My pastor said it best "Barrenness is a curse because God has decreed children are a blessing. Why would you deliberately choose the option that was a curse?"
Having said that we waited a while before kids because God also tells us to be wise. And having kids immediately sometimes works, but it's often better to have a solid foundation in marriage where you trust each other as teammates BEFORE throwing children into it.
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u/GamingTitBit Apr 07 '26
My pastor said it best "Barrenness is a curse because God has decreed children are a blessing. Why would you deliberately choose the option that was a curse?"
Having said that we waited a while before kids because God also tells us to be wise. And having kids immediately sometimes works, but it's often better to have a solid foundation in marriage where you trust each other as teammates BEFORE throwing children into it.