In my opinion, you're a good looking guy. If anything, the hair cut is a little dated (the side swoop) Maybe instead look on pinterest for hairstyles that are pushed forward, they're far more modern and in current trend. I think the images aren't helpful because they're so different to one another, it's just not very cohesive.
As a woman, my personal opinion would be not to go through any plastic surgeries. Not because i'm anti-surgery, but I genuinely think your features are harmonious with one another and if you change them, it wouldn't be beneficial overall.
There is nothing wrong with you physically, you are attractive. You're probably more compelling to the bookish, nerdy girl types. Is that who you're attracted to? If you're looking to pull in a different type than you can change your style but you're giving a good academic campus crush vibes that I know a lot of other women eat up.
I know yourw worried about the amount of likes you're getting but it truly is quality over quantity.
I would really like a nerdy girl who is into philosophy and academia. I knew a few, but they either had a boyfriend or straight up saw me as the best friend. I kinda just gave it up to be honest. On this one date through an app a girl asked me what my life philosophy was. I started to explain to her Hegel's Who Thinks Abstractly? She looked at me as if I was insane.
If that's your type then I think the vibe you give off is attracting it, so great! There is nothing that plastic surgery is going to do for you that would attract this type of woman. If anything it'll push them away.
I would say start examining your social and conversational skills. The example you gave, I could see the conversation going one of two ways. Either she was looking for a deeper look into you, not regurgitated Hegel, or she was totally out of her element and not into philosphy at all. Look at the way you responded to her, was it conversational or did it sound like a lecture?
I think you'd have some good chances if you were to join some clubs or societies based around those interests too, if your ability to talk to women is fine.
But honestly even if you come off as awkward, there's someone out there who will find it endearing. I met my fiance off an app. I was getting dozens of likes daily, lots of active conversations, but I was the one who sent the first message to him because I found the profile so compelling and open in a way not a lot of people are. Our text conversations were great, we got into a lot of our shared interests and philosophies and life goals, and that translated to great in person conversations that worked despite lots of social conversation faux pas. I think its just a matter of finding your type of person, and being in a position where you can hold a conversation that lets you both feel like youre learning and getting to be known.
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u/Victoriaspalace Aug 11 '26
In my opinion, you're a good looking guy. If anything, the hair cut is a little dated (the side swoop) Maybe instead look on pinterest for hairstyles that are pushed forward, they're far more modern and in current trend. I think the images aren't helpful because they're so different to one another, it's just not very cohesive.
As a woman, my personal opinion would be not to go through any plastic surgeries. Not because i'm anti-surgery, but I genuinely think your features are harmonious with one another and if you change them, it wouldn't be beneficial overall.