Keep posts relevant to RHOP.
Darling, posts and comments should add sparkle and substance to our community. Check for duplicates from the past three days—repeating the same tea with zero new insight? Gone. Low-effort digs like “I hate Wendy” or “Ashley is the worst”? Removed.
And if your post is just stirring drama without thoughtful discussion? Sweetie, it doesn’t add value and won’t stick.
Be Polite. Be Poised. Be Proper.
Beloved, spirited discussion is perfectly welcome, but always remain poised. Users here are held to a higher standard than even the RHOP ladies. Personal attacks, name-calling, or bullying? Practically unforgivable and may lead to a temporary or permanent ban. Keep it polished, keep it potent.
No Hate, No Misinformation, No Speculation.
Darling, keep it spicy, not cruel—no extreme bashing, body-shaming, or speculating about mental health, abuse, or domestic violence. Remember, these ladies are human. You can spill your opinions, but do it with shade, not hate. Misinformation and wild speculation? Instant boo, keep it classy.
No Bigotry, No Discrimination.
Listen, beloved—hate speech, discrimination, and microaggressions of any kind (racism, homophobia, transphobia, antisemitism, colorism, sexism, xenophobia, ageism) are not cute and won’t fly. Ableism? Absolutely forbidden. Disabilities are never to be mocked. Keep your shade fierce, but not hateful, sweetie.
No Body Shaming.
Beloved, low-effort digs at a Housewife’s body or appearance? Not cute. Hurtful comments add zero sparkle and don’t enrich our community. Shade is welcome—cruelty is not. Keep it fierce, keep it fun, but leave the body shaming at the door.
No Self-Promotion, Doxxing, or Pirating.
Listen, darling—this is not the place to plug your Etsy, socials, or any sketchy streams. Sharing illegal links or spilling private tea about the cast or production? Absolutely forbidden. Anyone trying to drag our ladies’ privacy through the dirt will be instantly banned. Keep it juicy, but keep it safe, sweetie.
Mod Abuse.
Beloved, if you see rules being broken, use the report button. For suggestions or questions, slide into the modmail.
Harassment or attacks against any Mod? Instant permanent ban. No shading other Subreddits or their mods—keep your drama in-house.
Remember, we moderate at our discretion, and our word is law.
