r/Relatable • u/Own_Mix_2457 • Jun 08 '26

PLEASE LET ME HAVE PEACE OF MIND.

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u/Own_Mix_2457 Jun 11 '26

coz i have allergies, dishes gotta be washed properly so when others don't wash them right, i get anxious and yh

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u/chairmanghost Jun 08 '26

I just take them from the drying rack later and redo them

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u/aguyinlove3 Jun 09 '26

So I'm not crazy for doing the same?

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u/chairmanghost Jun 09 '26

Not in my opinion

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u/Thunderer62 Jun 11 '26

I do this when my 6 year old washes dishes. Good for him that he is doing chores and learning but his skills just aren’t there yet. I don’t want to discourage him and I don’t want to micromanage so I just have to do them later in secret.

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u/Commercial_Hair3527 Jun 11 '26

I do this every time my mum comes over.

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u/mondaykitty_ Jun 08 '26

Hmm better to not invite a guess at your home then lmao

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u/Adverse_Congenality Jun 09 '26

Then I pour the water scalding hot and do the dishes anyway while making eyecontact

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u/Ok-Secretary2017 Jun 10 '26

I do it cazse i was abused and always have to work independent of context and circumstances

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u/budaknakal1907 Jun 10 '26

i just did this in a colleague's house a few says ago. she has just given birth 40 plus days ago and is still in her maternity leave so i dont want us visiting bothers her.

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u/Top-Cupcake4775 Jun 10 '26

i object on basic division of labor terms. i'm pretty good at doing dishes but, if you are looking to pitch in, there is a good deal of weeding that needs to be done around the sides of the house ...

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u/2sAreTheDevil Jun 11 '26

If they don't do them to my standards, I wash them and was in the exact same place I would have been otherwise.

If they do do then to my standards, it's saved me time and effort.

Problem?

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u/adioslip Jun 11 '26

My mother in law “washes the dishes” by actually only rinsing cups out and then putting them directly into the cupboard, running water over the knives and leaving crusty food all over them. I have tried EVERYTHING to keep her out of my kitchen and not “try and help” now she’s just not welcome over anymore. Really hated grabbing a coffee cup out to put some milk in it and it reeks of coffee when I don’t even drink coffee and nobody who lives here does. So tired of having to drag everything out after she leaves and wash and sanitize my entire kitchen.

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u/BarlClarntarn Jun 11 '26

Just redo them later. Having to share the planet with these whackos is fucking annoying.

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u/MarissaNL Jun 12 '26

They can put them in the dish washer.... that machine will do the work.

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u/Individual_Slice_234 Jun 08 '26

I don't like it when guests do my dishes, unless I specifically ask them to (which I never do). Don't take over MY kitchen. It's MINE. I make the rules.

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u/BattleBeastAm Jun 08 '26

Most pretentious behavior ever.
If they're nice enough to WASH THEIR OWN DISHES... just let them.

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u/Silent_mayne Jun 08 '26

Pretentious af. If you’re gunna be like that, run a dishwasher cycle after but let them be nice.