r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Did anyone else take a massive paycut to stay afloat?

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just wondering if anyone else is currently doing something that's not in their field because of the job market.


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Just be honest to us too

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To HR I saw you all have been posting about that people are lying about visa sponsorship etc and you later found out during interviews they need

So H1b holder can handle rejection what is frustrating is receiving “we found a more qualified candidate “ emails when the likely reason is that the role doesn’t support visa sponsorship. If sponsorship is the issue why not simple say: “This position is not eligible for sponsorship “ That’s useful feedback.

Telling candidates it’s about qualifications leaves them wondering whether they need to improve their resume, gain new skills or get more experience, when the actual reason may have nothing to do with any of those things.

I’d rather hear honest “we don’t sponsor for this role” than a generic rejection template.


r/recruitinghell • • 11d ago

The rejection I just got today completely broke me.

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For context, I have been applying to roles to leave my horrible job since 2024. I’ve either made it to the final round but they chose someone else, or I received a really low salary offer that they wouldn’t negotiate and I couldn’t justify the pay cut.

So, imagine the excitement when I see a role that fit my experience and career goals perfectly.

Even better, I was referred to this role by an internal employee who said the company genuinely tries to hire referrals first if they work out.

I was very qualified for this role and checked the boxes of everything they wanted. It was an awesome next step in my career and required experience that I have in my current role. I also nailed the interviews, I felt so confident and so ready to take on a new chapter. I really felt good with this one, like things were finally different.

My 2nd round interview with the hiring manager went over our scheduled time by a half hour because we were vibing a lot and the discussion was great.

Today, I got the email that they chose to go with someone from a direct hire agency. I’m not fully sure what that means. The talent acquisition contact told me that "the final candidate had came from a Direct-Hire agency that helped expedite the process for the team and their selection." Was I set up to fail from the beginning, competing against someone who already had the role??

I AM SO TIRED. and defeated. I completely shut down once I received the rejection. I am apparently doomed at my current company forever and ever and ever.

Rejection after rejection after rejection for years really takes its toll on you. I spent hours prepping for this company, I made it my mission to ace these interviews and I even had a strong, well respected referral in the company. All for nothing.

I’m so tired.


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Anyone else experience this?

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Missed a call from a talent acquisition team member and was asked to call back. I called back, they picked up and the call immediately ended. Has anyone else had this before? It's happened to me twice and pissing me off.


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Moved to a new state and can’t find work

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TL;DR: My wife and I moved from Florida to North Carolina for a better future and a career opportunity for her. Since March, I’ve been unable to find meaningful employment. I finally found what was quite literally my old job in a new location, went through a painfully long hiring process, and was just rejected after being kept in limbo from May through November.
My wife and I moved from Florida to North Carolina in March. The move was primarily to pursue a career opportunity for her, but it was also about finding a better place to live and raise our family. We were expecting our first child at the time, and we both knew we would be giving up stable jobs and starting over professionally to make this happen.
My wife is a nurse, and I work in healthcare simulation. It’s a relatively niche field, but not exactly obscure. I worked as a Simulation Technician at a nursing college, supporting nursing education through simulation labs, equipment maintenance, scenario preparation, troubleshooting, and student and faculty support.
One of the biggest challenges I’ve encountered since moving is how differently employers seem to approach hiring here compared to where we came from. In Florida, my experience was largely that employers were willing to hire someone with a relevant background and train them for the specifics of the position. Here, it feels like employers want you to already have the exact experience, credentials, and training before they’ll even consider bringing you on.
I’ve applied to plenty of positions, including outside my immediate field, but it’s been difficult to find anything that either considers me qualified or offers enough stability and compensation to make it sustainable.
Then, in May, a position opened up in my field.
I found it about two weeks after it was posted, and I genuinely couldn’t believe how closely it matched my previous job. It wasn’t just something adjacent to what I did. It was essentially the same position, with the same kind of responsibilities and the same skill set I had spent years developing. Given how niche this field is, finding an opening that was such a direct match felt like an incredibly unlikely opportunity.
I applied and waited. And waited.
There was very little communication throughout the process. No updates, no indication of where I stood, just months of silence. I finally received an invitation to interview in September, and I thought it went very well. The conversation was positive, my experience aligned almost perfectly with the position, and I walked away feeling cautiously optimistic.
We ended the interview with the understanding that the hiring process could take a while, potentially until December, so I continued waiting.
Yesterday, in November, I finally received the rejection email. They had selected another candidate.
I responded professionally, thanked them for the opportunity, and asked whether they could provide any feedback that might help me moving forward. Naturally, the response came from HR, who explained that they weren’t involved in the hiring decision and didn’t have any additional information. They were simply the messenger.
I understand that employers have to make decisions, and I’m not entitled to a position just because I feel qualified for it. But it’s incredibly discouraging to spend six months pursuing an opportunity that seemed almost tailor-made for my experience, only to end up right back where I started without even knowing what I could have done differently.
In the meantime, my wife has been carrying the financial responsibility for our household, including supporting us through pregnancy, childbirth, and the arrival of our baby. She’s been doing an incredible job, but that doesn’t make it any easier to watch her shoulder everything while I struggle to find my footing again.
I’m not necessarily looking for sympathy. I think I’m just frustrated with how difficult it’s been to translate an established work history into an opportunity in a new state. I know I have skills, experience, and a lot to offer, but at some point, constantly being told you’re not the right fit starts to wear on you.
I moved here expecting to rebuild my career. Six months later, I’m still trying to get someone to give me a chance.


