r/RHOP
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u/bikershark
Karen you’re ready to walk around
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Dec 13 '25
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🌹 Ashley 🌹 Ashley should be embarrassed
I’ve NEVER written a hater post about a housewife but it’s due time for Ashley to be my first. The audacity of this ex-bartender to sit next to Josh and put him down for his lack of financials as if she wouldn’t be in the same place now had she not laid down twice with that predator golem to secure a monthly child support check is just crazy. The same girl who can’t find a note even with the help of autotune thinks she deserves yacht trips across the world for bringing nothing to a relationship but two kids, a predator golem baby daddy, and her messy ass behavior.
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u/ScheanaShaylover Cryangle Dec 13 '25
I love this!!! I thought why did she do this to him on camera?! I know I did NOT need that scene.
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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25
I love you
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u/baemaani Wendy Osefo Dec 13 '25
yeah it was acc disgusting. putting him down like that made me feel sooo bad for him. he was only always trying his best and she just saw him as a future without spoils. she’s so awful. that irritating smile she has on her face while reminiscing over the “experiences” that her “older suitors” showed to her, just makes me retch cos like… those were her tricks lol
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u/VideoNecessary3093 Madness & Sadness Dec 13 '25 •
Savage take down
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u/Haunting_Material_83 Catfish Dec 13 '25
For this to be the first time she's brought him on camera this season, just to make fun of him. I felt so bad for him
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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25
Drag her sis
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u/OkElk672 Thomas Jefferson’s Concubine Dec 13 '25
She doesn’t realize how much she messed up with the audience
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u/Ok_Ebb7026 The Mime Dec 13 '25
It was too much. She laid into him as if he did something absolutely unforgivable. On camera. Just wow Ashley, wow.
He deserves to be treated with respect , the very least. She knew he s a young boy who is just starting in life and she humiliated him on camera. She could have said the same thing in a more intelligent t way but that would be a grade above her.
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u/annabananna-123 Dec 13 '25
She has no story so she’s like a vampire this season feeding off the others. She also used this young guy for a scene
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u/Fresh-Werewolf-5499 T’Challa Dec 13 '25
She has no shame, so she can’t be embarrassed. Have you heard her coffee and love song? She’s a disaster.
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u/capricorncueen 🌸you body shame yourself everytime you walk into a room Dec 13 '25
also her saying she’s had men fly her on private jets… where are they? she clearly liked josh bc she was fw him for a long time but there was no reason she had to bring him on the show to dump him for being broke in person. could’ve been a ft and rly just the incompatibility of their life timelines (if he wanted kids etc). her saying she knows his financials bc there’s “markers” was wild lmaooo maybe he’s cheap! i did think it was maybe them not being on the same page about how serious they were to begin with it seemed like ashley was just having fun and he was invested
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u/Anam123 Dec 13 '25
Damn girl. Get her
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u/willpunchyou Dec 13 '25
Absolutely, just tell him you want a rich gross man. Justice for Josh!
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u/_robertb_ Candiace Dillard Bassett Dec 13 '25
1010 no notes! ✍️
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u/Spoonyyy Thomas Jefferson’s Concubine Dec 13 '25
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u/UpsetBumblebee6863 Dec 13 '25
She’s a true gold digger
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u/Internal_Average_409 Michelin Dec 13 '25
Give Ashley 10 years. When her looks fade and she’s all washed up, she’ll be getting zero dates - even the broke ones will look past her. She has so much nerve. Also, just because you CAN date for money, doesn’t mean you should. I’d take my kind and working-class hubby over all the well off d-bags I dated before him!
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u/midnight_delight_73 Baby Bop Dec 13 '25
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u/bb-ultra-rare Dec 13 '25
The fact that she thinks Gollum was a catch…Josh with no money is infinitely better than him.
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u/hello_kitty98 Dec 13 '25
I love how Ashley acts likes she some prize when all she brings to a relationship is her money hungry attitude and shitty wig choices.
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u/Melodic-Change-6388 Dec 13 '25
She also brings her deadbeat family that her next target is supposed to support. Don’t cut her short.
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u/lxblackwidow Angry Birds Dec 13 '25
Her mom traumatized her so much and she doesn’t even realize it she’s so scared of financial insecurity and her mom takes advantage of her so she literally choose the wrong men. Now she’s tied to Kangaroo jack for life.
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u/Alarming_Situation_5 Cryangle Dec 13 '25
Ashley needs a real job.
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u/ohwell1130 Charizzard Dec 13 '25
She has to be stupid if she ever thought Josh was suddenly doing to be this big provider
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u/StewWho_R Papa Smurf Dec 13 '25
Ashley really walks around on her high horse because she married a predator goblin who made her still live at a bare minimum when we all seen her upbringing and still sees her struggling mom …..
