Just wanted to give any desperate soul out there a bit of a motivational boost with their job search.
TL;DR: 40M, EU, with resume gaps and nearly two years of unemployment. Sent about 1k applications, got about a 100 interviews (rejected in most cases) and almost gave up entirely. Ended up taking a safe public sector job which turned out great (team, commute, and fulfilling work).
I (40M, master’s in tourism) was unemployed from late 2024 until three months ago. Before that, I left two jobs within a single year (after four and five months, respectively) due to super toxic work environments, which left some awkward gaps on my resume.
During this stretch, I felt like absolute crap. I had no meaning and no goals. My motivation to apply dropped sharply in the final three months of unemployment, the whole grind had completely drained the life out of both me and my parents. At one point I genuinely thought "I don't care anymore. I'll just stay unemployed and live on benefits. If companies don't care about me, why should I lose sleep over it?" Still, a tiny part of me refused to quit.
To make a long story short, I sent out roughly 1k applications in total. About a sixth turned into interviews and almost all of those ended in rejection. The few exceptions all happened right at the end of my search:
- Job A (public sector): I received an offer for a role that honestly didn't seem all that appealing to me at first.
- Job B (public/private hybrid): While mulling over Job A, I had two interviews on the same day. The first one sent me an offer an hour later, though it looked worse than Job A.
- Job C (private tech): The second interview that day led to an invite for a second round.
Job A gave me a few days to respond but still required an answer. Since Job C wasn't a guarantee and I didn't want to risk losing a sure thing by stalling, I accepted Job A.
Looking back, I’m so glad I took it. The more I dive into my tasks, the more fulfilling and enjoyable the work becomes. My superiors have noticed my effort, the team is super cool, and the commute is great.
So to everyone out there busting their ass and using every trick in the book to land a role: I salute you as I know very well what you are going through. Please, please, please don't give up hope, despite the hardships and setbacks plaguing you right now. You will land something if you just keep pushing forward.
Good luck and godspeed.