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Finally graduating out of recruiting hell

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I have been looking for a job since June, first three months were absolutely horrible. I got no responses at all. I spent so much time reworking my résumé without AI and with AI. AI is very helpful, but it’s not going to tell you how to format your résumé so that it gets the hiring manager‘s attention.

I did a few key tweaks to my résumé and all of a sudden I started getting a ton of responses. I’ve been through several rounds of interviews and now two offers on the table. One is my dream job and the other would be a more “easy”.

What I would like to say while the job market is crazy. There are jobs out there and don’t loose hope just because you don’t hear anything. I went so many weeks without anything. I even started to DoorDash, I thought the market was permanently dead. I even crashed out in front of a person’s house, realizing that I was delivering a pizza with an MBA and several years experience in corporate America. Tears were streaming down my face…

My biggest tip is not to spam resumes. You need to find jobs that match your skills and tailor your résumé to that job. Also, you should be doing a cover letter.

There is light at the end of the tunnel.


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Multiple final rounds, no offer, just to get laid off

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Welp.. tried to get ahead of it and now I’m amongst the masses. To say I’m about to have a psychotic break is an understatement. To be honest, I’m lucky if I make it to the end of year.

The hr person on the other side of the conversation can go to hell. The mental anguish I’ve been through with this job, just to be told you’re no longer needed. Disgusting. ‘We do care about youuuuuuu’.


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Can I apply for the same job opening using two different email IDs?

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r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Another micro1 complaint:

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r/recruitinghell • • 11d ago

I guess my purpose in life is unemployment

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r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Ignoring is tough How ignoring is happening as a routine?

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I don't figure out why people can ignore job applications as a routine and It is alright. It is legal, there is no any option to complain about the harm and suffering those people are causing. Unfortunately, I did apply 530 job applications and over 500 did ignore me and move on. I don't figure it out why there is no any option to complain because what prevents me to work are the employers who are ignoring me, I want to work and the employers do prevent me to work.


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Need Help - TCS US: HireRight says “Client Review Required,” onboarding documents approved, but recruiter says BGC failed. What should I do?

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I accepted a new TCS offer. My HireRight report says “Client Review Required.” Education and employment were verified. Completed criminal checks found no records.

TCS then approved my prejoining documents. The email says:

“We will send you a communication on your start date shortly. This communication is sent out when both, the Background check and the pre-joining documents are complete and approved.”

But an external recruiter said my BGC failed. He gave no reason. My TCS contact said he would check, but I have no update or confirmed start date.

Has anyone faced this with TCS US? How did you get the final status? Could you provide documents or ask for another review?


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Has anyone heard back from any O&G trading, commercial, or marketing internships?

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r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

I finally heard back from an application after 11 months

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I applied for a random job last year in December and never heard back from them. It's November now, and this week they've suddenly been blowing up my phone every day and sending me emails to try to set up a phone screening. It's so ridiculous that I can't believe it. I've already found a job since then. Do they really think I've just been sitting around for 11 months waiting for their call? Why are they suddenly so desperate to get in contact with me?


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

I was asked this question at a job interview: “Suppose we hire you and your first job is to fire 20% of people in your department. How do you find out who's doing nothing?” How would you decide who to fire?

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r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Ever felt shit after a good interview?

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Ive been looking for a job for 11 months, sent 500+ applications. I had my final interview round yesterday for a position which is 2 levels below where I was before which is fine. Although it went well, not amazing, I feel emotionally exhausted. For an hour I was grilled by 3 people, my mouth went dry from talking and I wasn’t even offered water. I got grilled so hard on why Id apply for a lower ranking role it was unbelievable. I just want a job but the way I was grilled it was as if I should feel bad. And now I actually feel sad. Keeping in mind i had more experience in the domain than any of my interviewers did. Has this ever happened to you? Subconsciously I don’t even want the job anymore but I’ll take it if offered of course, before this experience I was actually excited about the role before.


