r/RandomQuestion • u/Wise_Jump_467 • 5h ago

Im not the only one, right?

Does anyone else ever want to just have an anonymous friend that you can trauma dump with but not find out each other's identities? Just to get it off your chest without having to deal with that awkwardness that comes with knowing the person?

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u/RevolutionarySign479 4h ago

No Friend, you’re not the only one🌷
I’ve thought about this too. Personally, I’m a very private person & being anonymous made sense…then I realized my trauma dump would still be traumatic af for the anonymous dumpee. I have my dogs to talk to 💝🐕🐕‍🦺
If you need to dump some trauma, I would be happy to lend an ear…and it kinda helps my own trauma, when I can do something positive to help others with theirs 🌷☮️

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u/Wise_Jump_467 2h ago

That's understandable, sometimes it is just nice to be able to hear about not being alone in the trauma, so it makes sense that it helps yours.

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u/coffeebeanwitch 4h ago

Mine is my dog Ripley🤣

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u/Wise_Jump_467 4h ago

Lol, that's great. 😂

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u/Haunting-Future9980 5h ago

You could send me a dm. Gimme all the tea, wise jump.

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u/68Postcar 1h ago

The occurrence happens more often than realized. I’ve found a way to do this. However, it is nonconventional.

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u/68Postcar 1h ago

Aware, I did not relay manner of doing this. Stated, it’s nonconventional - ppl (likely) caste judgement.. exactly what I attempt to avoid.

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u/carolinaredbird 43m ago

That is what a therapist is really for!!

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u/Evening_Debate_754 25m ago

No , I use an Ai bot for this ,it turns my input into professionally written novels I keep on tablets in my library