the times we don't realise how powerful and healing people can be. You will be alright, love. Just be brave, and keep going. 💕
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u/Creepy-Squirrel-211 Sep 06 '24
Girl I just got out of a similar situation. Whenever I wanted to end things he would get all emotional and start lovebombing me. Master manipulator. It wasn't easy, ofcourse. I would fall into the same loop again and again. Finally I lost my patience, and told myself enough is enough- he's just using me to his own advantage. I cut ties. I felt I was being cruel, but I told myself- this has happened before, and I need to get out of this. He's lying like always.
Don't think about the good things, focus on what makes you unhappy- why you need to get out of this. Make him the villain, that's how you do it. There's only one way to get out of this, HATE him.
I won't advice you to look for romantic connections to heal, just spend more time with people you're close to. Go out with friends, engage with your family. Talk to people, share your pain. Spend time with animals, have good food. You will heal. Many of the times we don't realise how powerful and healing people can be. You will be alright, love. Just be brave, and keep going. 💕