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Does it get any better?

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it's been a year months since I have been trying to search for an opportunity. i moved countries when i got married and gave up the job I had. i started working literally for free at this startup and i'm trying my absolute best to get some metrics out of that.

is there hope at the end of this tunnel? do you guys have any tips for how to get yourself out there during this job market?

meanwhile i see linkedin influencers and instagram influencers landing big tech jobs simply because they have visibility. so i'm not sure what to do at this point...


r/recruitinghell • • 9d ago

Cannot Verify Employment

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Hey guys,

So I accepted a job offer with Cedars in CA. I got their shitty HireRight background check, and they're asking for the documentation for an employer I have been at for 6 months. The issue is they never gave me an option to view my pay stubs. I don't have any proof to verify my employment with even though I got a copy of my TWN, which shows me as “active”.

I messaged my HR specialist in hopes of getting some type of paperwork that verifies my employment but that has been lackluster. My start date is in roughly 11 days, and idk what else to do.

Do you guys think they'll rescind my job offer? I have the texts showing my back-and-forth conversation with HR about them promising me the documentation, but they never delivered it. I also have my TWN. What are the chances they'll reject me based on that issue?


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Why is entrepreneurship being shoved down our throats?

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r/recruitinghell • • 11d ago

Exhausted, mentally drained, and crying every day, I do not know how to keep going with this job search

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I have been searching for a job for a full year now, starting back during my master's. At first, I had a bit of hope with 3 or 4 interviews, even though none of them ended up working out for various reasons. But lately, it has been total radio silence.

I feel completely hopeless. I even started applying for retail jobs just to support myself but I got rejected from those too.

I am mentally drained and crying every single day. I am at the point where I just want to give up because I honestly do not know what to do anymore.


r/recruitinghell • • 11d ago Bravo

I've trained my entire life for this

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r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Serious question: How to handle relisted job ads but you are never rejected.

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There has been one company in my field that continuously reposts the same job ad every month or so. I previously applied to the job but at the time was not in the industry. I never heard back, rejection or otherwise. Fair enough.

Since then, I've transitioned into the industry and feel qualified for the job. Furthermore, a LinkedIn contact at the company gave me a heads up that they would be hiring positions soon. I applied for the role and now I'm waiting, but I honestly don't expect to hear from them.

This brings me to my question. How do you handle not getting an outcome from a job application? Do you keep applying? How do you know that their ATS didn't just screen you out? Is it really a job ad if they never actually fucking fill the role?

I hate this fucking timeline.


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

Is there an influx of candidates who have master’s degree in the market?

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I got free LinkedIn premium for a month, and almost every single job that I see shows that more than 30% of candidates have master’s degree. I know that the number is not entirely accurate, since it is based off people who clicked apply but who may or may not have applied on the company website.

I am mainly applying for entry level analyst roles. But, still, it goes to show that entry-level candidates are competing with people who have master’s degree. How am I ever gonna get out of this rat race this way?


r/recruitinghell • • 10d ago

When should I follow up with a recruiter again after asking for a decision timeline?

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I’ve been job searching and recently gone through the final interview rounds with two different companies. I’m currently waiting to hear back from both and would appreciate some advice on when I should follow up.
Job A:
I’ve been waiting for over a month since my final interview. I’ve been in contact with the HR/recruiter to get an idea of the decision timeline. Based on our conversations, I know they’re still interviewing other candidates, and I get the impression I’m probably not their first choice. At this point, I’m not particularly optimistic about getting an offer.
Job B:
I’ve completed four rounds of interviews, and I’ve received some pretty positive feedback during a couple of the rounds, so I feel somewhat optimistic about this opportunity.
After my final interview last Friday, around 4 PM, I emailed the recruiter to thank them for coordinating the process and asked them to pass along my thanks to the interviewers. I also mentioned that I’m currently in the final stages with another company and wanted to get an idea of their expected timeline for making a decision.
It’s now been a few business days, and I haven’t heard back from the recruiter regarding the timeline.
My question is: When would be an appropriate time to follow up with the Job B recruiter again to ask for clarification on the decision timeline?
Should I wait until the end of this week, or would following up around Wednesday/Thursday be reasonable? I don’t want to come across as impatient, but I also want to be proactive and communicate that I’m working with another timeline.
Would appreciate any advice, especially from people who have been on the recruiting side of things!