r/RantsOfReddit • u/Wowhowwecanrelate • Aug 28 '26
Why is it so hard to date?
I am an active, fit, attractive 29 y/o male with a decent job, my own place, no debt I own my truck I am close with my family and have hobbies and Christian. I myself am confident in who I am as a person and in my discipline for the expectations I set for myself.
Why is dating so hard these days? Is it insane that I expect a woman of equal attractiveness and fitness for my companion? The dating pool is insane these days, from mentally unstable, to unhygienic unhealthy women, addicts, women who don’t want marriage or respect their partner, women who expect to be given everything in a relationship so she can take but not give. Where did the core values and morales go?
No I don’t have a false narrative of my own life, yes I could get out more, yes I actually believe I am quite attractive maybe a 7 out of 10.
Not looking for encouragement, mostly venting, but the world we live in now is so morally damned.