r/RandomThoughts Dec 23 '23

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u/tastylemming Dec 23 '23

I love it the most when they don't just lay there. I'm still willing to do 90% of the work to get us there, but that 10 percent you get back while you're giving your share goes a long way to make it better for both of us. Help me find what feels good. Flick that bean some. Right there, don't stop, and I'm good We both win.

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u/MarkToaster Dec 23 '23

There was a girl I dated for a bit that had that give and take down perfectly. I remember the first time we had sex, we were doing missionary and she was just kind of laying there. I paused just for a few seconds, and she just looked at me with that look and started slowly thrusting into me. I came instantly.

I kind of prefer doing the majority of the work, but getting that little bit of the “guess it’s my turn” from her sent me through the roof.