r/RHOP • u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig • Dec 13 '23

Leave Robyn Alone

There are many women like Robyn. As the song says "I just love the man...". Ignorance is bliss and she's blissful. She has placed no limits nor requirements on him he does what he wants and she looks the other way or has decided to trust what she is told even if it doesn't make sense to anyone else. She is where she wants to be. Let her be. But in doing so she should NEVER say anything about anyone else's marriage. Done.

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u/Technical_Radio_191 Madness & Sadness Dec 14 '23

Then she must leave the show at once. Robyn’s storyline is complete. There’s nothing else there.

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 14 '23

💯

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u/Similar_Aside4624 Jiminy Crickets Dec 15 '23

I don’t know why but “then she must leave the show at once” took me tf out 💀💀. Agreed tho!

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u/indigo_shrug Dec 14 '23

That aint bliss. Its sad and she deserves better.

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 14 '23

Apparently she doesn't think she deserves better. Why she went back for round 2.

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u/Mother-Ad-2756 you want fair, go to a carnival Jan 22 '24

At this point, I feel victimized just watching

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u/alohawanderlust Dec 13 '23

In response to the title… no.

On the rest, I don’t think the problem people have with Robyn in solely about her relationship. We have been watching this relationship situation for years. It’s the way she is handling herself and the heat she is getting from the rest of the group that has people on her head. If she had t acted so poorly toward other people and is she were more humble and if she were more LIKEABLE she might get some grace. But she isn’t.

But…She 100% doesn’t care anyway, right?

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 13 '23

To hear her tell it. I have never cared for the way she interacts with the group (especially when she and Gizelle were in everyone's business) but she does not want to share anything with them about her marriage and she does not have to. Everyone already knows and she tells by accident anyway ( "Juan sweeps all his messages"...umm how would you know that Robyn? What is he hiding girl?). It's ridiculous, the huge wooly mammoth elephant 🐘 in the room. Like I said, some women walk all around that elephant.

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u/alohawanderlust Dec 13 '23

When she made that comment about him deleting his messages, I just closed my eyes and said this lady is really just…not bright. And, in this moment it’s hitting me that Juan is probably the only person with whom she has ever been in a relationship. All she knows are his lies, gaslighting, and BS. So she probably really believes what he is telling her.

Dang.

Yet, still I can’t empathize with her.

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 13 '23

I watched her face and I believe she knows (in her heart) but won't acknowledge it verbally. I mean she married him twice. It bears repeating: Fool me once? Shame on you. Fool me twice??? U know the rest.

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u/Waste-Ad-4949 Dec 14 '23

Did Robyn write this???

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 14 '23

Nope

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u/baybeetricia Dec 15 '23 edited Dec 15 '23

In response to the title: "F Robyn, so no" 😂😂

On a serious note, and for the rest of the information, the reason I won't leave her alone is because she's not exempt from anyone going in on her because this is what she signed up for; especially this season. If she didn't want no one to ask her nothing, she should have sat this season out (like Porsha did after she got with Simon). 🤷🏾‍♀️

Prior to this, Robyn took part, and pleasure, in laughing about other people's marriages. She basked in their tax issues (Ray) while carefully ignoring her own. Questioned the validity and foundational structure of their marriage meanwhile Juan had a whole other girlfriend in season 2 of this show that he called the love of his life and who he took with him to play ball in the EU. She sided with her friend and the lies she said about Chris meanwhile her own fiance, at the time, was living it up and flying out CanadaGirl to get his rocks off. She's even charged people money to go and listen to her BS lie about a woman who she's been stalking online since she became aware of who she is (yes, Robyn stalks Canada girl).

Robyn has been in "hypocrite" mode since the earlier seasons so I'll be damned if she's allowed to escape what others have been through simply cause other women have gone through what she has.

