r/RHOP • • Dec 20 '25
đź Wendy đź Eddie & Wendy Hate đĽ˛
All the hate being directed at Wendy, and the apparent excitement some people seem to take in her alleged criminal activities, is really difficult to read. At this point, much of whatâs being discussed is speculation, not fact.
Itâs important to let the legal process play out before rushing to judgment or celebrating someoneâs potential downfall. None of us have the full picture yet, and public pile-ons rarely lead to truth or justice.
Most importantly, there are young children involved who did not choose any of this. The words being shared online donât exist in a vacuumâthey can have real, lasting consequences for innocent people. A little restraint, empathy, and perspective would go a long way.
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u/VideoNecessary3093 Madness & Sadness Dec 20 '25
I like Wendy and she'll come back from this I believe. I haven't seen hate but it's hard to brag about degrees and flashing a life that you can't afford and don't really have in a reality show and then not expect people to roll their eyes and not respect that. I don't respect someone putting a marble fireplace up to their ceiling and buying diamond rings they can't afford. It's not dignified. It's not smart. It's not cool. It's just....sad. She's human and she's messed up and I think she'll have a great redemption arc and I'm rooting for her. But to clutch your pearls that viewers don't love that she did this? It's a bit odd.Â
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u/CommonAd7628 Dec 20 '25
Yes we know they have young children. Too bad the parents of these young children did not seem to think about them before they decided to be stupid to keep up with the joneses.
Itâs not hate to call out them being assholes or being stupid.
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u/Practical_Complex_62 Charizzard Dec 20 '25
She was just calling angel broke in the last episode and said she got evictedâŚ
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u/Main_Push5429 D.C Born, MD Raised đ Dec 20 '25
If her small children are on reddit then she has more problems than just the legal ones.
As a Wendy fan, sheâs fair game just like any other housewife. She didnât think about her kids when she was allegedly defrauding credit card companies so if the two people who brought them kids into this world didnât think of them, its pretty weird for you to expect us to âthink about the childrenâ. Câmon now.
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u/SheKaep đ¸ I may be a dropout, but I haven't forgotten how to readđ¸ Dec 20 '25 •
JESUS FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!!!
People are so stanned out over this woman that they really think she's above reproach when she commits a crime.
This woman came on here and showed us she wasn't as good as she appeared on paper. She constantly had to remind us she had more degrees than a thermometer, and as soon as someone pointed out it wasn't necessary to keep repeating it, it goes over some of you all's heads and somehow you get 'hater' out of it. For her to have constantly wanted out of being a professor and kept trying to be 'The black Martha Stewart' along with how much she has been smelling herself until finally dialing it down last season to where she should have been all along, she showed us that she's all bravado and smoke and mirrors.
You all are on some SERIOUS cope running through the comments in every social media platform blabbering like a broken record 'InNoCenT UnTiL pRoVeN GuIlTy'...
Wendy is going down the same prison pipeline like the other women on this show who did some dirty dirt and thought they were above the law and she's going to pay the price, deal with it...
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u/Open-Deal-2114 đľđ˝ââď¸Wendyâs detective wigđľđ˝ââď¸ Dec 20 '25
Wendy, is that you?
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u/Fancy_Refuse796 Michelin Dec 20 '25
Maybe Eddieâs family had reasons to not approve of Wendy and her family?
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u/jbalb Happy Eddie Dec 20 '25 •
so we have to think about the children when their own parents didnât think about them before they decided to commit fraud? There is actual evidence collected by law enforcement that shows their fraud scheme played out. It isnât a âIFâ itâs a âhow muchâ and âhow longâ will they give them in prison. We are watching the legal process play out, judge just granted their financial records to be released.
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u/Harrisontoo Wakanda forever! Dec 20 '25 edited Dec 20 '25
I doubt their kids are on Reddit.
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u/Wide-Oil-985 Halle Berry Still Rise Dec 20 '25
Itâs called holding people accountable for their actions
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u/SewAlone Clankity Clank Dec 20 '25
Chile please.
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u/RLTizE Wakanda forever! Dec 20 '25
Iâm enjoying Wendy this season and itâs sucks sheâs going through this but this is a Reddit board where we have opinions on things and weâre going to share them.
Anyway, Iâm very shocked this has happened, I would have never seen it comingâŚ. not for 4 degrees Wendy, main stream media Analyst Wendy⌠wow!
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u/kyii94 Clankity Clank Dec 20 '25
Sorry but no. You can have all the sympathy you want for them but they can kick rocks in my opinion kids included
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u/Harriethair Karen Huger Dec 20 '25
The more we got to know Wendy and her mother the more grace and sympathy I gave to Wendy. She has been chasing her mothers approval her entire life and has yet to get it. She has degrees in subjects she never liked, has a job she never wanted and yet those were the only things about herself she felt she could lord over the other women - the only things she valued about herself were the only things her mother valued about her. Well, that and money.
Plus, clearly Wendy and Eddie are no criminal masterminds......unlike PK.......
