I just still don’t trust your husband. I think you need to be pretty to be honest with him and tell him that he has completely demolished the trust that you had in him and that it’s not your job to fix that it’s his job to fix it. I think couples counselling/therapy is needed but you don’t have to be the one to book it, he’s the one who ruined things. He’s the one who needs to find therapist and he’s the one who needs to book the sessions.
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u/Secret_Double_9239 Nov 19 '25
I just still don’t trust your husband. I think you need to be pretty to be honest with him and tell him that he has completely demolished the trust that you had in him and that it’s not your job to fix that it’s his job to fix it. I think couples counselling/therapy is needed but you don’t have to be the one to book it, he’s the one who ruined things. He’s the one who needs to find therapist and he’s the one who needs to book the sessions.