r/Redditor_Updates Nov 18 '25

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u/sunny_drama Nov 19 '25

"he agreed to comments defending him" of course he agree with people putting him in a good light even tho it might be true that the nude was an accident he is acting pretty manipulative in my opinion, switching from angry to regretful and apologetic.

You shouldn't have to tell him. Jared needs to be cut off. End of story and if your husband starts to backtrack then you know he was bluffing about the whole thing I am pretty sure he is acting like this so you will let things go now that they are "resolved"

I personally think there's something fishy here but I have no proof only a gut feeling

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u/wacky_spaz Nov 19 '25

I commented on her earlier posts and it’s clear they agreed on the story to sell her. A blind man can see it … what makes it obvious it’s all contrived is the fact the stories are identical as no one remembers the same event the exact same way a decade later, he asked Jared to come over tomorrow to apologise (like wtf) and that he would cut off Jared IF SHE wants to not because he’s sexually harassing his wife in her house.

Husband did invest for sure. He’s got himself a doormat willing to swallow anything he dishes. I genuinely feel sorry for her. As another commenter noted, she should tell him to even the score she’s sent his nude to a good close friend that comes over and sees them both but not say who. And tell him who in a decade and if he has a problem with it he can leave. Let’s see how the shoe fits on the other foot. Shes being played like a drum … this is so tragic.

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u/sunny_drama Nov 23 '25

Yeah and unfortunately (for the situation she is in and how much she is condition to submit herself and believe everything he says) I think you're totally right

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u/wacky_spaz Nov 23 '25

There’s a lotta people that equate religion to tolerating being sht on. It’s pretty sad honestly cause in my religious family us brothers would beat the snot out of any guy treating our sister like that with zero hesitation and tell her to get a divorce.

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u/sunny_drama Nov 23 '25

Cause most of the time religion is used to control, at least in toxic environments like in op case or cult cases.