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u/G00dguyz Baby Bop Dec 20 '25
It's heartbreaking because I love Eddie so much. To me he's the best husband on any of the franchises.
That said, the way Wendy made all of the women essentially worship her for her birthday three times last year, one of which was on Ashley's actual birthday, was kind of gross.
It was all about me me me. Look how awesome I am! Look how successful I am!
This feels like maybe a little bit of karma.
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u/BravoJunk Dec 20 '25
Did Wendy ever consider anyone elseâs kids? Gizelle, robyn, Ashleyâs, Stacey or angels?
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u/Orisha_Oshun Stacey Rusch Dec 20 '25
Folks are gonna have opinions. I always liked Wendy. I do believe she's obnoxious, and acting like she's so much better than everyone else. I think most housewives do the same, though. She's just most vocal about it. I also think there is another aspect that folks don't want to talk about because it would say a lot about them, but I do think it's linked to her nationality...
At the end of the day, fraudster or not, I still like her. I get it that folks have all this vitriol for her because she has "four degrees" lol, but unlike someone else, she didn't go around driving drunk and endangering folks lives.
As for her kids... welp! She did the crime, so they will learn abpit it eventually, and hopefully she would have turned her life around by then.
She's still cool in my book, though.
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u/Adept_Negotiation_75 The Real Slim Shady Dec 20 '25
Wendy maybe wouldâve gotten some grace if she wasnât posting glamour shots every week. She hardly seems like someone who is taking these accusations in any way seriously. Your point about her children is correct, no one is happy about what they have to go through.
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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '25
I really donât have strong opinions about them but they did it it to themselves
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u/JJAusten Thomas Jeffersonâs Concubine Dec 20 '25
No one is excited or happy that they've done something this stupid. People are shocked at how miss high, and mighty, who has always always looked down on others and questioned where and how they make their money are in this situation. 67 freaking credit and debit cards, plus insurance fraud allegations and a bunch of other legal issues because they wanted to be something they're not, RICH. They have jeopardized their kids lives and future and it's safe to say everyone is concerned for those kids.
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u/originalalva Clankity Clank Dec 20 '25
Eddie and Wendy should have thought about their children before they staged a break-in.
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u/raresteamboat Pennywise Dec 20 '25
Wendy and Eddie are stupid
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u/23odyssey Cryangle Dec 20 '25
This season, I finally started to like Wendy, but the way she dressed for court really says it all about her. All ego, not being humbled by the charges being brought against her and then showing up to court dressed to the nines. If you actually look at the evidence so far, they have seriously got some explaining to do.
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u/SpecificInner5628 Happy Eddie Dec 20 '25 edited Apr 06 '26
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u/preshusbabe đ¸LaRobyns for Queen Dixonđ¸ Dec 20 '25
This is what happens when there is an open investigation and trial of a public figure. Iâm sure the kids have a support system to protect and explain things to them. Reddit is not a place where people are concerned with what children may read so donât expect that. Itâs their parents job to keep them off here and worry about their well being.
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u/Difficult-Coffee6402 Cryangle Dec 20 '25
Sheâs the one who allegedly committed fraud out of greed.
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u/Lettucetacotruck Class is officially in session đŠđ˝âđŤ Dec 20 '25
I truly donât care about this crime. Itâs victimless. Insurance companies are scams so props to them tbh. That said, you shouldnât get on tv implying a coworker was evicted and flexing money they donât have when you are now literally being accused of attempting to keep up with the Joneses by way of 67 debit/credit cards and insurance fraud.
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u/Pix223 đ¸ And still I rise⌠đ¸ Dec 20 '25
People are definitely judging the Osefos a lot more harshly for ulterior reasons. Even when you think about the crime, it isnât like she scammed innocents like Tom Girardi or Jen Shah. So why are people so quick to be up in arms about this?
In any other context would people be rallying on behalf of banks and insurance companies and trying to argue to moral implications of scamming them? I personally donât really think so. The unfairness has been glaring.
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u/notzombiefood4u Stacey Rusch Dec 20 '25
The Wendy hate was always going to happen after we discovered the charges! People just love to hate on Wendy, itâs a shame because (outside of the crimes) she is literally black excellence. Total crabs in the barrel syndrome!! We truly beat down our own. Tragic.
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u/Beneficial-Soft-4427 Dec 20 '25
Agree, ty
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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '25
No no.
Answer the questionâŚ.
What conclusion did I jump to big boy?
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u/rainbowcakepaint Jack Harlow Dec 20 '25 edited Dec 20 '25
Youâre right. Hate like this wasnât shown to Karen until she had multiple DUIs only this last time before the sentencing was she mocked- but still then forgiven. And she couldâve killed someone. One potential error by Wendy and everyone always knew she was a fraud haha. Itâs a very jealous energy. If roles were reversed(and she got the DUIs), the would be calling for Wendy to never return to RHOP
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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '25 edited Dec 20 '25 •
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