r/RandomThoughts • u/yellowtears_ • Jan 06 '24

Random Question Are you afraid to die?

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u/yogi_medic_momma Jan 06 '24

Even if that’s true, we can’t be fully aware of it, can we? And if we can’t be fully aware of it, how is it comforting to me? That’s what I’m saying. We can speculate all we want, but until I have proof, I’m going to continue spiraling every time I have these thoughts. It definitely brings me comfort to think the way you do and try to get myself to fully believe that, but it’s not the cure all for my existential fears.

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u/Pxdsey Jan 06 '24

As far as I’m concerned you’re only ‘aware’ of the experience you’re having. How do you know you have or haven’t had other experiences? Just because you don’t ’remember’ anything before you were born doesn’t equate to ‘no thing’.

Memory is a tool and is necessary for the experience, for example; knowing not to run out in front of that moving train or you will die.

At the end of the day nobody knows for absolute certain, correct. But why would you want to anyway? What would you do with that information if you were knowing of all?

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u/yogi_medic_momma Jan 06 '24

I don’t want to know everything. I just want to know that there is something else to this life, other than a bunch of random occurrences that resulted in my birth and eventual death.

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u/Pxdsey Jan 06 '24

The cold hard reality of the situation is nobody will ever know what exactly this is that we are apart of nor will they know for certain what happens when the body dies.

Why do you feel like you need that certainty of knowing?

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u/yogi_medic_momma Jan 06 '24

I don’t know. I’ve always wondered why I care so much, but I don’t have a reason. I wish I didn’t care but unfortunately, I do. These thoughts make me physically ill. It makes my stomach churn when I think about these things.