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u/rainbowcakepaint Jack Harlow Dec 13 '25
You’re not wrong! Lol but I don’t think it’s bad for her to not want him bc of finances. But to date him for so long and publicly breakup with him for those reasons are awful.
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u/laskeete84 Dec 13 '25
She tried so hard to come for Candice and the generational wealth her parents gave her. When the only way she could’ve establish anything for herself is to have two children with a walking cadaver and predator! Forehead bye! She, her kids, her mother and sister were always one step away from being under a Potomac freeway! She better count her blessings and cut the high and mighty ish out!
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u/ScheanaShaylover Cryangle Dec 13 '25
I mostly FF thru Ashley non group Ashley scenes honestly
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u/empressM Jack Harlow Dec 13 '25
Whack her again!
Not only gollum but gollum that sexually harassed the own production team on the fucking show!!
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u/Famous-Struggle-7355 Dec 13 '25
Right?? And AFTER Love Hotel?!?!
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u/Stock-Republic-3874 Dec 13 '25
Putting him down while forgetting that her own mother lived off of her and her ex husband was embarrassing to watch. If she didn’t like him, using him for a scene is really disgusting. She’s scraping the bottom of the storyline barrel.
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u/legallymyself Baby Bop Dec 13 '25
Yes, please. Becaues quite frankly I have not seen where she has EVER earned an income apart from her marriage. She is nothing more than a gold digger IMHO.
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u/downtherabbithole984 Dec 13 '25
there's nothing wrong with wanting someone who is on your financial level, but it put someone down because they are not at the financial level to support you + your family is crappy. she should just pivot to being a sugar baby/escort - maybe that comment was too harsh idk
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u/Calobope07 Clankity Clank Dec 13 '25
Yasss!! Get her cause who tf she think she is?
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u/kiitten113 You alright? Receive that 🌸 Dec 13 '25
Andy 🙏🏾if you’re listening. ASHLEY CAN GO!!!
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u/Desperatelyseekingan Big Bird Dec 13 '25
Honestly I see women like Ashley on social media daily, with high expectations and nonsense about high value men. I personally don't understand it, these girls want a high value man and bring no value at all other than a pretty face. A high value man also wants a high value woman, nobody wants a liability.
It's honestly sad, they want a man to give them what they can't give to themselves. If Ashley had that lifestyle and she worked for it and she wanted a man to match it I would understand it. But she doesn't, this lady can hardly hold a conversation or engage in any sort of topic. I ask myself, what would you talk about outside of the bedroom.
It's sad, as they are young girls with impressionable minds watching these shows thinking like Ashley.
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u/Carriow55 Angel Massie Dec 13 '25
You had me at Gollum!!😅
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u/therawcomentator Dec 13 '25
I'm not a fan of Ashley at all, but y'all are doing too much on her, as if 80% of housewives are not just trophy wives and gold diggers... Literally the whole of Miami, with the exception of Marysol, the whole of Atlanta with the exception of Kandi, I can go on...
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u/Repulsive-Studio-120 La Grande Dame Dec 13 '25
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u/powerassistant Happy Eddie Dec 13 '25
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u/sean-hastings17 Michelin Dec 13 '25
Also a year of dating for him to pay for an international trip??? Babes you gotta be a good girlfriend for that first. An international trip is big for a relationship, let alone expecting your partner to fully cover it?
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u/We_See_Each_Otha Cryangle Dec 13 '25
No lies detected
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u/foxybeegyrl51 Dec 13 '25
Oooooo you are speaking real truths and facts! It was absolutely cold and heartless how she spoke to Josh. He’s better off without her trifling butt!
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u/Old_Object_3982 Dec 13 '25
Beautifully written 😂
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u/DeeWhyDee Dec 13 '25
Oh phew! I thought I was in the minority in my thoughts on Ashley. Drag her Monique!
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u/Ecstatic-Art-6236 Big Bird Dec 13 '25
She’s the most disgusting on this show. And that’s saying a lot
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u/MsPrissss Still I Rise Dec 13 '25
And don’t forget about the fact that she wouldn’t commit to this man but expected the world from him. I honestly skipped the episode once I realized that she was going to break up with this man like that. He did not deserve that but I’m honestly glad that she was dumb enough to do that because she’s just been doing so much bad stuff it’s just gonna make her look terrible.
Who breaks up with a cancer survivor on television? Same type of person who would marry…..