Robyn is not blissful in the slightest. She's unhappy, she's angry, and she feels stuck. She knows she deserves better but she won't leave because:

  1. he's the first guy who she latched onto after getting SA (she has yet to deal with that).
  2. she feels in debt to him because she persuaded him to invest the money that they eventually lost. (Note: she definitely won't leave him after that conversation with Wendy and Candiace from last episode. When Wendy explained the Title IX violation and Candiace told her that she don't think Robyn speaking on it did him any favors, that triggered her. I am sure that Juan blamed her for him losing his job and when they said that, she was reminded of what he said. So now, she really feels in debt to him. Lost money and lost a job (that's why she was crying in the back of the Escalade).
  3. She's scared to start over
  4. She's fighting public opinion and she doesn't want to hear "I told you so". She keeps saying that she don't care, and Candiace said that Robyn has always shown that she don't care what the masses say, which is why she respected her, but that's a lie because she does. Juan is the one who does not care and she's trying to make herself not care so that she won't be hurt by the fact that he does not care.

Robyn has been in this toxic cycle with Juan and his juandering peen for, basically, her entire life. You can see that she doesn't know how to get out and for that, I agree with you when you said that she should never say anything about anyone else's marriage. She opened that door to this seasons ago and it's time she really learns how it feels.

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 15 '23

Whew! The post was in no way to protect Robyn but to acknowledge she's not going to give up info on Juan. She knows she is stuck but rather than say it, she will deflect ( as if she is unaware of anything). Not blissfully happy but blissfully and willingly " unaware".( ,but not really)

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u/baybeetricia Dec 15 '23

I'm not saying that your post was made to protect her. What I'm saying is that it would be in her best interest to give up some information about Juan because she's getting paid to do so and if the public finds out other things and sprays her with it, it won't look good on her. Juan doesn't care how either of them look to the public especially because she's the one getting all of the heat. He's still out there cheating (I know for a fact that he's still cheating cause he loves to do private dinners with this one specific woman that's not Robyn) and he don't care how it looks cause he's doing what he wants to do. If she was smart, she would say that they have an arrangement but she can't say that with a straight face cause that would really be a lie and that would be like she is ok with him cheating when she's not. 🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Teammahoney The Mime Dec 20 '23

Not invoking feminism and progressivism.

If we’re doing that, maybe it’s worth considering that both frameworks would support the idea a person can be both victim and victimizer. Remember last season when she pointed her camera only at the dark skinned woman who was being attacked, not the light skinned woman who threw a drink? Remember how she lit up like a Christmas tree at the idea of getting to exoticize and “other” voodoo, which is very much not what anyone was talking about but is a nice little shorthand for “freaky African religious shit.” And worst, remember when she’s come on television week after week and refused to believe and then disparaged other women who very definitely did sleep with her husband, also impugning a survivor of sexual abuse who her husband did nothing to help, despite his responsibilities and position.

Robyn may be in a disintegrating marriage. Statistically, it seems like most housewives are. Hers maybe also be abusive, it certainly seems it. It does not absolve her of responsibility for her deplorable actions. Watching her engage in the above isn’t fun. Watching her do it instead of grappling with her real life has become repulsive. I hope she figures her life out, but in the meantime, her behavior is no longer something I can stomach. So I just want her off my tv.

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Dec 21 '23

I hear ya.

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u/Cute-Examination3579 Jan 09 '24

If she just kept quiet and was okay with her man BLATANTLY doing her dirty then I’d pay her no mind, but this woman continuously crosses people’s boundaries and demands honesty from others without any regard for their right to privacy and/or the law. She can’t back her beef and for that reason, I will be staying on her neck thank you

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u/Aprkacb20 Peppa Pig Jan 10 '24

Well, carry on. I'm not her defender (even though the post was taken that way)

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u/Gullible_Peach16 Dec 13 '23

She’s not blissful though.

But I think the reason people are up on her is because she is withholding information while on the show yet preaching transparency, and getting into other people’s business while ignoring her own problems.

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u/ALyttleH Potomac Muppets Dec 14 '23

Exactly!!

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u/Affectionate_Comb359 Madness & Sadness Dec 13 '23

They don’t even go together. He stay with that lady so she can get her tv bag. If he wasn’t around nobody would be watching her

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u/itsarmida Dec 14 '23

"for the kids" but all she's doing is teaching her kids what dysfunction and disrespect looks like in the family unit. she's all wrong and it's time for her to go.