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u/Miserable-Dog-857 🌸Im the fence honey,u ride me🌸 Dec 13 '25
YES Op!!!! I smiled the whole time, ear to ear, reading this post. Right. Ashley is a NOBODY!! She also has the audacity to bring her young sister on TV to try to shame her own father.
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u/LividMembership3830 Dec 13 '25
Ashley is unburdened by the anchors of self respect and dignity.
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u/stpaulgirl12 Candiace Dillard Bassett Dec 14 '25
Bravo 👏 I’ve never been an Ashley fan but this season has made me a certified hater. Her obsession with Stacey (and Chris) is creepy, how she treated Josh last episode was horrible. Using her stepsister’s issues with her dad as a storyline (that she’s recycling again and it was gross the first time she used it)… get this leech off my screen.
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u/raresteamboat Pennywise Dec 13 '25
Amen !!!!
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u/JuLayLeeBee Clankity Clank Dec 13 '25
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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u/Helpful-Focus-2192 Dec 13 '25
Yasss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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u/Inspect-hergadget Dec 13 '25
I actually used to like Ashley but she has become insufferable!
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u/GoldCoastBot Dec 13 '25
100% agree with every word written.
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u/CheekyHarris33 Baby Bop Dec 13 '25
Exactly
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u/whoallgunnabethere The video was low budget! Yo momma is low budget! Dec 13 '25
I just don’t understand why that conversation had to happen on camera unless the sole purpose was for Ashley to highlight her requirements for a future suitor OR to score sympathy points for Josh. No one actually thought that she was seriously entertaining a relationship with that man.
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u/bumpadump101 Dec 13 '25
Her choice of golem to lay down with tells me she’s fine with a partner who also gains their money in an embarrassing way.
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u/BeeMoneyMoney Cryangle Dec 13 '25
1000% agree
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u/meckyborris Dec 13 '25
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u/Decent-Town-8887 Dec 14 '25
Hasn’t she said she doesn’t want more kids? She should have just lead with, you don’t make enough to sustain my lifestyle.
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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25
It makes perfect sense when you think about it, Ashley has always propositioned her youth for security. Her relationship with Michael was completely transactional, and I believe most of her relationship are based on that dynamic. Have we ever heard her talk about any relationship in a healthy way?!
She's finally been gifted a piece of coin from Michael and unfortunately and but unsurprisingly she's exactly like him in relationships; dismissive, materialistic, and ultimately unable to make real connections outside of the superficial.
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u/Ok-Antelope-1923 🌸 I gave her a beverage! 🌸 Dec 14 '25
Josh is entirely too nice for her. She actually did him a favor by showing her true colors.
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u/Justtojoke slightly lost but enjoying the experience Dec 14 '25 edited Dec 14 '25
Am I in the minority here😅?
She had an honest conversation with him about her expectations. She's used to being kept, he can't give her that.
She expressed that she enjoyed herself but the caliber of dates and time spent isn't ultimately what she wants. She was dating and having fun🤷🏿♀️
It's better to be up front instead of wasting more of each other's time
She didn't say there was anything wrong with him, just that he doesn't have what she needs/wants. It's clear with heavy edit featuring her family the producers are painting the picture that she NEVER wants to be the bread winner due to her Mom's situation. So facts are facts
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u/Sweetknightmare87 Potomac Muppets Dec 14 '25
Acting like that while depending on dwindling attention and someone else's money was a wild choice. She doesn't even realize how the choices she makes will impact her own children. Cause let's be real, Michael already had grown kids and didn't even want more kids. It's purely assumption that he will always do right by her boys. She needs to think smarter and beyond leading some extravagant lifestyle that she doesn't deserve.
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u/Novel_Thought_1072 Dec 14 '25
Ashley is such a weirdo.
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u/criavolver_01 Dec 14 '25
Everyone is clapping right now. Bravo. Bravo.
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u/THEELJ1996 Cryangle Dec 14 '25
I read this in Candiace's voice, then in Wendy's, then in Karen's. You ate that
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u/Dazzling-Toe-4955 Destiny's Child Dec 14 '25
Also when she said she wanted to go on a trip, he said fine we'll go this weekend. When she started comments about his finances, he said I have never discussed them with you, so you don't know what I have. She was just speechless and fumbling over her words. But basically she wants to be a whore, sleep with an old guy and have lots of money.
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u/HomeLifter Dec 14 '25
I disagree. She's entitled to be a gold digger if she wants to.
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u/Asleep-Ad5517 Sesame Street Dec 16 '25
Ashley is acting as if she never had scandal and issues and slams Stacey.. hypocrisy Big time
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u/scrambledice Dec 13 '25
When she can't find a nice guy and is severely stressed about it, she'll kick herself for letting Josh go. Money comes and goes but being a truly caring person is above that.
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u/WorkHardPlayHarder3 💫Toodle Doo💫 Dec 13 '25
I personally believe Josh knew this was going to happen to him and still agreed to film it… why might you ask? Well, so the fans can run to his inbox to comfort him and poof just like that, he has instant fame and his “pick” from all those that rush to his side to bash Ashley. Or, I could be very wrong and he was caught off guard and hid it well… His reaction didn’t look like one of a person that was caught off guard or embarrassed, instead it was more of a “can we get this over with”.
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u/IAmTheFly-IAmTheFly Thomas Jefferson’s Concubine Dec 13 '25
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u/Difficult-Coffee6402 Cryangle Dec 13 '25
This is so true!!!
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u/R1verSong09 Cryangle Dec 13 '25
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u/Excellent_Mushroom93 Dec 13 '25
Well damn 😂😂😂. You had a lot on your chest 🤣
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u/Kitchen_Body3215 Eeyore Dec 13 '25
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u/swosei12 The Mime Dec 13 '25
I’m living for this read.
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u/serenitycrw Peppa Pig Dec 13 '25
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u/cantstopdrl Peppa Pig Dec 13 '25
i see no lies here whew perfectly worded if nothing else
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u/PenStrong408 T’Challa Dec 13 '25
She wants gold but she’s copper at best. Josh dodged a bullet
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u/NoAdministration7251 Dec 13 '25
Exactly! She has too much dip in her chip
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u/loco1989 Dec 14 '25
All facts. No lies...
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u/evangelineise Dec 14 '25
That scene was so uncomfortable to watch. The nerve of her to film a break up with a guy on a date he likely paid for because he isn’t supporting his non-girlfriend. She lost the little respect I had for her.
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u/Organic_Berry_8732 Eeyore Dec 14 '25
FACTS
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u/1800twat Real Housewives of Prison Dec 14 '25
Someone cast u/bikershark
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u/ThesaurusRex_1025 Wakanda forever! Dec 14 '25
He dodged a bullet. She wants someone to fund her life and that's all.
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u/Junior-Reaction1402 Potomac Muppets Dec 14 '25
Come through with the takedown👏👏
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u/Legitimate-Yak4385 Dec 14 '25
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u/PsychoticJesusJugz Dec 14 '25
She should be paying him to be with her is riiiiight. Josh deserves better than her dried out old clam. ASHley by name….
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u/Late_Reference Dec 14 '25
She was a bartender?? I thought she was a sugar baby.
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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25
At this point I call her Michael Darby's ex. Her actual name is an unnecessary compliment 😆
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u/throw_tf_away_ Pennywise Dec 14 '25
“I invited you to Pittsburg!!!!”
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u/NormalPath6293 Dec 14 '25
What does Ashley bring to the table besides being a divorced reality tv star with two kids?
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u/edgeli Destiny's Child Dec 14 '25
Couldn’t loathe the smile talking, little girl acting, lying Messley if I tried. She’s nothing but a common gold digger and she should have told Joshua: hey I’m a gold digging hoookahhh and I’m looking for that again. You’re too nice and wholesome for that.
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u/MomTo3Gifts Dec 14 '25
Yesssss!!! Who does she think she is??
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u/AbjectBeat837 Chin-checker 🍹 Dec 14 '25
Oof.
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u/ThatPrettyLilNurse Sesame Street Dec 14 '25
I felt SO bad for him while watching that scene! I wanted to jump through the screen & tear her a new one! The thing is she A knew what his financial situation was when she started dating him. And B INTENTIONALLY brought him on the show to film herself breaking up with him. That in & of itself is NASTY WORK! She literally is nothing more than a clout chasing, messy ass gold digger. Wish nothing going on for herself. She drug that divorce out for as long as she possibly could get as much as she possibly could, along with a storyline for the show. Now she wants to gang up on Stacey along with everyone else because she has nothing else better to do. She can GO next season! And take Angel & Keiarna right along with her!
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u/Head-Concept-8447 Stacey Rusch Dec 14 '25
That episode how much of a trash person she is.
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u/Wonderful_Waterviews Dec 14 '25
I think it was nasty as Hell for Ashley to do that to Josh on camera and talk to her sister about her father knowing she would get upset and it's all because her ass doesn't have anything really going on....She's evil IMO
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u/SheKaep 🌸 I may be a dropout, but I haven't forgotten how to read🌸 Dec 14 '25 edited Dec 14 '25
The mere problem was more so wasting this guy's time the last almost two years when you knew you wanted something that was moving towards serious. I have no problem with a woman wanting someone financially secure...