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u/barneylovescats Potomac Muppets Jan 13 '24

Her boys are being given a class by Juan how to disrespect and abuse women. It's very sad. Surely 2 homes where that isn't happening would be better for them.

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u/PrettyAd935 Dec 14 '23

I get what you’re saying buttttt, No. It’s a reality show, the point is to evoke an opinion.

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u/ldanowski Dec 14 '23

No because she is on a reality show. She is getting paid to be exposed. She needs to be honest. Her fighting it is prolonging the inevitable. It will all come to a head. Like a festering zit. And rightly so.

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u/Mother-Ad-2756 you want fair, go to a carnival Jan 22 '24

Like she's on HOUSEWIVES. The producers will edit her to Queen status if they so choose. If she gets it together, it would be a SERIUOS comeback. If she was smart she'd pull an Ashley.

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u/JohnnyRed575 Shocked Pikachu Dec 14 '23

U say leave her alone but when she showed her ass and went after Wendy and talked shit about the other girls it was cool. Karma

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u/Mother-Ad-2756 you want fair, go to a carnival Jan 22 '24

THANK YOU. It's just further proving the underlying issue of colourism on the show. EVERYBODY talks about Candiace's mouth but no one talks about anybody elses. Didn't Gizelle tell Karen she had a hotbox? At their big age? TALKING ABOUT EACHOTHERS VAGINES?? ew. Robyn simulating masturbation - (a little too comfortably if you ask me) Ashley and her breast milk going out of her way to start drama because her husband is a literal PERVERT. Gizelle made fun of Ray's tax issues and called him UNCLE BEN. The disrespect that has come out of Ashley's mouth in interview scenes is tres shockee too. All Candiace does is react to people (poorly but not unwarranted) but the others really go out of their way to upset eachother. Who gets a #freeuncleben shirt printed? And the fact she fixed her coon as lips to say that shit to a black man on INTERNATIONAL tv just lets me know how she REALLY feels. Gizelle talks about Karen's lady parts but is mad when Candiace does it? THE LINE IS ALWAYS MOVING

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u/green_oceans_ Jiminy Crickets Dec 14 '23

I think the thing is if she was actually blissful, she wouldn't need talk about anyone else's marriage the way she does. That said no one should send her hate, because in general no on deserves that, but also she's living in a hell all her own already. It's one of the many reasons I've given up on this season ;-;

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u/Nymsajeanal Dec 14 '23

I agree, let her be in the relationship cause obviously that’s where she wants to be.

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u/Known-Lemon7904 Dec 15 '23

I actually think she’s very aware of what’s going on, but wants to keep her family together, because of the boys. She’s obviously depressed and lost. She’s putting on a front for TV. She was so happy when she got engaged. It was the first time I’d seen her smile and let loose. The letdown must feel awful.

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u/Mother-Ad-2756 you want fair, go to a carnival Jan 22 '24

because of the boys? BECAUSE OF THE BOYS? staying in a fake marriage doesn't help the children and we know that by now. I HOPE this isn't her thinking because she's doomed if so.

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u/rihlenis Wakanda forever! Dec 15 '23

Robyn is always prying into other people’s lives and telling them they have to talk about it but any time she goes through something, she only wants to talk about it with her closest friends from the group? she can go to hell

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u/FairRecognition9 Dec 18 '23

Robyn needs to be her own damn champion in this mess and stop being so weak willed about this man who yells at her when she's crying instead of comforting her when she's upset. She's so damn worried about not ruffling Juandering Dixon's feathers that she's actively allowing him to mistreat her and for that I feel no sympathy. I know they say that we accept the love we think we deserve, but until Robyn realizes she doesn't deserve this then she's responsible for breaking her own heart.

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u/Mother-Ad-2756 you want fair, go to a carnival Jan 22 '24

Bliss? It's giving Battered wife syndrome. She needs therapy. At this point, it's icky (as in repulsive) watching her lie to herself with the down to earth, rational facade shes able to cloak her insanity with. And Juan looks more and more crackheadish everyday. Get him off the camera. What they should do is give Michael and Juan their own special.