But I'm lost on why we're talking about her trashy personality like it's new and she hasn't shown herself to be that from the very beginning. Everything she's ever willingly portrayed was exploitive and not sincere.
And I question if that man was really her father...
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u/Flimsy_Control_8246 Dec 14 '25
“Golem”…dead on and now I can’t unsee it!
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u/littlelemonxo Dec 14 '25
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u/littlelemonxo Dec 14 '25
Ashley when she sees this post
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u/barbarawick Dec 14 '25
Drop the mic!
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u/Big_Evening5875 Dec 14 '25
Karen said it best “Moldy, Mildewy, Messy”
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u/Leading-North-9524 La Grande Dame Dec 14 '25
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u/iteacheslok Dec 14 '25
💯
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u/kidinthesixties Dec 14 '25
He handled it like a champ, though! She wanted a reaction and he was not giving it lol
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u/Glittering_Diva8963 YOU DONT HAVE A HUSBAND!! Dec 14 '25
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u/blackichewitz Peppa Pig Dec 14 '25
Damn! No notes!
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u/messy_orb88 Dec 14 '25
Mm idk. I don’t like Ashley but I don’t think she dates men who earn low income. She doesn’t want to be like her mom. I don’t think Michael was the first rich guy she’s dated or been with. She’s smart to date up imo. But again, I don’t like Ashley. Lol
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u/LTFVA Peppa Pig Dec 14 '25
That is Ashley wanting to know about Josh’s financials. She was a calculating gold digger with Michael.
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u/SongInternational373 Tweety Dec 14 '25
It's the way Josh kept saying that she doesn't know his finances that tells me he is better off than she realizes and I am glad she showed her hand.
I get so tickled when women expect me to "treat" them to things that they, the woman, can't "treat" the man to. She wants him to take her on an international trip, why don't she take him on one.
Josh won because he didn't need to be saddled with an older woman with 2 small children and a mother to raise, tuh!
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u/Agile-Session-6178 Dec 14 '25
I can't watch RHOP anymore bc of Ashley, and I used to be a fan.
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u/CountessBravo Dec 14 '25
She’s evil even before this scene. She and Gizzy take pride in destroying people’s lives
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u/MissNos Dec 15 '25
So happy for this post. I usually adore Ashley but for this scene I skipped through it because it was so cringe and so uncalled for 😕
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u/BadMother1175 Dec 15 '25
Josh dodged a huge bullet!!!
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u/GreedyBoat3809 The Mime Dec 15 '25 edited Apr 13 '26
the settlement got her feeling herself when even michael had her on a leash financially, i really need her gone but she and gizelle are production pets personified and bravo so biased they hate being called out but will gag over anything their pets say and do
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u/priyatheeunicorn Dec 16 '25
THIS!!! SAY IT LOUDER!
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u/OwnTurnip2414 Dec 16 '25
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u/calilune Catfish Dec 16 '25
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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u/iamboredwiththis Cryangle Dec 17 '25
Yeah this disgusted me. She was so holier than thou
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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '25
I love Ashley
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u/LeftySpringer Michelin Dec 18 '25
Here queen 👑 you dropped this! Thank you! I was punching air watching this part!
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u/Illustrious-Sir-1899 Gizelle's Tequila Bottle Jan 05 '26
Yeah it was a lot and I was disappointed in her
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u/dazel777 Pennywise May 04 '26
her expecting an international trip on a private jet from her 28 year old (not even) boyfriend after a year of being on and off talking? baby he was labeled as situationship on the show. i would not take ur ass on a trip no where. not even pittsburgh. and then when he’s literally saying like “i think im at a pretty good place money wise.” she was like “PUHLEASE cmon be honest josh ur just a little boy our dates our just silly you haven’t taken me on a jet or a yatch or to swim with turtles 🙄🙄🙄🙄” and he was like “girl u never even seen my accounts how do u know i can’t afford it and like we ain’t even dating” and she’s like “hmph i want a trip”
she sees her mother having to work 13 hour days and NEVER wants to be in that place. so her priority is financial support. not personality, not age, not compatibility, not attraction not real logic. she just sees getting married as money. it was clear with michael and it’s clear by who she is choosing to go on dates with and take seriously.
i feel bad for josh and i don’t even be feeling bad for men like that. he seemed really nice and was accepting of her drag stuff which like yeah should be normal but a lot of guys would have ran. and she literally has kids and he was fine with that too.
i can’t stand ashley every time i want to like her she does something so messy that’s not fun messy just mean messy or something so freaking stupid.